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  • Sunday, February 19, 2012 -- Last Sunday after Epiphany


    TOO BUSY, NO TIME TO EAT

    Mark 6:30-34

    Sometimes life can be hectic. There are days when you don’t know which way to turn first. Too many deadlines need to be met, the phone rings off the hook, which project do you tackle first? Don’t forget all the e-mails, phone calls to be returned and appointments to keep. It seems that people pull from everywhere in all different directions and you don’t know where to turn first. As you bury yourself into work, files and folders, time is passing and the next time you know it, it is 3:30 pm and you feel a bit queasy. Then it dawns to you, that since early that morning when you sat down behind the desk, there was no time to get a refill of coffee or to grab a quick bite to eat at your desk. We are not talking about going out to eat or going through the drive through, but not even to get your fruit or to nibble on the granola bar you keep in the desk drawer.
     
    We might have all had days like this. Days when you don’t know what crisis to face next, which way to turn or which project is more important than the other? It seems all of them are due at the same time--and there are not enough hours in the day to even start prioritizing them.
     
    Sometimes life can be hectic. Sometimes there is not even time to eat. After things calmed down a bit, and you carve 5 minutes to grab a bite to eat, you may sit down and wonder: maybe I should read my Bible and focus on what is really important in life. Maybe in today’s reading of the New Testament I find some inspiration. Hopefully God will speak to me and calm me down in my hectic world.
     
    Our church invites people to read the New Testament in one year--one chapter a day for five days a week. This week we read the chapters 3-7 in the gospel of Mark. If you read this week’s Bible Lesson, and you have had a hectic day on Monday, the daily New Testament reading was not the most calming reading to start of the week. Thursday’s reading wasn’t much better--both time we read that the there were too many people so that Jesus and his disciple didn’t have even time to eat. There is only one short sentence on Monday’s lesson, but the second time around--only 3 days or 3 chapters later, we read it again--this time even more pronounced: Jesus invites his friends and says: “Come away to a deserted place all by yourself and rest for a while. For many were coming and going and they had no leisure even to eat.”

    What is going on? Jesus and his disciples are hurried and have not time whatsoever. Of course, internet or smart phones didn’t exist, but the pressure of meeting all these expectations for others and running out of time is a familiar phenomenon. Jesus and his disciples were busy. In Mark’s gospel, there are lots of different scenes. Mark’s favorite words seem to be: “Then he did this,” or “Immediately Jesus went from here to there.” Jesus and his disciples are always on the move.
     
    Lots of commotion going on. Just before today’s text, Jesus commissioned his disciples to teach and to cast out demons. After a while they all gather back again to report on what the disciples have been doing in their time away from Jesus. Now, Jesus invites his friends to gather to an isolated place to rest from their hard work. All what Jesus’ friends wanted, is to be alone for a while, to catch a breath, to put up their feet after a long day of work. To have some downtime, to share what was happening since they last met, to reconnect and hopefully to recharge their batteries so that they can continue they exhausting and demanding journey as disciples. That’s not too much to ask. We can’t go on 24/7--even though sometimes it seems like we do. But word spread quickly--and many people wanted to see and to hear Jesus and his disciples. To escape from all the hectic and people, they even took a boat – just to be alone for a while and to have to eat lunch.

    But wouldn’t you know it--people saw what they were doing--and all the crowds managed to circle in on the disciples and Jesus. People everywhere--so much for some alone time. No time to eat--not even a few minutes with your favorite people. Imagine you were one of these disciples--absolute tired, exhausted, hungry and desperate for some alone time. You may not just look toward your leader, but also beg him to please--please make these people go away. After all, it is your turn now. Just for a while to get his undivided attention with no interruptions. You’re not asking for much, just to be left alone and to have lunch. Also, meals are much more than waiting your turn in the drive through--to eat together means more than stuffing yourself with empty calories. In Biblical times, having a meal together means fellowship, friendships, and spending time together. Sharing a meal is a symbol of peace amongst people. Jesus himself had lots of meals with different folks--and even today we celebrate a meal to remember Jesus--every time we celebrate Communion.
     
    No time to rest, no time to eat. Not only true for the disciples, but some days are like that even for us. Amazing how similar our issues are--for people in Bible times and us--more than 2000 years later in a different continent. We have all these wonderful time saving equipments, and we couldn’t imagine a live without smart phones with constant internet access, microwaves, ATM machines, fast food and of course the self check out at the grocery store--just to mention a few. But how much time do we actually save with all these different time saving advices? Sometimes it seems impossible to squeeze all what we are doing into 24 hours 7 days a week, Good thing we are going to have an extra day coming up--how convenient to have February 29th on the calendar!

    Tomorrow is President’s Day. In honor of President’s Day--a quote not from a president, but from one of the founding father, scientist, great inventor and also a member of the group which drafted the Declaration of Independence: Benjamin Franklin. Franklin sure was busy--just look at all his many important accomplishments. But despite the fact that he was so busy, he made an interesting comment. He says: “He that can take rest is greater than he that can take cities.” So if even such an important person like Benjamin Franklin honors the need to take some rest, we may have been granted some permission to give ourselves a little break from time to time.

    Even more important than historical figures like Benjamin Franklin, we have another authority giving us an example of what it means to rest.  In the first chapter of the Bible we read, that after God worked and created the world for 6 days, even God rested.

    God took the 7th day--a whole day--off, just to rest from work. Besides that, it is even one of the 10 commandments to observe the Sabbath and to keep the Sabbath holy.

    We also read that Jesus himself went to deserted places to rest and to pray.

    This ancient biblical tradition of taking a day to rest and to pray is somehow rediscovered. Recently, Dorothy Bass, who is a UCC minister, also a historian of American Religion and professor at of Valparaiso University, published her second book entitled: “Receiving the Day--Christian Practices for Opening the Gift of Time.” She encourages us to take our own Sabbath time--a special time during the day, a special day during the week and special time during the year, where we just can do that: Take a break from it all and rest.

    Taking time and resting, in order to get things accomplished? Isn’t this a contradiction? How do I get all these things done while taking some time off? I have things to do and you tell me to rest? How is that going to help?

    What sounds like a contradiction might actually help in the long term. Because taking a deserved rest does not mean we are lazy, but all of us need time to recharge our batteries from time to time. In the gospels we read that Jesus himself retrieved to deserted places. Jesus invited his disciples to rest. And if we call ourselves followers of Jesus, why do some of us feel guilty when we take time to rest, time to pray, or time to play?

    This upcoming Lenten season some people give up things like chocolate or candy. This is all very good and noble. But what about trying a different approach? Instead of giving something up, do the opposite. No, not to add one more thing in your already busy life. Instead of adding one more thing, just add time. Try it out--add a few minutes each an every day, and one day a week. You may wonder what you could do in this precious time? Time you could easily fill with chores or at the computer doing work? What about using this time as your personal rest time--time between you and God, time for yourself and maybe time to say a friendly word or to write a letter to someone you have lost contact with.

    This upcoming Lenten Season I invite you just to do that: Find the up side to down time, celebrate each day that the Lord has made, let us enjoy and be glad in it.

    Amen.
     
    Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
    Westerville Community United Church of Christ
    February 19, 2012
    Last Sunday after Epiphany



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  • Sunday, February 12, 2012 -- Annual Meeting Sunday


    MAKING THE SCENE

    Mark 2:1-12

       What was the typical house in Jesus’ time like?  I’m not talking about places owned by the very wealthy or how those in poverty lived.  I’m talking about houses where those of average means would most likely live.
     
       A good place to find the answer to this question would be in the village of Capernaum, a typical community in Galilee, where people worked hard and enjoyed the fruits of their labor as best they could.  Perhaps that was why Jesus chose to make Capernaum His headquarters as He began His ministry.
     
       The average house there was not spacious—probably less than 800 square feet.  The space was usually divided into two areas—a small room where meals were prepared, and the rest of the house, where everything from sleeping to eating to entertaining guests took place.  It was common practice for homes to be very public places.  Most families opened their front door once they were up in the morning and didn’t close it again until they went to bed that night.  And, as long as that door was open, it was a signal that anyone who wished could just come on in.
     
       The roof of each house was also of a style worth noting.  Roofs were flat.  Beams were placed about three feet apart and the spaces in between these beams were tightly packed with scraps of brushwood and sealed with clay, making them rainproof and quite strong.  In the event of any damage occurring to the roof, that section could easily be repaired.  It was common for grass to grow on the roof—and chairs or even a mat to be placed up there—and almost always there would be stairs to get to the roof.
     
       Our New Testament reading for this week is found early in the Gospel of Mark.  Mark does not waste any time plunging right into telling the stories of Jesus.  By the time we get to the beginning of Chapter 2 and this morning’s reading a great deal has already happened and so much more is about to happen.
     
       We are pretty sure that Mark was in his early teens—about the age of our confirmation students—living with his parents in Jerusalem at the time of the events of Jesus’ arrest, crucifixion, and resurrection.  We are pretty sure that Mark saw for himself some of what happened to Jesus that week, and was naturally curious about this man and wanted to learn more.
     
       Perhaps ten or fifteen years later Mark had the opportunity to travel with some of the early Christian leaders who were trying to spread the news about Jesus.  In these travels Mark not only met the Apostle Peter but then spent extensive time traveling with him and listening to him as he told again and again the stories of Jesus to eager listeners everywhere they went.  At this time these leaders were not concerned about writing the stories about Jesus down in book form.  After all, they were sure that Jesus would return soon and writing would take too long.  It was best just to listen to the people who had known Jesus personally as they told their stories.
     
       Then a great change took place, as the Emperor Nero began the harshest persecutions that Jesus’ followers had yet faced.  These persecutions led to the capture and martyrdom of many of those who had known Jesus personally.  Suddenly there was great concern among the leadership of this fledgling church to have the stories of Jesus written down before they were lost, and Mark—who had listened so long to Peter and knew the stories as well as anyone—was perhaps the best person to do this.
     
       So, sometime in the 60’s A.D., as we now call that decade, Mark went to work on this, and he did so hurriedly.  Yes, we know that Matthew’s Gospel would eventually be placed first in the New Testament, but there is no question that Mark’s was the first to be written.  Matthew and Luke would even use Mark’s Gospel as a guide in writing theirs.
     
       I suggest that sometimes as you read Mark’s Gospel you do so out loud.  Read it yourself out loud or listen to someone else doing so, because this was the way Mark wrote it.  In his mind he could still hear the stories as Peter had told them so many times, and Mark wrote them word for word just as he remembered them.
     
       In his first chapter Mark tells how Jesus first “made the scene” in terms of baptism and temptation, the calling of His first disciples, His first teachings and miracles.   Now we begin chapter two.  Mark takes a deep breath and begins another very important section.  In this chapter and into chapter three Mark now tells five stories that show how Jesus is different from and in many ways stands in opposition to the other religious leaders of His time.  After having “made the scene,” now Jesus will begin to “make a scene.”
     
       The first of these stories is our Scripture this morning, and it takes place, in all its simplicity and beauty, in a very typical family home in the very typical town of Capernaum.  Imagine the story as Mark had heard Peter describe it so many times.
     
       Jesus enters a house and begins to teach, and many people want to listen.  They keep walking in through that open front door until there is no more room inside, and then they squeeze around the outside, wanting to hear everything He is saying.  During His teaching there is a strange but distinctive sound.  Has someone climbed the stairs up to the roof?  And it sounds like not one person but several.  And—can this be—it also sounds as though a hole is being made in the roof!  Now everything stops because suddenly a paralyzed man, on a mat, is being lowered through the hole in the roof and placed right before Jesus!
     
       “What will happen now?” everyone must wonder!  Jesus, seeing the devotion and the faith of this man’s friends, says to the paralyzed man, “Son, your sins are forgiven.”  These words shock the Pharisees—the religious leaders of the day—because they are sure that only God has the right or the power to forgive sins.
     
       These words of Jesus probably shock the Pharisees and probably surprise us as well, but for different reasons.  “Why is Jesus forgiving sins here?” we ask.  “That isn’t what this man or his friends wanted!”  Jesus, however, understands how closely intertwined the mind and heart are with a person’s body and health.
     
       I have often heard people, and perhaps you have, too, in times of great stress or trials say, “God must be really angry with me about something for this to be happening.”  If this is our thinking, then we cannot be open to the blessing that God in truth wants to give us.  So it is that Jesus says, so lovingly, “Son, your sins are forgiven.”  Jesus is saying, “God is not angry with you.”  Jesus is saying, “Allow yourself to be open to the great gifts God desires for you.”  Only after this will Jesus say as well, “Take up your mat and walk,” and this man will do exactly that.
     
      At our Deacons meeting this past week, as we talked about some of the needs and concerns among our congregation’s families right now, we talked most of all about the power of prayer.  We reminded one another that prayer is not the least but the most that we can offer one another.  The inclination is to think of prayer as a last resort in times of need.  Jesus, however, tells everyone, from this paralyzed man and his friends, to the Pharisees protesting what He is doing, to us today trying to determine what is most important—that prayer does not come last but first.  Knowing forgiveness and the wholeness of mind and of spirit is the beginning of the further blessing God wants to bestow.  From this beginning all else can follow—even to having us take up our mat, whatever it may be, to walk and glorify God.
     
       A young boy named Mark, at about the age of our confirmation students, had just enough glimpses of Jesus to want to learn more.  He would be so fortunate as to listen to Peter himself tell countless stories about Jesus—and then would write those stories into a book so that all of us for all time would know these stories as well.
     
       One of these stories was how Jesus “made the scene” and “made a scene” in the most ordinary place there could be—a family home.  In that home Jesus turned the thinking of the Pharisees upside down—and perhaps turns some of ours upside down as well.  Prayer is not the least we can do but the most, because it brings us into right relationship with God.  In this right relationship we understand that God is not angry with us, but loves and forgives and wants us to be whole.
     
       Jesus sees the faith of the friends of the paralyzed man.  They were such friends that they would not let any barrier keep them from helping their friend.  May we also know that through the power of prayer there can be for us as well no barriers that cannot and will not be overcome, because prayer opens us to the infinite love of God.
     
    Rev. Harold Steindam
    Westerville Community United Church of Christ
    February 12, 2012
    Annual Meeting Sunday



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  • February 5, 2012 -- “S(o)uper Bowl Sunday”


    ALL THE LAW AND THE PROPHETS

    Matthew 22:34-40

       Since this is Super Bowl Sunday, I feel the need to begin my sermon with a football analogy.  When an announcer refers to a “Hail Mary Pass,” all football fans know what that means.  In desperate situations a coach has all the receivers on his team run into the end zone, and the quarterback lofts a high pass in that vicinity.  Of course, all the defenders go there as well, and as the pass is coming down everyone’s hands are reaching high in the air, as if in prayer.  (Thus the name!)  This play hardly ever works, because the defense is ready for it.  Even so, there are times when a coach feels that this is his only choice.
     
       In this morning’s Scripture lesson, the Pharisees decide to throw a “Hail Mary” pass.  Nothing else they’ve tried on Jesus has worked, and now Jesus has even silenced the Sadducees.  So it is that one of the Pharisees tries throwing an old question at Jesus: “Teacher, which of the 613 commandments in our law is the greatest?”
     
       Jesus answers the question quite seriously.  “The greatest commandment,” He says, “is to love the Lord your God with all your heart and soul and mind.”  This response is no surprise at all.  It’s exactly what most religious teachers of that time would have said in answer to this question.  Jesus, however, does more than just bat the ball down in defense.  He goes to where no other teacher had gone before.  Without taking a breath Jesus continues by saying, and a second is like it.  Jesus doesn’t just play defense.  He offers an entire game plan.
     
       The first part of Jesus’ answer was exactly what was expected.  “Love God with all your being.”  That was the greatest commandment, most people agreed.  But now Jesus says there is another commandment just like it, a commandment that for most people seemed obscure amid the hundreds of others in Scripture, saying, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”  This is shocking!  To put this commandment about loving one’s neighbors in the same sentence with the one about loving God with all our being—this had certainly never been done before.
     
       But Jesus goes even further than this, saying that it is not one or the other—but the combining of the two—that make up the greatest commandment.  “On these two,” Jesus says, “hang all the law and the prophets.”  In other words, all of their Scriptures are summed up in these two together.  In other words, this must be your game plan.
     
       The “Faith and Values” section of the Columbus Dispatch certainly covers a wide variety of groups.  A few months ago there was a story in this section about an “Atheist Church.”  That sounded pretty strange to me, but it was not strange to those who formed this group.  Some people who do not believe in God found that they were longing for the kind of fellowship and caring and helping of others that are central aspects of many churches.  And so they began to get together, not to worship, but to share these values that they hoped would bring meaning to their lives.
     
       Jesus’ second portion of His Great Commandment may have shocked the Pharisees, but it is embraced, of all places, by a group of atheists.  In their church, it can be said, “They love their neighbors as themselves.”
     
       I am glad for anyone who “loves neighbor as self.”  This alone, however, cannot lead to the fulfillment for which we deeply long.
     
       I remember how my dear friend and mentor in ministry, Bill Hulteen, used to say that many of us in our churches often are tempted to pay more attention to the second half of Jesus’ command than the first.  We seek very much to love our neighbors, but do we embrace and live out the first half in the ways Jesus intended?
     
       In the first half of Jesus’ Great Commandment, He does not tell us simply to believe in God.  That is what most people would say separates followers of Jesus from atheists.  “We believe in God.”  But this is not what Jesus quotes as vitally important.  He does not tell us to believe in God, but to love God, and to do so with all our being—heart, soul, and mind.
     
       As we live each day in love of God—devoting ourselves to God—everything else becomes clear.  Everything else follows, including especially how we love others.
     
       When a counselor works with someone who is at a low point in life, one of the most important things the counselor can do for this person is to help him or her discover their worth.  What is it, though, that gives this worth?  If the counselor simply says, “Oh, you’re a nice person; I like you; you should think of yourself as more worthy,” those are wonderful things to say.  But what is the source of it?  Will this person find that sense of worth from kind thoughts alone?
     
       Consider now the counselor who loves God, who lives in devotion to God, and who knows that God gives ultimate worth to every being created in God’s image.  This is the meaning of our Founding Fathers’ statement about a Creator who endows each of us with “certain unalienable rights.”  Out of this reservoir such a counselor offers the source of worth and thus self-esteem and meaning that this person right now needs desperately.  And even if this person then says, “I just can’t feel this right now,” the counselor answers, “But I feel it and know it.  And I am holding this truth for you until you can hold it for yourself.”
     
       Loving God brings about the love of neighbor, and the love of neighbor is the greatest expression of our love of God.  Today we have the wonderful opportunity of meeting Toni-Ann, an outstanding young woman that we are helping sponsor as a student at Defiance College.  Barriers that once would have been considered insurmountable are now overcome so that she can make the journey not only of many hundreds of miles from Jamaica to Defiance, Ohio, but over so many other distances as well.  It is out of love of God that this love of neighbor happens.  And Toni-Ann, as the recipient of such love and out of her own love of God will in turn continue to extend such gifts to others for the rest of her life.
     
       I began this sermon with a football analogy, and will end it with one as well.  This past week Joe Paterno, the decades-long coach at Penn State University, was remembered and his life honored.
     
       I offer a tribute as well by remembering something I heard Joe say many years ago and that I have always tried to hold in mind and follow.
     
       “When things are going badly, as they are sure to at some time in almost every game,” Joe said, “the temptation is to do something wild, to throw out the play book and try some trick plays.  Instead,” he went on, “when thing are toughest of all or don’t seem to be going right, that is when we need most of all to stay with our game plan.  We stay with what we know is right—and it will bring us through.”
     
       The Pharisees try everything with Jesus—even throwing a “Hail Mary” pass.  Jesus, in response, offers a game plan—a life plan.  “Love God with all your being,” Jesus says, knowing that they say they believe this as well.  “And the second part is like it and completes it.  Love your neighbor as yourself.  On these two—together—hang all the law and the prophets.
     
       Not just believing in God but loving God with all our being—doing so as we love others in fellowship and caring and helping—this is what Jesus calls us to do not only in the easy times but especially the most demanding or troubling of times.
     
       We receive from and give from this reservoir—this basis of your worth and mine—and we do so now and eternally.
     
    Rev. Harold Steindam
    Westerville Community United Church of Christ
    February 5, 2012
    “S(o)uper Bowl Sunday”
    Defiance College Visitation Sunday



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  • Sunday, January 29, 2012 -- Health and Human Service Sunday


    A WEEK WITHOUT FOOTBALL?

    Matthew 16:13-20

       For many Americans the world changed dramatically in 1980.  That was the year that ESPN began to broadcast sports 24 hours a day, seven days a week.  What had until then been an occasional enjoyment—watching a sporting contest on television—soon became an expected, all-the-time occurrence.
     
       Of all sports, the one that increased in popularity and exposure most of all as a result of ESPN as well as other networks vying to broadcast every game—was football, and specifically the National Football League.  In this current season they’ve had a month of exhibition games and 17 weeks of regular season games.  Then, during the last three weeks the NFL had what they call the “Playoffs”—ten games over three weekends, and timed in their broadcasts so that viewers could watch every one of those games.
     
       This of course has now led to the exciting situation of having only two teams remaining—and they will play a game that they guarantee will be so great it can only be called “Super!”  The problem, though, is that to give this “super” game a proper build-up, there is not a playoff game or even a regular season NFL game on television today.  And across our great land I am sure there are literally millions of people asking, “What am I going to do with myself?”
     
       “What am I going to do with myself?  What is important enough to get my attention when the usual diversions are suddenly missing?  And—can anything be so important as to get and then hold my attention from then on?”
     
       This is largely what Jesus is asking His disciples in this morning’s Scripture lesson.  As we follow the Gospel of Matthew to this point, Jesus has called His disciples and they have now been with Him for some time.  To say the least they have heard and seen some rather remarkable things.  Much of what Jesus has done and taught has had the effect of drawing large crowds, and the disciples have often found themselves in the midst of these crowds.
     
       At the time of this morning’s passage, Jesus has taken His disciples away to where He can talk just with them.  He has decided it’s time for them to have a “heart to heart talk.”  “Who do people say that I am?” He asks.  The disciples may not be sure what Jesus is hoping to learn here, but they answer His question.  “Some people say you are John the Baptist, and some say you are Elijah or Jeremiah or one of the other prophets,” they tell Him.
     
       Then Jesus changes the question—and the tone of this conversation.  “But who do you say that I am?” He asks.  Without hesitation, Simon Peter blurts out his response.  “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.”  And Jesus praises Peter for this response as He has praised no one else to this point.  “Blessed are you,” Jesus declares, “for flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven.”
     
       What others have been saying about Jesus—that He is John the Baptist or Elijah or Jeremiah or another prophet—is most likely what these disciples also have been thinking—that Jesus may actually be one of the forerunners for the Messiah.  That is who all the people named here were believed to have been—ones who would predict or pave the way for the Messiah.  Then the Messiah would come to their world some day.
     
       To be that close to someone who was that close to such greatness—this was as much as most people, including these disciples, could imagine.  Perhaps it was as much as they wanted and no more.  But to be actually in the presence of the Messiah and a disciple of the one who was important enough to demand all their attention and not allow them simply to drift to their usual diversions—that would be the greatest challenge there could be.
     
        Now Peter has dared to say it—and Jesus knows that only God could have led Peter to make such a life-changing declaration.
     
       Here we are on the first Sunday without a regular season or playoff NFL game in more than five months—a rather shocking occurrence for many people.   I’ve heard stories about how addicted to televised football some people become.  I don’t know if all these stories are true on not—but here is one that I know is true.
     
       I often sit with couples who try to tell me what it was that had caused them to realize they were drifting apart—to have to face that their commitment to each another did not have the priority it needed to have.  One such conversation I have had involved the woman going into labor with their first child at the time that a football game was starting on television.  Her contractions were now at the frequency that the doctor had told them meant they should get to the hospital!
     
       “But the game just started!” he appealed to her.  “You can stall—you can wait a couple hours—can’t you?”  “I don’t believe it,” she had cried out in response, “especially since what you are watching is an exhibition game!”  “Yes, okay, so it’s an exhibition game,” he agreed, “but it’s the Dallas Cowboys!”  Now, as they got to this part of the story, he turned to me for support.  “She knows how I feel about the Dallas Cowboys!” he exclaimed, waiting for me to agree that in this case this was understandable and it would have been the proper thing for her to find a way to stall for at least an hour or two.
     
       I want to assure anyone in this room right now who has ever gone into labor and wanted to get to the hospital on time that I did not support him in this!  Of course, I am not a Cowboys fan and I do have to wonder if I would have been as strong in my ruling if he had told me he was watching the Detroit Lions—my team—at the time! 
     
       Here we are—on this day without football—and I find myself wondering about the challenges that many people must be facing.  Suddenly there is time available!  What should we do?  Should we actually talk?  Should we—maybe—spend time together?
     
       Three and a half weeks ago, Harold Summers, a devout and loving and much loved man, died after a brief illness.  As I talked with his family we decided that the best time to hold his memorial service would be in the later afternoon of Saturday, January 7.
     
       Soon after we made that decision and began making plans for the service, I realized that the time we had chosen would be during the first NFL playoff game—and that this particular game would even involve an Ohio team, the Cincinnati Bengals.  I have to confess to you that I found myself wondering—“Will people come to church to remember Harold’s life and to worship God—at that time?”
     
       Did Jesus also wonder?  Did He wonder whether His disciples would ever recognize Him and make a true and lasting commitment?  One thing is certain.  Jesus was filled with joy as Peter made the statement he did.  And another thing is certain.  I was filled with joy as people not only chose to worship God in thanksgiving for Harold’s life on that day—but there were far more people in attendance than I had thought there might be even before I realized the timing of the football game.  And nearly everyone who attended stayed afterward as well for the meal and further support of Harold’s family.  People made the right choice.
     
       Jesus goes on to tell Peter that he is the rock on which Jesus will build His church, and that He will give Peter the keys to the kingdom of heaven.  The Catholic Church says that in saying this Jesus was naming Peter the first Pope of the church.  I do not believe that this was what Jesus was saying here, although I agree that He was most certainly saying that this was a very memorable moment.
     
       In this moment Peter knows and declares what is most important of all.  In this moment Peter makes the right choice.
     
       What Jesus’ church—and even more importantly God’s kingdom—would be build upon are people who recognize and profess who He is—the Messiah, the Son of the Living God—and in their recognition then make the right choices in their daily living about what is most important.  There are many times when people must make choices between attending worship and taking part in or watching a sports contest.  We all know about youth sports teams on Sunday mornings and, yes, I find this to be a serious concern.  I am talking, however, about so much more than only this.  I am talking about doing what is right even when all the voices around us are saying something else.  I am talking about not only saying we are followers of Jesus, but daring to live out those priorities.  This is the commitment on which Jesus’ kingdom is based.
     
       Our Gospel story ends in a way that certainly seems strange.  Having been so pleased that Peter made the declaration he did, Jesus now asks His disciples not to tell anyone about it.  Why is this?  Wouldn’t Jesus want them to spread the word and tell everyone?
     
       Jesus knows that each person—every individual who may encounter Him—must have this realization and make this statement and commitment for him or herself.
     
       What is important enough for me not only to give my attention—but my commitment?
     
       This is the question Jesus asks His disciples and the question He asks every one of us.  Each of us must make that determination and commitment for ourselves—not only of what we will say, but of all we then will do.
     
    Rev. Harold Steindam
    Westerville Community United Church of Christ
    January 29, 2012
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  • Sunday, January 22, 2012 -- Appreciation Visit from WARM


    A NEW FAMILY

    Matthew 12:46-50

    Let me start with a riddle: Most of us have one. Most of us live with one.  And all of us were born into one. What is it?
     
    Family--most of us have a family, most of us live with a family and all or us--regardless of our living conditions now--were all born into a family.
     
    Everyone has stories about their family--or to quote an unknown author:  Families are like fudge --mostly sweet with a few nuts in between.
     
    We all know that you can choose your friends, but you can’t choose your family. Or as the South African recipient of the Nobel peace price and Archbishop Desmond Tutu says: You don't choose your family.  They are God's gift to you, as you are to them. 
     
    Nearly every day there is some news about the presidential campaign. We hear the candidates talk about family values and many of these candidates refer in that context to their personal faith. As many of you, I am trying to read the New Testament in one year using our reading guide. One chapter a day for 5 days a week. So I was delighted to discover that in this week’s New Testament readings, Jesus talks about his family.
     
    Christmas is not too far ago and we remember, that Mary was his mother and Joseph his father--but not his biological father. We don’t know much else about Jesus’ family. We don’t even know with whom he is living with him under one roof. We don’t know their names, or anything else about them.
     
    Couple of chapters later we read about his family again. Not much, only a few verses. Jesus may have been in his early 30's. But regardless how old you are, the family unit is very important. One cared for each other and one's parents! That's simply the way it was. Family was a core part of life as a covenant-based community. There was simply no other option.

    While Jesus was speaking to the crowds of people, Jesus’ mother Mary and his brothers were standing outside. Not sure how long they waited to see Jesus or what their expectations were. But it is understandable that they wanted to be with the one who everyone is talking about. Here there are and somebody says to Jesus: “Look, your mother and your brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak with you.”
     
    What would you anticipate from your famous family member? Maybe he is going to introduce you to the people, have a picture opportunity for all to see and maybe some nice words of thanks to what your family means to you and thanking them for their support? Maybe similar to what the presidential candidates are doing on their road trips?
     
    Well, Jesus’ reaction is a bit different. His response: “Who is my mother and who are my brothers?” And pointing to the disciples, he said: “Here are my mother and my brothers! For whoever does the will of my Father on heaven in my brother and sister and mother.”
    Wow! What an answer. Shock value? Big time.
     
    Being a mother myself, I don’t know how I would react if my son--regardless of how old he is--would talk to me like that. Not be very pleased--that’s for sure.
     
    Does Jesus have no respect for his mother?  Not really, because in John’s gospel, Jesus reacts totally differently to his Mom. When Jesus is crucified, just before he is dying, he performs one of the most important tasks child can do for a mother. He provides for her and widens the circle of love and care. Seeing his mother standing under the cross, Jesus tells his best friend John: “Here is your mother--and here is your son.” The family connection, the love and care continues--even though Jesus will be dead.
     
    Coming back to our story and Jesus’ initial response. I’m honest with you--this story of this week’s New Testament passages is a challenge. A challenge to all of us who enjoy a secure, comfortable and close home life. Many of us do live with a supporting, loving family. We are very blessed and can be very grateful. Please don't ever take your family for granted.
     
    On one of my recent trips to Germany I talked to one of my sister-in-laws, Monika, my brother’s second wife, who I don’t know too well, asked me: “There has been always one thing I wanted to know about you. Why did you leave your home country, my family and--and work more hours and only get 4 Sundays off per year and earn less money than if I would have stayed back in Germany? Why are you not coming back to Germany with your family and enjoy an easier lifestyle?”
     
    Good question. I thought for a moment what to answer--then I said: Well, I found something that I never had before. I found something that I didn’t realize I missed. I found something that is very important to me--and I want to pass this on to my children as well. I found a new family. I found people who I feel connected with, people who are like my family even though my blood relatives are far away.
     
    She had this puzzled look on her face. I gave her examples of what I have experienced, why this church family is so important to me. It is not that I feel I gain special privileges or that people are serving me right, left and center. But it is the family feeling--and not being served. In my past I experienced that things were taken care off--that was very nice and I’m not complaining that I didn’t have to do the dishes. But here, where we more like a family, everyone pitches in. We all take turns. In my old church we had staff taking care of the kitchen, taking care of cleaning up after us, taking care of stuff--whatever it was. The staff just did it. All what we needed to do was to show up. It was nice to be served and not to worry about a single thing.
     
    But here, every single Sunday, we have at least a dozen of people working behind the scene who make sure our Sunday’s morning schedule go smoothly. That number does not include more than 50 volunteers who are responsible teaching Sunday School or leading Children’s worship. That number does not include our 120 members elected to volunteer on Boards or Committees. That number does not include those who heat the building and make coffee long before the first service start and many who stay after to count the money we collect and also make sure other members have had coffee hour and all the dishes are put away and the floor is vacuumed.
     
    Monika looked at me with a more puzzled expression on her face: Let me get this straight. You actually pay for doing the dishes? Hey, come to my house and I have some cleaning to do as well.
     
    I tried to explain it to her in a different way: “I have experienced the power of this church family in many ways. When people are having surgery, it is their friends from church who stay with the partner waiting for the results. People from church who bring meals and visit. People from church who help with the practical stuff--like mowing the lawn or providing transportation to doctor visits. People from church who help out --and not only to those who sit together in the sanctuary, but outside these walls as well.
     
    And why? Because we are all part of this family that we call our church. But we don’t only serve ourselves, but nearly every day of the week, our members serve those in our community.
    There’s Faith Mission on Monday (it’s not only serving the meal, but also preparing a healthy meal for more than 50 people), on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday mentors donate their time elementary students at Cassady Elementary School in Columbus. For many of these children the tutors who come during lunch and the coaches who spend time with the kids before and after school are the only reliable and supportive adult in their lives. Or our youth groups include serving projects as important part of their activities as well--from early age on--even nursery age--we teach to use our God given gifts to serve others. There are the many Mission Projects and Mission Trips. People support mission projects locally, nationally and globally. We have 2 grocery carts you fill with goods donated to WARM, different causes in Columbus and Ohio, nationally and of course our support oversees especially the water projects in Sierra Leone. Every year youth and adults spend a whole week of their vacation on Mission Trips repairing homes of people they don’t even know. And the local mission trips--people working on hot summer weekends transforming homes here in the Columbus area. We also have Church Camps and Vacation Bible Adventure with more than 60 volunteers and all those who help in between.
    Monika tried to look interested and just said. “Hmm, that’s interesting. But why do these people in your church do all that?”
     
    Because we are all related--not by personal blood relations, but by something that is much stronger. In a culture where family was everything. Jesus says--no, it's not everything. Blood ties are not the ultimate ties that God measures. But the ties of faith connects us and binds us together. These are the deepest relationship. Eternally deep.  You have been heard: Blood is thicker than water.  I’d like to say: The water we are connected with, the water of our baptisms, is thicker than any other water. Because we all belong to Jesus who commands us to go out and serve the poor, feed the hungry and clothe the naked.  By doing that, by being the church for others, we actually gain much more than what we give. Monika, try it out and experience it for yourself. Come visit and join us.
     
    Not sure if Monika takes me up on the offer, but this offer is for all of us--let’s try to live as the family of Christ sharing the ever-widening circle of Christ’s love.
    Amen.

    Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
    Westerville Community United Church of Christ
    January 22, 2012
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UNLIKE ANY OTHER

Matthew 10:26-33

Sunday, January 15, 2012 -- Martin Luther King, Jr. Weekend 

   This past week as the tragic story about the multiple killings in Hocking County began to make the news, one of the reporters telling this story did so in a way that made it even more troubling for me.  This reporter kept saying that authorities were trying to determine what had led this person to “make the decision” he did to kill his family members.  I then found myself doing something I have never done before, which was to get in touch with this reporter and have a dialogue with him about how he had reported it.
 
   For me a decision is a thought-out, best-a-person-can-do choice for going forward in life.  I could not think of such a horrific act as this as a “decision”—and hoped that no one else would be led to think of it in that way either.
 
   Jesus asked every person He met to make a decision—a “thought-out, best they could do” choice for going forward, and at the time of this morning’s Scripture lesson, this is especially true.
 
   As our church is inviting people to read straight through the New Testament this year, one of the many good things about this is that we can better see how the story unfolds.  We are now in the section of Matthew in which Jesus is calling people to discipleship—and teaching what it means to be a disciple.
 
   There are many challenges facing churches today, with many churches having declines in their numbers.  One very encouraging sign that many religious leaders are seeing, however, is that among people who are members of churches, many more of them are recognizing the call of Jesus to discipleship.  In other words, more people are seeing that just “being a member” of a church alone is not enough.
 
   We’ve all heard the phrase “Membership has its privileges”—and it does, whether at a church or somewhere else.  “Membership has its privileges”—that is what “being a member”—being “on the inside”—means.  Discipleship, however, means much more—and requires much more.
 
   I have here a page from a newsletter we receive each month from a church in another state.  This church is a little larger than ours and is a wonderful congregation, I am sure.  I find myself reacting rather strongly, however, to what is said in this particular article.
 
   In this article their committee in charge of encouraging new people to become members of their church made a list of what current members could tell others about their church in order to get them to consider becoming part of it.  Allow me to read to you their list—eleven things—exactly as they are printed:  “Everyone is welcome wherever you are on your faith journey; Friendly; Spiritual; Multi-areas of stimulating interests; Open and affirming; Compassionate; Great pastoral care; Great musical programming; Great spirit; Excellent educational opportunities.”   Now this is an outstanding list, no question about it.  There is, however, something vital that is nowhere to be found here.
 
   Everything on this list—wonderful as it is—tells what people in the church receive by being members of it.  Every one of these items tells what they are getting or will get by being members.  There is not a single reference to what the church is giving or to what those who join may be asked to give.
 
   “Membership has its privileges.”  “Discipleship has its responsibilities.”
 
   I hope as we think about what it means to be part of this church family that we think about the many privileges there are in being members here.  I pray that we think as much or more about the responsibilities we have right alongside the privileges, because we are disciples of Jesus Christ.  Our “list” of eleven things—or any other number—must tell about the mission projects and offerings we have.  Our list must tell about how we care not only about those within our church family who are hurting, but reach beyond our walls to care for others that we have learned are hurting.  This week, with the tragedy that has affected the Westerville North High School family we have been called to reach out in whatever ways we can to offer our support to them.
 
   The title of this sermon is “Unlike Any Other.”  No one else has ever been like Jesus in terms of what He offers and what He demands.  Not only does He describe the privileges in being God’s children in ways beyond what anyone else ever has, but He also sets forth the responsibilities that go hand in hand with these privileges.
 
   Inter-woven in today’s passage and those leading up to it are both of these components.  “Even a sparrow does not fall without God’s consent and God knows you as intimately as numbering the hairs on your head—so do not be afraid,” Jesus says.  There could be no greater blessing than to be so cared and to know this is true.  And even as He is saying this Jesus also demands that His listeners proclaim to others the blessings that they are receiving as His disciples.
 
   Membership has its privileges.  Discipleship has its responsibilities.  Jesus, unlike any other, defines and proclaims and calls us to both.
 
   I will not tell you that I changed that reporter’s mind completely through my discussion with him about what a “decision” is.  But I will tell you that I proclaimed to him as openly as I could what Jesus had whispered to me.
 
   “Call such a thing a crazed act; call it an act of terror or desperation and certainly a tragedy.  But do not call it a decision.  A decision is what we make as the best that we can be and do—not only for ourselves but also for others.
 
   Jesus is unlike any other in that He demands decisions as no one else ever has.  And the greatest decision any of us can make is to say, “I have decided to follow Jesus—to be His disciple—both for the privileges and the responsibilities.”
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
January 15, 2012
Martin Luther King, Jr. Weekend



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HOW DO WE GET STARTED?

Genesis 1:1-5
Matthew 4:12-17

Sunday, January 8, 2012 -- Installation Sunday 

   Throughout the years we have followed the suggested Lectionary readings in our services each Sunday.  These Scriptures follow the seasons of the year and match our Christian holidays as they occur.  This year our congregation is doing something quite different.  We are following the New Testament straight through—five chapters per week, with a passage from somewhere in those five chapters selected as our New Testament reading each Sunday.  So it is that today, just as Dorothy said in “The Wizard of Oz,” we “begin at the beginning”—with the opening chapters of Matthew, which mark the beginning of the New Testament.
 
   Even as we go through the New Testament this year I also want to be mindful of the seasons and holidays being celebrated each week.  Today is Epiphany Sunday—the time to celebrate the light of God and the fulfillment of God’s promises in the world.  Our Old Testament reading—which is a Lectionary text for today—certainly begins at the beginning.  The very beginning words of the Bible are the text for today, with God saying “Let there be light!”
 
   But now—on this beginning time for our New Testament journey, how do we get started?   On what passage from these first five chapters should we focus?
 
   When I was growing up a popular version of the Bible was called the “Red Letter” edition.  These are still available today, though they are not nearly as common.  “Red Letter” means that in these editions all the recorded words of Jesus are printed in red.
 
   I have my childhood “Red Letter” Bible here—and I remember how fascinated my friends and I were by the words in red.  We didn’t necessarily read them, but we certainly looked at them!  They stood out.  We knew they were most important of all, so we would flip through the Bible looking for the largest sections of words in red.
 
   This week, as our chapters of Matthew include chapter five, we have begun to read the longest section of all that is “in red”—the longest uninterrupted place in the Bible with only words of Jesus.  Right here is the place I liked opening to most of all in my childhood Bible—Matthew five through seven—The Sermon on the Mount—where nothing but red appears on these pages!
 
   Just as I like this section, there is no doubt that Matthew did as well.  Of the four Gospel writers, Matthew was most interested of all in showing how Jesus fulfilled the prophecies of the Old Testament.  Matthew is also most interested in showing how much Jesus was like Moses, the greatest Old Testament character.  Moses went up on a mountain to get the Ten Commandments.  Early in his Gospel, Matthew tells how Jesus also went up on a mountain—to preach His first sermon.
 
   Matthew may have wanted to have this large section of teaching in the manner of Moses be the first words of Jesus he would record in his Gospel.  He knew, however, that he couldn’t do that.  Jesus had said something else first—and everyone knew it.
 
   As I flip through my “red letter” edition I can quickly see that a few brief statements of Jesus are said before the words of the Sermon on the Mount.  Jesus speaks to John the Baptist, asking John to baptize Him.  He makes three statements to the devil in response to each of the devil’s temptations.  And He calls His first four disciples.  All these words are said by Jesus privately.  There is one sentence, however, that Jesus said publicly before the words of the Sermon on the Mount.  For our passage this morning—as we “begin at the beginning”—I have chosen for us to hear and focus upon these first words that Jesus spoke publicly.
 
   Clearly, Jesus had great respect for John the Baptist.  We read that John was the forerunner for the Messiah—just as the Prophet Isaiah had predicted.  Jesus went to John to be baptized.  Now we read in today’s passage that Jesus waits until after John has been arrested—until after John has completed his public ministry—before Jesus begins His own ministry in a public way.
 
   Now—and most telling of all—we read these first public words of Jesus—and they are the exact words that John the Baptist had preached.  “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near.”  This had been the central message of John.  Now it is the opening message of Jesus.
 
   Let’s look a bit more at this passage.  It says that after Jesus hears that John has been arrested, He goes back to the more rural and less sophisticated part of His nation—to the province of Galilee.  Jesus’ home town was in Galilee—the small town of Nazareth.  Now the first thing Jesus does is to move from Nazareth to another small town—Capernaum—and it is in Capernaum that Jesus sets up His headquarters.
 
   I have to tell you—this is pretty dull.  Even though at this time there had long been rumors about a supposed king—even sought by Wise Men—born about thirty years earlier, that was long ago.  Besides that, everyone knew that evil King Herod had done everything he could do get rid of that baby and probably had.  Now someone from the insignificant town of Nazareth has set up headquarters in another insignificant town, and He’s preaching words we’ve already heard from that rather bizarre character called John the Baptist.  Are we to believe that this person now coming onto the scene is the Messiah—the light of the world?
 
   This would be like thinking that someone who had a little office in an insignificant part of Iowa and got less than two per cent of the vote at the caucuses last week will be our next president.  This person’s message is repent—because God’s Kingdom is near.  Can these simple words really be the beginning of changing the world?
 
   Many years ago, about the time I began in ministry, I learned the story of a remarkable church in the Deep South, a church that had become a leader in working against segregation.  For many years this church had been a leader in advancing segregation, but now it was a light of hope to change it.  How had this happened?
 
   For many years this church had been led by a minister who was a strong segregationist.  Week after week he preached that it was God’s will for them to work against allowing certain people into their church or schools or certain other places.  Finally that minister had left, and one of the members of the church was hired to fill in for a while until they found a new minister.  This member prepared for his first Sunday, and his initial thoughts were that he didn’t even need to study the Bible to do this.  After all, he’d heard those sermons for so long that he knew what to say.  Still, he figured he might as well read some of the Bible, and started at the beginning of the New Testament.  Once he did he could not stop.  “I was amazed,” this man later said.  “The Bible didn’t teach all those things our previous minister had told us it did.  It taught something else entirely.  I knew people weren’t going to like it, but I decided I had to tell them the truth and preach what the Bible really said—things they had all been taught to be against, like equality, and brotherhood, and love for everyone!”
 
   “Well,” he went on, “I was right.  They didn’t like it!  Most people who had accepted those other messages were mad and began to leave.  Every Sunday my congregation got smaller and smaller.  Finally,” he concluded, “I preached them down to two—but they were ‘one heck of a two!’”
 
   From those last two remaining members of that church, word began to spread that here was a church daring to preach the truth about Jesus and about the Bible.  New people began to attend and to listen, and some of the former members were moved to come back, until the congregation was stronger than it had been before—a vital, open-to-everyone-church, that had more and more influence in spreading the light of Jesus’ message of love for everyone.
 
   “Repent.”  This is Jesus’ first public word—and it means “turn around”—“go in a different and far better direction.”  Why?—because God’s kingdom is near.  This is Epiphany.  This is the meaning of the fulfillment of God’s promises: “God with us.”
 
   We do not know all that is ahead for us as we continue to read through the New Testament.  But we do know that the possibilities are beyond limit.
 
   From those simple opening words to repent because God is near, the world will be forever changed.  This obscure carpenter from Nazareth by way of Capernaum will indeed climb the mountain in an even more important way than Moses had.  “Let there be light,” God had said at the beginning of creation—and this person, Jesus the Messiah, is that light in the greatest form of all.  Discovering this is how we get started.  And like that member of a church in the Deep South who dared to open the Bible and proclaim what it really said, we also are open to finding how God will change each of us as we allow that light to shine upon us and through us.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
January 8, 2012
Installation Sunday



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JOY TO THE WORLD!

Psalm 98

Sunday, December 25, 2011 -- Christmas Day 

Today is the day--Christmas morning. For many of us, especially children this is the most exciting morning of the year. People all over the world, throughout the centuries are and have been celebrating Christmas. Depending on where or when you live, traditions are a bit different. In the Southern Hemisphere it is summer right now and Santa can't possible come in the snow with his reindeer. When I lived in South Africa, we celebrated Christmas on the beach--with huge picnics in our bathing suits. Traditions and customs might be different, but it is still the same great news. Jesus Christ is born today.

Music is a great way of telling the Christmas story. There are many Christmas carols and we all have our favorite ones. The opening hymn is one of the oldest hymns in our hymnal: “Come Ye Old Faithful.” I remember this was the first one I learned to play on the recorder when I was about 8 years old. The original version is in Latin and nearly 1000 years old. Amazing to realize that a hymn we still sing today has been sung for so many centuries. In the 18th centuries the hymn was translated into English and sang ever since. For many of us this is one of our favorite Christmas hymns.

Another way of telling the Christmas story is through drama. In the 12th century, when the majority of people couldn't read nor write, Francis of Assisi introduced the Christmas pageant. Dramatic play was one way of sharing the wonderful news that Christ was born. Till today, 900 years later, we continue to share the great news to all people via a Christmas pageant.

Today we live in another time. The majority of us are literate and we even use computers as one way of communicating with each other. E-mail, text messages or Facebook is instant communication--we are connected to the whole world via a single click on the computer. A world without computers would be unthinkable.

Have you used a computer in the last week? Have you received an electronic Christmas greeting? Have you texted or updated your Facebook page lately? If you answered yes to one or more questions, you may relate to the contemporary version of the Christmas story as presented on YouTube:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZrf0PbAGSk

It doesn't matter where you live or what medium you use--the message is still the same: Christ is born for us today.

Merry Christmas.

Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
December 25, 2011
Christmas Day



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DON’T MIND THE MESS!

Luke 1:26-38

Sunday, December 18, 2011 -- Fourth Sunday of Advent 

   The first words I hear after answering the phone are, “Hello, Mister Hah-rold Steendoom of Man-goo-ah Drive.  I am authorized by my company to make a wonderful offer just for you!”  And immediately I’m thinking, “Oh, no, what am I in for now?”
 
   We have just “listened in” on the conversation between the Angel Gabriel and Mary as he tells her about the “wonderful offer from God that he is authorized to make—just for her!”  Gabriel is certainly much smoother than any telephone solicitor who has ever called me!  “Greetings, favored one!  The Lord is with you!” are his first words.  Yet Mary’s first thoughts—much like mine sometimes, are “Oh, no—what am I in for now?”   We read that Mary is “perplexed” and wonders “what sort of greeting” this is.
 
   Even though there are similarities, there are also big differences of course.  One is that I had the option not to answer that phone—especially when I saw a strange number on the caller ID.  Mary doesn’t have much choice.  She’s in her kitchen, minding her own business, maybe stirring batter to make some biscuits when, suddenly, someone’s standing right next to her!  Poof!—there he is, and it isn’t the Pillsbury Dough Boy!  No, it’s the Angel Gabriel himself!
 
   I find it intriguing that Mary’s first words aren’t, “Hey, you’re Gabriel, aren’t you! I’ve seen your picture in art galleries!” or even, “Hey, how did you get in here anyway?”  No, she simply wonders what kind of greeting this is—or, as I have often asked, “What am I in for now?”
 
   Gabriel keeps going through his pitch and Mary is trying to absorb it all.  Here is some of what she hears: “You have found favor with God!”  And then there is something about the “Son of the Most High and His ancestor David.”  And—“Did he really say I’m pregnant with this child?  Hey, I know enough about human anatomy and reproduction to know absolutely that I cannot be pregnant!”  On Gabriel goes, however, telling her of God’s incredible power and plans that go beyond our normal understanding—and how those plans also include Mary’s cousin, Elizabeth.
 
   The passage ends with Mary proclaiming the most important words of all—of her amazing acceptance of God’s offer: “Here I am, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.”  These are the beautiful words that Mary says, even though I’m quite certain that as she says these words she must also be thinking to herself, “This is going to get messy!  How am I going to explain this to my friends and my family—not to mention my fiancé!  This is going to get messy.”
 
   Recently commentator Andy Rooney died.  He did many things in his career but came to be known especially for his brief commentaries at the close of the “Sixty Minutes” television show for, oh, the past thirty years or so.  As I heard about his death I thought immediately of what a fan of his my mother was.  She had a four hour VCR tape of nothing but Andy Rooney!  Every Sunday night she had that tape in the deck and the remote in her hand, so that the instant he appeared on the screen she could hit “Record!”
 
   On one of our visits I sat and watched almost that entire tape with her—commentary after commentary about all sorts of things.  What I am remembering right now from all those thoughts he had about all sorts of topics is this one about Christmas.  Andy Rooney said this:  “One of the most glorious messes in the world is the mess created in the living room on Christmas Day.  Don’t clean it up too quickly.”
 
   A “glorious mess”—“Don’t clean it up too quickly.”  That was Andy Rooney’s comment.  Mine would be this: “God works especially well in the middle of a mess.”
 
   The Bible is filled with stories of messes—whether for an individual or a family or an entire nation—when suddenly, out of that mess the greatest of wonders would come about.  I think about my life, and about some of the times that I thought were messiest of all, times when I could not imagine anything good coming about—only to have some of the most wonderful events of my life then come to be.  Perhaps you have had similar things happen in your life.  “God works especially well in the middle of a mess.”
 
   Mary was very human.  She had to be or none of this would have mattered.  The miracle would not have been a miracle.  Mary was very human.  She had to be thinking, “What have I gotten myself into by saying yes to God’s all-kinds-of-strings-attached offer?  This is going to get very messy!”
 
   Even though she knew she had let herself get into the middle of a mess, Mary still made her choice.  “Here I am, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.”  Mary’s choice was to trust God in the middle of the mess—because she knew that, somehow, God works especially well in the middle of a mess.”
 
   Every one of us has been in the middle of messy times in our lives.  Perhaps you are in the middle of one right now.  My prayer is that our first concern in such a time is not just to clean it up and sweep it under the rug as fast as possible no matter what, but before anything else to turn to God and to trust God in the middle of it—to be like Mary and dare to choose to be “a servant of the Lord.”  Then we may discover all that God will do as God blesses us through and beyond that mess.
 
   Let’s start with not cleaning up the “Christmas mess” too quickly—and go from there to discover even more of the ways that God is present in the middle of messes…because, in the Bible, in my life, and perhaps in yours, too, God works especially well in the middle of a mess.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
December 18, 2011
Fourth Sunday of Advent



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BORN OF THE VIRGIN MARY

Psalm 126
Luke 1:46-55

Sunday, December 11, 2011 -- Third Sunday of Advent 

(Reflections on the Apostles’ Creed)

   A current commercial has definitely caught my attention.  The announcer’s opening line is, “No one has a list of websites they hope to visit before they die.”  The commercial then shows people in the vehicle they are advertising traveling to see and experience some very beautiful places.
 
   I will confess to you that I’ve been working on a “Bucket List” myself recently, and, no, there is not a single website to visit on my list.  There, are, however, a number of places, a number of experiences, and a number of accomplishments that are on my list.
 
   So, yes, I find this to be a compelling commercial.  It’s great to look at a website or at a map to tell us how to get somewhere.  But the trip itself—and then the arrival and the experience—that’s what matters far more.
 
   This morning we have recited the Apostles’ Creed, using the version of it that was printed in the Book of Common Prayer in 1662.  In other words, these words “go way back!”  And yet 1662 is only a fraction of how far back the Apostles’ Creed goes.  The tradition about the Apostles’ Creed that was accepted as fact for many years was that it was written ten days after Jesus ascended into Heaven.  The story was told was that the Twelve Apostles—including Mathias, who had replaced Judas—got together, and each made a statement about what he believed.  These twelve statements were written down and became what from then on would be called the Apostles’ Creed.
 
   As I said this story was accepted for a long time as true.  Scholars, however, are now certain that this is not how the Apostles’ Creed was written.  Rather, by piecing together writings from the early centuries of Christianity, scholars have determined that what we know as the Apostles’ Creed came into its present form slowly over many generations, not coming to the final form that we just repeated until at least the 400’s A.D.
 
   We need to remember that until the 300’s A.D. the books that make up the New Testament still had not been finalized, and then when the Bible as we know it was finalized, every Bible had to be copied by hand.  Bibles, therefore, were very rare.  There would likely be only one in each community, and safely kept for use only by a single church leader.  Therefore, a Creed that summarized many of the most important tenets of Christianity was very important for teaching new converts and for having them learn as they joined a church.
 
   Here at our church we teach the Apostles’ Creed to our confirmation students and use it occasionally in worship.  We have done so this morning, and I am lifting up one line from it as the title of today’s sermon, stating that Jesus was born of the Virgin Mary.”  Right after this, did you notice what the next line in the Creed is?  “Suffered under Pontius Pilate,” is the next statement.  In other words, this Creed contains only the most basic facts of our faith.  It skips from a reference about Jesus’ birth to His time of trial and death.  There is nothing in it at all about Jesus’ life or teachings.
 
   Again, the Apostles’ Creed was developed in a time when the Bible was not available to most people, so it contained only the most basic statements.  We today are blessed to have the Bible completely available to us.  And so, while I continue to teach that the Apostles’ Creed and other ancient creeds are important, what is much more important is for us to use our opportunities to read and learn from the Bible itself, studying passages that are hundreds of years older than the words of the Apostles’ Creed, and also that have much more detail and depth of meaning to inspire and teach us.
 
   The portions of the Bible that are our focus this morning are two songs—Psalm 126 and Luke 1:46-55.  Psalm 126 is one of the “Songs of Ascent.”  This means it was a Psalm sung by the Hebrew people when they made their long walks to Jerusalem—their very long journeys made in groups—for the annual festivals of their faith.  “The Lord has done great things for us, and we rejoice,” the people sing in this Psalm.  It also says, “May those who go out weeping...come home with shouts of joy.”  What beautiful and powerful images these are for us today as we make our journey—our ascent—as part of this family of faith.
 
  Today’s Gospel lesson occurs just after Mary has learned the news which is summarized in a single line of the Apostles’ Creed, that she, a virgin, will be the mother of the Promised Messiah.  After hearing it, Mary makes a journey to visit her cousin, Elizabeth, who confirms that this news is true, so that Mary then bursts into song.  We call this “The Magnificat”—because the first words in it are “My soul magnifies the Lord.”  Then Mary proclaims, “from now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Lord has done great things for me.”  Again, what images these are for us to study more deeply for our journey today.
 
   With every group of people who are considering membership in our church, one of the first things I say to them is that Westerville Community is a Journey ChurchSome churches are what might be called Answer Churches.  This means that they believe they possess all the answers concerning God and how we should live, and the people who become part of their church must simply learn those answers.
 
   Our church—Westerville Community—is a Journey ChurchThis means that we believe we are making a journey of faith together—much like those people journeying to Jerusalem and singing their Psalms as they did so.  In a Journey Church each of us is guided and supported by the wider church.  However, each person also has the opportunity and the responsibility to find his or her own faith answers and to grow in personal relationship with God.
 
   This is why we do not require that people becoming members of our church must memorize the Apostles’ Creed or any other creed, or declare that they believe exactly what others do in order to join our church.  Each of us in our journey of faith is to be learning and growing—caring for, encouraging, and challenging one another along the way—in the meaning we find personally in the Bible and in our relationship with God.
 
   I am very grateful for the Creeds that express some of the essence of the Christian faith for us, and certainly the Apostles’ Creed, which is the best and best-known of the creeds.  I am even more grateful that in our church each of us is free to use this and other creeds or examples of faith in order to grow in our own faith journey.
 
   It is great to have a website or a map to give us basic information and ideas on how to get somewhere.  But visiting the website or studying the map is not what matters most, and isn’t on my list of what I hope most of all to do in my lifetime.  Rather, I want to journey to the destination itself—appreciating and find meaning each step of the way.
 
   How grateful I am that today the Bible is readily available for us to use for study, inspiration, and guidance on this journey.  “Born of the Virgin Mary”—that’s concise and very good to hold on to.  But it’s even better to have Scripture itself to hold onto and be the song that leads and inspires us on this journey.  “Number One” on my “Bucket List” is to know Jesus the Christ, who was born to show us the way to the fullness of God’s love.  Perhaps that is “Number One” on your list, as well.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
December 11, 2011
Third Sunday of Advent



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THE FUTURE BEGINS NOW

Mark 1:1-8

Sunday, December 4, 2011 -- Second Sunday of Advent 

Lots to do before Christmas. Writing all these cards, buying the presents, baking cookies.

You don’t need to bake cookies--the church will do it for you--the cookie sale is this Saturday--each pound will be $8.00. All profit will benefit the Debt Reduction.

Oh--that’s good--at least one less chore to do. But still, I need to get the lights on and we can’t find the nativity set neither in the basement nor in the attic. Maybe I have to buy a new one. Have you seen any interesting ones?


Well, to be honest with you--lots of them look the same. There’s always one character missing.

One character missing? What do you mean? Just go back to the store and return the package.


No, you don’t understand. There’s one person in the Christmas story who gets neglected. I have never received a Christmas card with him on it nor have I nativity scene--believe me--I have looked in many stores, online and even in catalogues.

I still don’t understand what you are talking about. Who is missing? Don’t you have the main characters? Mary, Joseph, the baby--the wise men and the shepherds and the angels. What else do you want?


Well, I told you, one family member is missing. Cousin John.

Now you totally confuse me. Who is Cousin John?


John is Jesus’ cousin. John is also known as John the Baptist. He is the one who first told us to prepare for Christmas. You may blame him for all the stress you are making to get ready. John the Baptist appears every year during Advent.

Explain that to me please.


Every year during Advent--the 4 week period to prepare for Christmas, we read about John the Baptist. Regardless which year of the lectionary--that are the suggested texts to preach about--Year A, B or C we are following, we always read about John the Baptist. He belongs to Advent like the advent wreath.

Ok--we hear about John the Baptist every Advent. But why?


Because he belongs to the Christmas story we just read.

Now you really got me--which Christmas story? Where are all the familiar characters? Mary, Joseph and the baby? And the shepherds, and that there was no place in the inn, and all the familiar verses we have been hearing year after year?


Well, there’re not there. The beginning of Mark’s gospel of Mark is totally different--just matter of fact. Nothing of the familiar.  But it’s a Christmas story--or as the first sentence of the gospel says: The beginning of the good news of Jesus Christ, the Son of God.
But nothing how the birth happened or who was there or what the angels said to the shepherds after Jesus was born. This version of the Christmas story is what happened before Jesus was born. Like a typical Advent story. Cousin John reminds us to prepare for the great events which are about to happen.

Yes, I know the list of chores is getting longer by the minute. There’s so much to do-and so little time. Unbelievable that it’s already December 4th--less than 3 weeks to get everything done.


Sorry – but John talks about a different kind of preparing.

What do you mean?


Well, he reminds us to repent.

To do what? Why shall I repent? I didn’t do anything wrong?


The repentance you are thinking of is a bit different than what John is talking about. You see, in Greek, the language the gospels were written in, repentance just means to turn around.

But I didn’t get lost. I have a GPS--I don’t need to turn around.


No, this is not what I meant. Not turning around in your car because you took a wrong turn.

You totally confuse me--first you tell me that Cousin John is missing in all nativity scenes, then you try to convince me that we just heard a Christmas story without Mary and Joseph and now you say that we have to turn around in order to prepare for Christmas. That doesn’t make any sense. What exactly do you want to tell me and what does that all have to do with Christmas?


All this is different than what you know. But maybe that makes it more interesting. Because if this is all the same as last year, we might not be able to listen anymore, because we think we know it all.

Ok--I’m open for new stuff. But what has Cousin John to do with Christmas? Why do we talk about him every year in Advent?


John is Jesus’ cousin and he lived in the desert and baptized people.

Ok, that’s why he’s called John the Baptist--I got that far. Isn’t he the dude who is kind of weird?


Yes, you are correct again. He wore camel’s hair and ate locust with honey.

And I always thought my family is strange--I am relieved that even in the Holy Family there’s someone who doesn’t fit the norm. Guess every family has the one odd ball.


I can’t say anything about your family. But John fulfills an important role. He reminds us that Christmas is not all about the stuff and hectic, but that God comes to us into our lives. You see, in the Bible lots of times, God came to people in the desert.

Yeah--hot and lonely.


Besides that, the desert is a place where people experience God directly. Remember Moses was in the desert and God talked to him. Jesus experienced God and was also tempted in the desert for 40 days.

Ok--that was then. But what has the story to do with us now? Do I have to drive thousands of miles just to experience God?


No, you don’t need to drive all these miles to experience God. God can come to you at many places. Have you ever the expression: God is still speaking? But with all the noise going on, you might have better chances or actually hearing God when it’s quiet. That doesn’t have to be a physical desert--but when it’s just God and you. Any kind of quiet, still place would do. Like when you are the first one up in the morning and the house is still calm. Or at work, when everyone is at lunch, the phone is not ringing and you are not surfing the web or on your cell phone?  Or when you are driving a long way in the car--with no radio on. When last did you have some quiet time--time just between God and you?

Good question. You mean a time without my MP3 player, cell phone, I pad or any distraction? Wouldn’t that be boring?


Boring? How can listening to God be boring? It might not be what you want to hear, but I don’t think boring is the right word. Why don’t you come on Wednesday nights to church? We are having the Advent Bible Study called “Simply Wait” and invite people to wait in this busy season.

Waiting for what? How can waiting help me when I have so many things to do?


Maybe waiting might help you with all your chores.
How do you feel when you get hurried and frazzled? When you don’t know where to start to do what first--and the more you stare at the list, the more you realize that the time is running out, then you get frantic, can’t find your wallet, nor the car keys and get uptight and are beside yourself.  Just like the white rabbit in Alice in Wonderland who runs around saying: “I’m late, I’m late” and:” the hurrier I go, the behinder I get.”

The hurrier I go, the behinder I get--that’s an interesting way of putting it. And you think

John can help me with staying calmer in this hectic time? Is he getting all the chores done for me?

He might not get all the chores done for you, but he can help you to stay calm. He may help you to center so that you find inner peace.
Just like in the following story. A very well known university professor studied hard to find peace. He read many philosophers, studied various religions, and finally ended up visiting a cloister. After couple of days of silence he asked one of the monks. Excuse me, sir, I have been doing this silence thing for a while now, I go to all your prayer services and read the Bible many times per day--but how do I find peace?
The monk invited him for a cup of tea. Those two sat down, and the monk poured the visitor's cup full and then kept on pouring and pouring. The tea began to run over the rim of the cup, across the table, and still the monk poured, and the tea was dripping upon the floor. The professor watched this happening and shouted: Stop--the cup is overflowing, the tea is on the table, and dripping on the floor. The cup is overfilled, no more will go in. The monk replied: You are correct. The cup is full. It is overfilled. The tea is spilling over and onto the floor.
You are like this cup--you are overfilled. Nothing can fit in anymore. The tea is like all the things in your life which fill you up to the rim, and you might not even notice you are overflowing and actually messing up your surroundings as well.
You first need to realize that your cup is overfilled before you can fill it up any more. Then you need to empty your cup, before you can fill it again.
Or in John’s words: you need to turn around, to repent, to focus on what and who is filling up your life and how you can prepare for Christmas.
So, like to make an inventory with our lives? I know how to do that for my job.
Exactly like that. See what is needed, and what you can do without. Cousin John reminds us to prepare for Christmas in a different way. Try it out--and maybe we can add cousin John to our nativity scene after we had a cup of tea together
Amen.
 
Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
December 4, 2011
Second Sunday of Advent



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A TUNE-UP BEFORE TRAVELING

Isaiah 64:1-9
I Corinthians 1:3-9

Sunday, November 27, 2011 -- First Sunday of Advent 

   “How dumb do they think we are?”  I don’t know about you, but this is a question I often find myself asking when I watch television commercials.  Especially the ones that have disclaimers at the bottom of the screen telling me not to do the ridiculous things being done in the commercial—as though I would rush right out and do them if it weren’t for those tiny words on the screen—are the ones that make me ask this question most of all.  “How dumb do they think we are?”
 
   The current commercial that most of all causes me to ask this question shows a bunch of people jumping out of an airplane, not with parachutes, but each holding glowing glass globes.  As these guys are plunging toward earth while holding these globes, thank heavens these words appear at the bottom of my screen: “Do not attempt.”  If not for those words being there in the nick of time I’m sure I would be on an airplane right now about to jump out in that manner!  “How dumb do they think we are?”
 
   I am proud to say that I’m wise enough not to have my view of reality shaped by what is presented in commercials.  And yet, I have to admit how much I do allow my view of reality to be shaped by what is presented in the news.
 
   There is certainly no shortage of things to worry about these days, and whenever I hear, watch, or read the news my worry increases inordinately.  Stories are presented constantly about how bad conditions are in the world—in Europe and in the Middle East.  Stories are presented about how bad things are in our country—in our economy and in congress.  And stories are presented about how bad things are in our area—unemployment statistics or the most shocking crimes.
 
   There is no doubt that if we choose to focus our lives and what shapes our reality on these storiesthen there is sure to be plenty of reason for despair.
 
   As we hear—or even repeat—all the things that are terrible, we begin to think we are the generation living in the worst times ever.  As we study more about what has happened in previous times, though, we soon learn that every generation has had reason to think things were the worst ever at their time.
 
   This was certainly true during the time of the Prophet Isaiah, when he cried out the words of this morning’s Old Testament passage.  On behalf of his people, in the despair they were feeling at that time, Isaiah cried out to God, “O that you would tear open the heavens and come down, so that the mountains would quake at your presence!”  I have to admit that fairly often after I’ve heard the latest news this sounds like a very good request to me.  “God, get down here and quick—and clean up this mess!  O that you would tear open the heavens and come down!”
 
   As I have thought about commercials in preparation for this sermon, I have found myself remembering one of the most memorable and effective ones ever.  It first aired in 1959 and some of you may also be able to remember it.
 
   This commercial for “Esso Gasoline” had the tagline, “Put a tiger in your tank,” and in learning more about it I found out that it’s in the “Ad Slogan Hall of Fame”!  No, I hadn’t realized before either that there is an “Ad Slogan Hall of Fame,” but somehow it doesn’t surprise me that there is!  Anyway, for those of you who don’t remember it—and even for those of you who do—allow me to reenact a portion of it.  I will play all three parts—the person bringing his car into the station for gasoline, the gas station attendant, and of course the Tiger.
 
Driver: Pardon me, but what’s the idea of the Tiger on your gas pump?
Attendant: Well, you see, our new “Esso Extra” gasoline puts a Tiger in your tank!
Driver: Well, then, put a Tiger in my tank!
Attendant: Yes, Sir!
Driver: What does the Tiger do in there?
Attendant: Well, you’ll notice several things…smooth performance for one—and extra power!
Driver: Amazing!  Hey, where is he now?
Attendant: Who?
Driver: The Tiger?
Attendant: He’s in your tank, of course!
Tiger: Growl!
Driver: Well, I’ll be darned!
 
   “I’ll be darned.”  That was pretty strong language on television back in 1959!  Oh, and in case you were confused—there really was a time, children, when someone at the station actually pumped the gas for people!
 
   In 1959 lawyers who didn’t feel a need to advise companies to put disclaimers on the screen during their commercials.  If they did, there certainly would have been one with this commercial.  Words at the bottom of the screen would have said: “Notice to drivers—there won’t actually be a real live Tiger living inside your gas tank.”
 
   I’m pretty sure that even without that disclaimer, most people could figure out that a “real living Tiger” wouldn’t be in their gas tank if they bought Esso gasoline.  And yet, with that thought in mind maybe they really would experience a difference in how their cars seemed to run after they’d purchased that brand.
 
   So also for the people listening to Isaiah in the Sixth Century before Christ, most of them did not expect to see the sky ripping apart literally and a man with a long white beard stepping out of it and making the mountains shake as He did.  And yet, with that image in mind, maybe they were open to experiencing a difference in their world and in how life was for them.
 
   Our New Testament lesson for the First Sunday of Advent makes much gentler promises, as Paul begins his letter to the Corinthians by saying, “God will strengthen you,” and “God will be faithful to you to the end.”
 
   Promises for God to strengthen us and to be faithful to us don’t sound as dramatic as putting a Tiger in our tank or tearing open the heavens and coming down here.  They are, however, the promises that mean more than any other possibly could.  God with us and strengthening us—these are the promises of Advent, and they become known to us not through stories of fear, and also not through earth-shaking claims, but in day to day living with our reality shaped by those promises.  “God cares and God is with us.”  There can be no greater promise.
 
   And even Isaiah’s attention-grabbing words that open this morning’s passage are changed into a gentler and more lasting image as the passage goes on.  “We are the clay, O God, and you are the potter.  Shape us and shape our lives,” Isaiah says.  As we make our journey through Advent, and do not rush but take the time necessary for such a journey, what a beautiful image this is for us.  May we take our time and have our view of reality shaped not by commercials and not by the negatives of news stories, but by the promises of God to be with us, to strengthen us, and to shape us as a potter shapes the clay.
 
   On this first day of our Advent journey, we are getting a tune-up before traveling—wanting to change our viewpoints and our expectations to what are most important and most meaningful of all—taking the time necessary to do so as we look for God’s presence and God’s strength in our world and in each of our lives.
 
   And after our tune-up, how good it is to have our driver pull into the gas station as we say “Fill it up with Esso Extra, Driver, and then on to Bethlehem—and we’re taking four weeks to get there, so you don’t have to step on it!”
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
November 27, 2011
First Sunday of Advent



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“RE-JOICE!”

Matthew 25:31-40

Sunday, November 20, 2011 -- Thanksgiving Sunday—Reign of Christ Sunday 

   A little later in this service we will sing the hymn, “Rejoice, Ye Pure in Heart!”  I have been singing this song my entire life, but only recently did I think about this word—“Rejoice”—and what it means.  For the first time I have thought to myself, “Okay, so I have sung this song countless times saying that I am rejoicing—but when and how did I firstjoice” so that I would be able to do so again.  How is that that I renew that ‘joice subscription’ so that I can re-joice in my life?”
 
   The definition of “rejoice” is to experience joy in a way that is continuing.  “Feel great joy,” “Be glad,” and “Take delight” are the ways that the dictionary defines this word, a word which, I also learned, comes from “Old French!”
 
   As we sing this hymn it is important to note where the editors chose to place it in our hymnals.  It is very late in the book—Number 562—and found in the Thanksgiving section.  I find this interesting because there it has many images and references besides thankfulness.  There is, however, such an overall attitude and energy that reflects thankfulness that it is very appropriate to have it in the Thanksgiving section.
 
   It is also appropriate that this song is placed at the end of our hymnals because the season of Thanksgiving is at the end of the Church Year.  Today is the final Sunday of the Church Year, and is called “Reign of Christ” Sunday.  This Sunday celebrates the fulfillment of all God’s plans.  This song—“Rejoice Ye Pure in Heart”—is also very appropriate to this observance because it certainly lifts up a mood of joyous fulfillment.
 
   The Scripture lesson for today is also an appropriate and certainly very important one.  In recent weeks we have been hearing the parables that Jesus told in His final time of teaching, on the day before He would be arrested, put on trial, and put to death.  Jesus knew that these were the final teachings people would hear from Him—so they were extremely important.  Today—from this final section of teachings—we hear the parable that Jesus chose to teach last of all, the parable of the Last Judgment, when we will all stand before Jesus.
 
   To some people at that judgment the most beautiful words imaginable will be said.  “Come, you that are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.”  “Why is this?” those rejoicing in this news must ask.  And Jesus answers, “It is because you fed me when I was hungry, gave me something to drink when I was thirsty, clothed me when I was naked, took care me when I was sick, and visited me when I was in prison.” “What? When did we do that?” these people now ask.  “Whenever you did this for the least of one of my brothers and sisters,” Jesus concludes, “you did it for me.”
 
   These are powerful images, to say the least, but I still am not sure I have answered my earlier question.  Just how is it that I go about renewing my “joice” subscription?  Joy is such an elusive quality.  How do we find it—and, even more, how do we hold onto it as an ongoing part of our lives?  How do we rejoice?
 
   I remember very well when the term “burnout” was coined.  I was early in my ministry when this word began to be used frequently to describe people who had worked too hard in their profession or in other ways had depleted their inner resources.
 
   Well, it didn’t take me long to conclude that this was exactly what I had.  “‘Burnout’—yes, that must be it!”
 
   I made an appointment with our congregation’s area minister.  Dr. Jacob Wagner was his name, and I went to his office to talk to him.  He listened kindly as I poured out my troubles—told him how much those people in my church were expecting of me and how impossible it was to do such a job completely.
 
   I laid it all out, and then I sat back and waited, just sure that he was going to say to me, “Oh, you poor thing!”  Or better yet I expected that he would say, “Harold, I am going to drive straight to your church and demand to talk to your Trustees!  You need more vacation time—maybe a couple weeks of paid leave at ‘Club Med’—and immediately!  And that of course is just for starters!”
 
   Imagine my shock when instead he said some things that were as opposite of that as possible!  Dr. Wagner began to outline a “prescription,” all right, but it was not the one I was expecting.  First he went to his bookshelves, and pulled out some volumes on the meaning of being called into ministry and told me that in a month we would meet again and discuss these books.  Then he told me to spend more time in prayer.  And finally he told me to increase the time I was spending in making pastoral calls—visits to people who were hungry or sick or in prison.
 
   As I went to my car and returned home I kept thinking about all the things I wished I had said to him—and couldn’t believe I hadn’t.  “Dr. Wagner,” I should have shouted, “I don’t think you’re listening!  What about ‘poor me’?”  Instead I had shown such respect that not only did I not complain, but I actually said I would try to do these things.
 
   And then—when I did try to do these things—what amazing changes began to occur.  By giving more, I found that I was receiving much more in return.  By thinking about beyond myself, I was finding energy and a thankful spirit—a joy—that I had not had for some time.
 
   I think quite often about that visit to Dr. Wagner and what happened afterward.  And I try to renew his prescription—and thus my “joice subscription”—as often as I can.
 
   There are many days when I have more than enough to do—a sermon to write, a worship service to plan, letters to send, reports for a meeting—any number of tasks on my list to get done.  On such a day it certainly would be understandable if I didn’t make it to that nursing home or hospital room or the home of someone in our church that may be in need of our support.  Then I think of Dr. Wagner, and I go to make that pastoral call, even when I could justify saying I don’t I have the time.
 
   And then, as I sit with this person in a time of importance or of need, I find that my energy is renewed.  Suddenly I have more insights than I did before for that sermon I need to write or project I need to do.  Suddenly my reservoir of joy is re-filled, because by offering what is in me I find that God is blessing me with even more than I have given.
 
   Dr. Wagner stressed to me that day that this “prescription” he was giving me was not his idea.  “These ideas are from Jesus,” he said. “I’m just reminding you about them.”
 
   In a few minutes we will close worship with “Rejoice, Ye Pure in Heart.”  The third verse of this song is most meaningful of all for me, declaring Jesus’ ideas as Dr. Wagner did in yet another way.  “Yes, on through life’s long path, still chanting as you go, from youth to age, by night and day, in gladness and in woe, Rejoice, Rejoice, Rejoice, give thanks and sing.”
 
   How surprising it was for me and continues to be that by offering to care and give more—even more of joy returns to me.
 
   Yes, that was and is surprising.  But it is nothing compared to the surprise there will be for you—and I pray for me—when Jesus says, “Truly, just as you did any of these things for the least of my brothers and sisters, you did them for me!”
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
November 20, 2011
Thanksgiving Sunday—Reign of Christ Sunday



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AND WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING?

Matthew 25:14-30

Sunday, November 13, 2011 -- “Giving Thanks” Sunday 

   Another title for this morning’s sermon could be “A Tale of Four Churches,” because I will tell a brief story from four different congregations during these next few minutes.
 
   The first story comes from a church in Ohio that I served many years ago.  After six months of being there I realized that there were still some members of the church I had yet to meet.  One such person was Millie.  I asked the Deacons about Millie and no one knew what had happened—but something must have—because Millie had been very active in the church and then suddenly stopped being involved at all.  I called Millie and asked if I might come to visit her.  I had heard wonderful things about her, I said, and hoped to get to know her.  At first she said “no,” but then she did agree that I could visit.
 
   Our conversation began pleasantly as she told me how many years she had with the church and how many friends she had there.  Then her expression and body language changed as she began to tell me something else.  That church held a big dinner every year.  This dinner was known to be so good that hundreds of people came to it.  Two years before this Millie had signed up to bring her special potato salad for that dinner.  The day of the dinner, however, was awful for her.  One thing after another went wrong and it was all she could do to make her potato salad and get it to the church, even though she knew it was getting late in the serving time.  When she arrived, stressed and exhausted, carrying her large bowl through the side door, one of the members of the church saw her and looked at his watch.  “Sorry,” he said, “I guess we don’t need your potato salad this year.”
 
   Millie looked directly at me and now, “I took what I had brought out to my car—and I haven’t been back to the church since.”
 
   The second church is one I know only through a friend.  It is in another state and I know it only because their minister has become a friend by attending conferences with me through the years.  His church has some very wealthy members—or, at least, did in the past.  Years ago one member gave the church an extremely large amount of money, with the stipulation that it should be used always to keep the church exactly as it was.  The building and grounds were to be cared for and the salaries of the minister, music and office staff and custodians all paid for from this fund.
 
   “Wow, how fantastic that must be!” was my reaction as he told me this.  He was a very capable minister, delivering excellent sermons and more.  The church had an outstanding music minister, a beautiful sanctuary and landscaping—and hardly any involved members.  “I just can’t get our folks to care about what is happening at the church,” he would say to me, “or to be involved in the ongoing life of it.”
 
   My initial response about how fantastic his situation must be now changed, as felt such sadness in it.
 
   The third church in this sermon is much farther away—on the other side of the world, actually.  I recently met the minister of a church in sub-Saharan Africa, one of the poorest places in the world, and he told about the annual Harvest Sunday at their church.  “Harvest Sunday” is the day in the fall when people bring special gifts for the work of their church through the coming year.  Some people have jobs that allow them to make a financial offering or a promise for such offerings throughout the year.  Many others, however, have no money, but “live off the land” through small gardens or flocks of animals, and they each bring something from those resources on Harvest Sunday.
 
   Each year, this minister said, during the weeks before this service takes place, he hears the members of his church talking to one another, and what he hears is, “What are you bringing to the Lord this year?”  With great excitement each person is thinking about what he or she has, how blessed he has been blessed this year, and what he can give to God’s work in response.  “What are you bringing to the Lord this year?”
 
   This is in essence the question Jesus asks in the parable we hear this morning—“The Parable of the Talents.”  “What are you bringing to the Lord?”  Keep in mind that this parable is told by Jesus only one or perhaps two days before He will be arrested and put on trial.  There is urgency in what Jesus wants His disciples to hear and understand, as He knows that soon they will have to carry on their ministry without Him at their side.
 
   “Before leaving for a journey,” Jesus says, “a man entrusted gifts of money to his servants.  To one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, and then he left.  Most of us are familiar enough with this story to know what follows.  The time comes when the man returns and asks what they have done with what he gave them.  He learns that the one with five talents has used and invested them and turned them into ten.  The one with two talents has done the same and turned them into four.  The servant with one talent, however, has buried—and hidden it.  “Here it is, exactly as you gave it to me,” this servant now declares.
 
   “What are you bringing to the Lord this year?”  That is the question asked by people of that church in Africa.  This is also the question asked by Jesus.  Notice that the celebration he offers to one who now has four talents is the same as it is with the one who now has ten.  What matters is not the quantity but the faithfulness in what we bring to the Lord.
 
   The fourth church is one with which we are all quite familiar, because it is Westerville Community UCC.  I think of how we just completed our annual Holly Day Bazaar, and how we will direct all money earned at the Bazaar for mission and for special projects and not to cover budgeted expenses.  In terms of budgeted expenses, we apply do apply the rental income we receive for use of our building.  This rental income, however, only pays a portion of the utilities and ongoing maintenance that such use adds to our costs each year.  The one other area of income used in our budgeting is whatever interest we earn on funds while they are waiting to be used.  This interest, however, does not even equal inflation, so whatever interest we apply simply helps us to stay somewhat closer to “even” in that regard.
 
   The “tale of this church” is that all the money needed for God’s mission and ministry each year must come from us—must come from what we give in return from whatever “talents” we have first been given by God.
 
   I think about Millie and what she heard as she stood in the doorway with her potato salad after she had worked so hard to get it there before the dinner ended.  In that moment when she was told they didn’t need her potato salad, what she heard was that they did not need her.
 
   In my minister friend’s church where everything is paid for without offerings needed from the members, he can’t get them to become more involved in the life of the church.  For those whose gifts are not needed, they will likely not experience the joy and blessing of being part of the church.
 
   Some people might say how sad it is that we—you and I—must support the entire life and mission of this church.  But I say to you—“What blessing it is that this is so.”  I say this because as we take on this responsibility we can then come to realize that you and I are not alone in doing so, but we are in partnership with God, who first provides us with all the blessings we need to do the work of this church.
 
   “What are you bringing to the Lord this year?” people thousands of miles away ask each other.  Right here in this church the same question is asked.  As we respond faithfully the same celebration is experienced.  “Enter into the joy of your master.”
 
   This week I heard about someone who was asked by Dave Thomas to invest with him when he was trying to start his restaurant called “Wendy’s.”  This man said “no”—and today would be a multi-millionaire if he had said “yes.”  I’m sure you have heard such stories as well, of missed opportunities.
 
   Jesus’ parable ends with rather stark words to the man who did not invest his talent.  He is “cast out into outer darkness where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”  I used to think Jesus was being cruel in saying this.  In light of the urgency of that time when Jesus told this story, however, I think about it now and I realize there is no cruelty in what Jesus says, but rather a statement of fact.
 
   Some of the saddest words people can say are, “If only,” or “Oh, what might have been.”  What outer darkness it is—and what weeping and gnashing of teeth are part of it—when people are left saying, “Oh, what might have been” or “If only” I hadn’t buried that talent and that opportunity.
 
   How grateful I am for the opportunities when I do not miss them—and pray that you are as well.  When we invest the gifts God has provided us and enter into partnership with God in the use of them, the greatest blessing of all follows.  All that our church is doing in 2011 and all we will do in 2012 has come to be and will come to be through the gifts that you and I offer—because every one of us is needed here.
 
   Jesus is saying to the servants who invested their talents—and says to us as we invest ours—“Enter into the joy of your Master.”  As you ponder the litany heard earlier this morning of just some of what has been shared through our gifts this year, I pray that you are experiencing not regret but joy as you know integral you are to these and all the blessings we extend.  I pray that you are continuing to ask—and to celebrate—what you are bringing to the Lord this year.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
November 13, 2011
“Giving Thanks” Sunday


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IN RESPONSE TO GOD’S GRACE

Psalm 107:1-9

Sunday, October 30, 2011 -- Consecration Sunday 

   As he often does, earlier this month Hank Stonerook got our Men’s Club meeting going by telling a series of jokes—with this month’s theme being church jokes.  For reasons I’m sure you can understand, there aren’t many “church jokes” I haven’t heard—and I had already heard all of these.  Many others in the room probably had, too.  But that didn’t matter; they all went over big and got great laughs.  Maybe it was Hank’s delivery!
 
   Anyway, the first joke in Hank’s monologue was I am sure the first “church joke” I can remember hearing.  You’ll be able to tell that this joke has been around awhile by the gender of all the characters in it.  Three children are discussing what their fathers do for a living and how much they get paid for their work.  The first child is a doctor’s son and says, “My dad just takes care of someone who is sick for a while, and he gets this much money for it.”  The second child is a lawyer’s son and says, “My dad just goes to court with someone and after the trial he gets this much money for it.”  Finally, the third child, who is a minister’s son, says, “That’s nothing.  My dad just talks for fifteen minutes and it takes four men to carry all the money to him!”
 
   The idea of ushers carrying the money forward after the sermon reminds me of another story—one that did not make me laugh but instead made me nervous.  Early in my ministry the idea was being promoted to move the offering from the middle of the service to the end.  “People should give in response to God’s Word that has just been preached to them.  That should be how the service ends,” was the recommendation.
 
   About the time that I was considering this idea I heard a story told by a man who had gone to worship at a church for the first time—and the order in that service had the offering right after the sermon and at the end.  As this first-time attendee listened to the sermon he was quite moved.  “I’m sure I have a fifty dollar bill in my wallet,” he thought to himself, “and I am going to put that fifty in the offering plate!”  As the sermon went on, however, the minister said a couple things this man wasn’t sure he could agree with.  “Maybe twenty dollars will do today,” he then found himself thinking.  As the sermon went still longer and the minister challenged the listeners to take action in their lives in ways this man didn’t want to do, he thought, “This really isn’t much of a sermon.  I won’t put anything in the offering today!”
 
   As I heard that story and thought in other ways as well about having the offering after the sermon—and, as I noted, this was early in my ministry—I wondered if that was a good idea.  “That’s a lot of pressure on me to have a sermon that inspires but doesn’t upset anyone—every Sunday!” I thought to myself.
 
   Speaking very honestly with you at this time, it isn’t so much a sense of pressure that I feel as it is a continuing sense of unease.  I have been employed as a minister for a long time—since the year after I finished college and had just begun seminary.  I have now been leading worship for many years, including each year the annual Stewardship Sunday service—when we appeal to our members and friends of the church to commit themselves to giving to the work of our church.
 
   What brings my sense of unease is knowing—and knowing that you know as well—that a portion of the money I am hoping you will give will eventually come to me.  This is how I make my living.  This is how my family is supported.
 
   I am sure that not only for myself but for Pastor Sigrid and for any committed minister on this Sunday of the year—not only do all those jokes about ministers come to mind but much more as well.  There are many jokes: “All he does is talk for 15 minutes and four ushers carry all the money to him”—or “Why do we pay him so much when he only works one day a week?”  And I am sure there are many other jokes you know as well—but, we are not going to turn this into an “open mike” time so please don’t expect to get to stand up and tell yours!
 
   The jokes are usually pretty harmless and well intentioned.  Beyond the jokes, however, there are also criticisms and comments—often ones not so harmless.  “All the church wants is my money!”  How many times have you—and I—heard that?  “Why does the church even have to talk about money or ask for it?  It should only be concerned about spiritual matters.”  That is perhaps the most common—and difficult—criticism of all.
 
   There are many questions and criticisms, jokes and complaints related to churches and especially to ministers about money.  And as I think back to those early years of my ministry, I remember coming to a time when these pressures that I was feeling almost caused me to quit this profession.  “It’s an impossible job to do this and make everything happen—make people feel good about knowing that their gifts are necessary, not only for the pastor to be paid but for the church to continue to meet its obligations and continue to exist at all,” I kept thinking to myself.
 
   But I was spared—I was blessed as much as I have ever been—when God said to me, “Harold, not only is it not all about you—but it also isn’t all up to you.”  And praise God that I then realized: People do not give in response to my sermon.  They give in response to God’s grace!
 
   In our Psalm today we read, “O give thanks to the Lord, for He is good….Let the redeemed of the Lord say so!”  Those who know God’s goodness—those who have been redeemed by the Lord—those who have experienced God’s grace—respond!  As we know what God has given to us and done for us, we simply must respond!
 
   The movie, Chariots of Fire, centers on the life of runner, Eric Liddell, who feels called to become a missionary—and he also feels called to continue to compete in races.  One day he tries to explain to his sister how both of these can be.  “I believe God made me for a purpose,” he says to her.  “I also know that God made me able to run fast, and when I run, I feel God’s pleasure.”
 
   I say to you: “Find your purposeand run as God makes you able—and know God’s pleasure.”
 
   Many years ago a minister friend of mine told me about a Monday when his church was quiet and he went to the Sanctuary to get something, thinking no one was there.  The Sanctuary was quiet, but it was not empty.  He was surprised to see a high school boy of his congregation who had been training to become a gymnast.  There was this teen-ager, thinking no one else was watching as he faced the cross and practiced—in the somber quiet and presence of God—the routine he would perform later that week.
 
   I say to you: “Whatever your talents may be, offer them first to God and then know that their glory will become known even more by others.”
 
   This summer I listened to a minister who serves a Christian church in Mozambique, Africa—in one of the poorest areas of the world—as he told about offerings at his church.  His parish is located in a rural area away from any city.  Last year some of his parishioners had no money that they could give at the time of offering, and he told them this was okay—that God understood.  They told him, however, that they had to give something in response to what God had given to them.  The very next Sunday he noticed in the offering baskets that, along with the coins and bills, there were bundles of berries.  In that rural area a kind of berry grows that is considered a delicacy by people who live in the cities.  And so some of his people who had nothing else they could give had gone out to gather berries for the church to sell.
 
   These berries, however, need care and processing before they can be sold.  So the next day the Deacons of his church cleaned them and packaged the berries for sale and took them to the nearest city.  They earned sixteen dollars by selling these berries—not a great deal of money especially in light of how much effort the Deacons made in order to do this.  But how important it was, this minister stated, for his Deacons to honor those gifts and have them become part of their church’s ministry.
 
   I say to you: “Whatever you give to God’s work through our church will be honored and will become part of our church’s ministry.
 
   Sometimes I hear complaints from people about why the church talks about money so much—or about why the minister is paid so much for working so little.  But that’s okay—because it isn’t about me and doesn’t depend on me.  It is about God’s grace—it is in response to God’s grace—that we are called to give.  And as for the reason that the church talks about money and must talk about money—is that Jesus did.  Jesus talked more about money and about our possessions and how we use them more than He did about anything else.
 
   In our brief passage from Matthew this morning Jesus offers a startling concept.  “The greatest among you will serve, and will not exalt yourselves but humble yourselves,” Jesus declares.
 
   I think of a scene from the old “MASH” television series.  Klinger, a lowly corporal from inner city Toledo, is speaking to Winchester, a surgeon and major from the wealthiest part of Boston, asking him if their families can get together after the war.
 
   “Klinger,” Winchester says to him, “my family has accumulated great amounts of wealth with the expressed purpose of not having to associate with families like yours!”  As opposite as can possibly be from such an outlook, Jesus says that those who could be exalted must instead choose to be humble, and that those who could get away with doing the least must instead serve and give—in response to God’s grace.
 
   The offering has already taken place this morning.  It came before the sermon because it does not depend on the sermon.  Our offerings are not in response to a sermon but in response to God’s grace.  Our offerings to God throughout the remainder of this year and into the coming year are made because we know that the Lord is good, and because we who are redeemed in the Lord must say so.
 
   And so it is that whether we run or are gymnasts or have any other talent—we offer these talents to God and feel God’s pleasure.  And whether we can only put meager gifts into the offering or whether we have much to give—we do so humbly and let God do the exalting, because we give in response to God’s grace.
 
   That minister from Africa also told us that in their country the people do not stay seated during the offering, but must jump and dance during that time the baskets are being passed because they become so excited by the meaning of it.  I don’t expect that we are about to start doing exactly that anytime soon.  But I do know that we have the offering at the center of our worship because our offerings are at center of our lives.  And I know that as the offerings are brought forth each Sunday morning we stand and proclaim most joyfully of all—“We give Thee but Thine own” at 8:30 service and “Praise God from Whom all blessings flow” at 10:30 service.  Why?  It is because “God is good”—and the redeemed must say so, giving in response to God’s grace.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
October 30, 2011
Consecration Sunday


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BE READY

Matthew 25:1-13

Sunday, November 6, 2011 -- Daylight Saving Time Ends 

Regardless of what country or culture, kids play similar games. Sometimes the best are those that require no manuals or controls, those with no fancy equipment—all you need is space and other kids to play with. Games you can play inside and outside—and it doesn’t really matter who is all around to play it with you.

One of the old favorite games—is Hide and Seek. The game is simple—and lots of fun. One person is it, he or she turns around, counts to a certain number and in the meantime all the other kids try to find the best hiding places and keep absolute still. After ‘it’ has finished counting, we hear the shout:

Ready or not—here I come.
Ready or not—here I come—that’s how it goes not only for Hide and Seek, but for many things in life.
Ready or not—here I come—this could be all the chores waiting for you.
Ready or not—here I come—the busy Thanksgiving and Christmas season.
Ready or not—here I come—just like in today’s story from the New Testament.
 
The parable of the 10 bridesmaids—as it is sometimes called, is not necessarily one of my favorites. This wedding story is not like your typical celebration of a young couple getting married and everyone being happy about their love. Jesus liked parties. There are lots of stories in the Gospels where Jesus is having a good time. Today’s parable is about a party as well—a wedding. Wedding customs were a bit different in those days.
 
The tradition here in the States is to have at least two bridesmaids who walk in front of the bride at the beginning of the worship ceremony. The best man attends the groom—but not bridesmaids—like mentioned in our story. In Jesus’ time the bridesmaids wait for the groom with their lamps shining and escort him into the wedding ceremony and feast.
 
The bridegroom is late. He arrives at midnight with his party to come to the party—but half of the guests are already asleep. Surprise—I can hear everybody shouting. But the late bridegroom is not the only surprise.  There are ten bridesmaids—five of them foolish and five of them wise. Or to quote the Greek, which is not as gentle in their vocabulary: five are prudent and five are morons! The five prudent bridesmaids have all enough oil for their lamp. Lamps were used to welcome the guest of honor, much as we might put lanterns outside our homes at holiday time. The five foolish bridesmaids have no oil.
 
When the bridegroom arrives, they have to scramble and find a merchant and buy theirs at the last minute. At the end they are excluded from the party. Our parable concludes with the warning: Keep awake therefore. Or as the King James Version says: Watch therefore, for you do not know the day nor the hour.
 
As in any joke, the most important part of a parable is in the end. The punch line—not the story itself is so important, but the conclusion—the end is what makes the joke funny.
The same in our parable: Our story is more than to bring enough oil to a weeklong wedding or have enough refreshments for a party you are hosting.
 
The last sentence is what gives this parable its kick. For centuries people have been scared with this message—they were frightened, they were afraid that they would not keep awake, and would not watch enough for Christ’s big return.
 
There are many churches that are concerned about the end times. There are lots of people who have done much planning and used all kind of mathematical and so called scientific calculations of when exactly the time is that Jesus will come again. They are sure about the exact date and time. To these people I would like to reply, "I used to get quite involved in figuring these things out.  I had charts, maps and all kinds of spreadsheets.  Then I decided that God didn't need me to help with the plans.  So, I've resigned from the Planning Committee and want to be part of the Welcoming Committee!"
 
In my opinion this parable is much more than just a warning not to fall asleep. Last night we gained one additional hour, so the danger of falling asleep today is not as big as in other days. I don’t want to be as splitting hair, but I believe there is a small but important difference with what words to choose. The Greek word that is used for “Keep awake” or “watch” has two meanings. It is much more than just to keep awake or to watch, but even more important: pay attention, to be ready so that nothing can overtake you.
 
To be awake is just not enough, we are asked to be ready, in order to do something.
 
Just as in the game of Hide and Seek: Ready or not, here I come.
 
When is Jesus coming back? I’ll be very honest with you. I don’t know exactly what the return of Jesus will look like, and I have no earthly idea when it will happen. The good news is we don’t need to know all these details. There’s no need to loose any sleep over this. But the questions remain: How do we get ready? How do we prepare for his second coming? What shall we do while Jesus is gone?
 
We are supposed to be like the wise brides maids ready all the time. This means more than just having enough resources with us, more than being a good boy scout and always being prepared. The bridesmaids in our story didn’t know when the groom was coming—and neither do we. But they did what they were supposed to do—carrying enough oil with them. They were prepared.  They did what was expected of them. They were not afraid of anything. Just like what we are supposed to do as Christians in this world. When we live as who we are asked to be, when we feed the hungry, take care of the poor and spread the message of hope, we don’t need to be afraid. We are ready, we are prepared—for anything that may come.
 
Just like in the following story: Years ago, a farmer owned land along the Atlantic coast. He constantly advertised for help. Most people were reluctant to work on farms along the Atlantic. They dreaded the awful storms that raged across the ocean, wreaking disaster on the buildings and crops. As the farmer interviewed applicants for the job, he received more and more refusals. Finally, a short, thin man, well past middle age, approached the farmer. "Are you a good farm hand?" the farmer asked him. "Well, I can sleep when the wind blows," answered the little man.

The farmer was puzzled by this answer. But he was desperate and hired the man anyhow. The man worked hard around the farm, busy from dawn to dusk, and the farmer felt satisfied with the man's work. Then one night the wind howled loudly in from offshore. Jumping out of bed, the farmer grabbed a lantern and rushed next door to the helper’s sleeping quarters. He shook the little man, and yelled, “Get up! A storm is coming! Tie things down before they blow away!” The little man rolled over in bed and said firmly, “No sir. I told you, I can sleep when the wind blows.”

Enraged by the response, the farmer was tempted to fire him on the spot. Instead, he hurried outside to prepare for the storm. To his amazement, he discovered that all of the haystacks had been covered. The cows were in the barn, the chickens were in the coops, and the doors were barred. The shutters were tightly secured. Everything was tied down.
Nothing could blow away. The farmer then understood what his worker meant. He was ready, he was prepared for any wind. So the farmer went back to bed and slept during the storm

When we're prepared, spiritually, mentally, and physically, and trust in God in all we do, we have nothing to fear. Even when we hear the voice: Ready or not—here I come.
 
Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
November 6, 2011
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LOOK BUT DON'T TOUCH

Deuteronomy 34:1-12

Sunday, October 23, 2011 -- Membership Orientation Sunday 

Next week is Halloween. Kids like to dress up. Like many little girls, I wanted to be a princess. One day my mom had a surprise for me. She promised that we were going to visit a castle. And to top it off, we were going to enjoy hot chocolate and afternoon cake in the castle as well. I could hardly wait--a dream come true--to visit a castle, to sit at a royal table in the fancy dining room and enjoy my favorite drink and some cake. I felt ever so special. Which dress do I wear for this specific big event? Finally the choice was made: Black shoes, white socks and the blue velvet dress with the big bow in the back.

Finally--after what seemed like an eternity--the day arrived. After lunch time we drove to Kassel and from the distance I already saw the castle on top of the mountain. This is so exciting. Shortly Mom and I would be in inside this beautiful magnificent building and even sit down to eat. My imagination went wild--is the prince going to sit with us as well? What if he talks to me? Shall I curtsy?

We parked, and walked to the entrance. I was a bit disappointed not to see a red carpet or servants waiting for us--but all that didn’t matter--we were in the castle. We visited the chambers and the living areas of the duke and duchess who resided here many years ago. The smooth velvet material, the couch looked so inviting. Whenever I reached out my hand to touch something I heard my Mom: “just look, don’t touch.”  But I wanted to feel how soft the pillows were--but here came the voice again: “just look, don’t touch.”  Finally we came to the dining room--the table was set--so many plates and fancy china and many glasses at each place. This looked so inviting--and Mom said we were going to have hot chocolate in the castle: so I sat down on this fluffy chair, and waited for the waitress to serve me my hot chocolate. I lifted up the cup since I wasn’t sure if the cup was already filled--and there again was the voice: “just look--don’t touch.  No, this is not the place we are going to stop for hot chocolate.”  What a disappointment--I was waiting all this time for the special moment--and all I heard was: “just look, but don’t touch.”

(Yes, we did have the promised hot chocolate and cake was not to be enjoyed in the dining area, but in the nearby café opposite the parking lot next to the gift shop.)
 
Just look, don’t touch--these words could have been said to Moses as well. No, he didn’t visit an antique castle or a toy store, but he must have been disappointed as well.

Today’s Old Testament is the last chapter in the book of Deuteronomy, the end of the portion of the Bible also known as the Torah or the Pentateuch. At this important junction of the biblical stories, we hear that Moses, the leader and spokesperson of the people dies. Moses has been the main character four biblical books--Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy. He led the Israelites--out of slavery in Egypt to Mt Sinai, through many trials and now stands at the edge of the Promised Land. He is just about to enter into the promise God made so many generations ago to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. But Moses is not permitted to enter the land. Moses dies just before his mission is accomplished. What a way to end his vision of setting his people free.

Moses can look, but can’t touch. God shows him a vision of that land, promised so many years ago. But he will never set a foot in it. Moses will never enter the Promised Land--how disappointing for him.

The story of Moses reminded me of a famous speech. This speech was given by a leader of people, who similar to Moses tried to set the people free. Similar to Moses, he was able to look, but couldn’t touch the Promised Land. It is the speech given by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., on April 3, 1968, the night before he was assassinated. He addressed the crowd in Memphis and he concludes with the following words:

“Well, I don't know what will happen now. We've got some difficult days ahead. But it doesn't matter with me now. Because I've been to the mountaintop. And I don't mind. Like anybody, I would like to live a long life. Longevity has its place. But I'm not concerned about that now. I just want to do God's will. And He's allowed me to go up to the mountain. And I've looked over. And I've seen the Promised Land. I may not get there with you. But I want you to know tonight that we, as a people will get to the Promised Land. And so I'm happy, tonight. I'm not worried about anything. I'm not fearing any man! Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord!!”

One day later Martin Luther King was assassinated--he saw, but never touched the Promised Land.
Moses, Martin Dr King Junior--these are just two examples of leaders, who had a great vision, but never saw the results of their hard work. For years they worked hard--but never could touch the Promised Land. It’s easy to feel disappointed. It’s so easy to be disappointed and think: “I did all this for nothing? Why bother if I can’t reap the fruit of my hard work. If I had known all the time, I would not have put so much effort into it. Why bother? I knew it, one person alone can’t make a difference.”

We have heard these and many other similar statements before. Maybe we said or felt them ourselves. But then we might be inspired by stories we read in the paper. Yesterday was National Make a Difference Day. Millions of people, all over the country contributed to make the world a better place to live. Our family joined others as we volunteered in a local project.

We might never see the results of our work. We might never meet the people we helped. Couple of hours of hands on work might not seem much in light of all the need in the world. But instead of getting all upset of how useless our hard work might be, maybe it is healthier to think differently. Maybe we shouldn’t worry so much about seeing results. Maybe we shouldn’t spend so much energy on immediate success. Maybe it is better not to focus on what we achieve or not achieve, but rather focus on the people we help.

How many of us work day after day without ever knowing what difference we make. Just to name a few--and there are many more who day in day out work and give their lives without ever realizing what impact they have. Thank you to all parents, grandparents, teachers, tutors, mentors, coaches, social workers, doctors, police officers, fire fighters, and all of you who work patiently with people--we may never realize what difference we make. We may never realize how lives are changed.
But for those of us who do it anyway, for those of us who want to make a difference in the world regardless of what others may think or say, I want to share this traditional Russian Fable written by Leo Tolstoy.

There was an old man out working in a field planting apple trees. He dug the hole, put the tree in the ground, and tamped down the dirt. Then he went on and dug another hole. As the old man was working, along came two teenagers. The teenagers decided to tease the old man. One said, “Hey, old man. What are you doing?”  The old man replied, “Can't you see, I'm planting apple trees.”  The other boy said, “Yeah, I can see that, but don't you know it will take five to six years before any fruit on that tree is ripe. Old man, you are wasting your time. You will probably be dead and in the ground yourself before the first apple is ripe.” They both laughed at their cleverness.

The old man stopped for a moment. He said, “You know, you are right. I will probably never see a red apple on this tree. But I am not planting these trees for myself. It is hope that I am planting. I am planting these trees for my children and my children's children. Someday, a hundred years from now, a little boy or girl will climb up into this tree. They will pick a ripe red apple. When they eat it, I hope they will think of me and smile.”

May we be inspired to plant apples for future generations, may we be motivated by people like Moses to follow God and to lead people out of bondage to the Promised Land even if we can just look, and not touch.

Amen.
 
Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
October 23, 2011
Membership Orientation Sunday


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THE PRESENT OF PRESENCE

Exodus 33:12-23

Sunday, October 16, 2011 -- CROP Walk Sunday 

Invitations come in all different forms and sizes--some of them are fancy, some casual, some home made and some of them real unique. Recently I received one invitation saying:  The present of your presence is all we want.

The present of your presence is all we want. How wonderful that these dear people value the gift of being together, the gift of time spent with one another, and companionship more than any material goods.

The present of your presence--I have to admit, not always did I think that this was true.

When I was a little girl my Dad frequently had to be out of town of for business trips. Sometimes he went for a longer period of time. There was an empty space at the dinner table. I have to be honest with you--yes, I was anxious for Dad to come home, but I was even more excited about the gifts he brought me. Every time he came home, after the excitement of seeing him, I asked the same question:  What did you bring me? And then there was Mom who reminded me over and over again, that not the gifts he bought, but the biggest gift is the present of his presence.

The present of the presence--it took me a while to realize that this indeed is the biggest gift we can give each other.

The present of the presence--not only a perfect gift to give to each other, but also the perfect gift God gives us. In today’s story of the Old Testament Moses reminds me a little bit of me when I was a child--not being so convinced that the present of the presence is the biggest gift indeed.

Moses and God have lots of conversation with each other--they have a special relationship. Moses is the like an advocate or a middle person--to relay messages from the people to God and from God to the people. In the chapter before, we read that Moses went up to the mountain to receive the 10 commandments, but it took him longer to get down. So the people turned to Aaron, who is Moses’ brother and also co-leader of the Israelites. Aaron told him to take off their golden jewelry, he molded and burned it all to a golden calf. When both God and Moses saw what happened, they both got angry. Moses literally threw the two tablets of the 10 commandments on the ground and also burned the golden calf. Then he apologized to God on behalf of the people.

There always has been special relationship between Moses and God. Moses tells the people all about God and God’s plans and also negotiates with God. The people respect this relationship and know that Moses has his special one to one time with God--or as we read few verses prior to our reading: God speaks to Moses “face to face, as one speaks to a friend.”

But Moses wants more. Moses wants proof that God will continue to be his friend. He asks: Show me your ways, so that I may know you. But God responds: My presence will go with you. Or to put in other words: The present of my presence is enough. But this is not enough for Moses. He demands: Show me your glory.

Moses wants proof--he wants to see God with his own eyes. But God insists: You cannot see my face. The present of my presence is just enough.

Moses reminds me of many people I know. If I only could see God’s face, then I would believe. If only I could have the proof that God exists, then I would come to church. If only God would show up once, then I would believe in God.

Moses, like so many people, wants clear answers. He wants crystal clear responses.

Just like the Pharisees and the Herodians who challenged Jesus. A soon as Jesus saw both Pharisees and Herodians together, he knew they were up to something. The Pharisees, who saw themselves as law abiding Jews, together with the Herodians a group who accommodated the Roman occupations as much as they could and found religion highly impractical--how is it that both groups have a question for Jesus? Teacher, they asked. Teacher? This is a title of respect--do these groups really pay due respect to Jesus or do they just say so to be polite?

Teacher, is it lawful to pay taxes to the emperor or not? This is not only a trick question but also a highly political one.  If Jesus answers either Yes or No he would fall into their trap. They accuse him either of rebellion or idolatry--a rebel or troublemaker, either way the accusation would be sufficient for his arrest. So what does Jesus do? Is it lawful to pay taxes to the Emperor or is it NOT lawful to pay taxes to the Emperor?  Jesus answered them, “YES!” So much for a definite answer.
 
It would be so much easier if we have definite answers. Either yes or no.
It would be so much easier if God would tell us exactly what to do. Big signs or billboards from heaven would be just fine.
It would be so much easier if God would show up, perform a few miracles here and there, and we would have the proof that God is really there.

But all we here is: The present of the presence is just enough.

That was the answer for Moses and the Israelites. Many years later, Jesus said the same.  The last sentence in Matthew’s gospel, the final statement Jesus says is: I will be with you always--till the end of age.

That’s the promise we live by: The present of my presence is just enough.

Wherever we are--God is with us.

This reminds me of the following story: An atheist and a Christian were engaged in an intense public debate. On the blackboard behind the podium the atheist printed in large capital letters, “GOD IS NO WHERE.” When the Christian rose to offer his rebuttal, he moved the “W” backwards one space so that the statement now read, “GOD IS NOW HERE.”  
 
The placement of a single letter can make all the difference. Where do you place the W? Where do you place God in your life? Do you focus on “no where” or in “now here”?

Where is God for you? Is God nowhere or now here?

Sometimes all we need is to be assured of God’s present of the presence.  Especially when we don’t know what to say. When we are called to be with someone in a tough situation. When we are overwhelmed.
 
When we lived in Michagan, I volunteered as a hospital chaplain. One Halloween evening, I was called to Mercy Hospital. Every time when I arrived in the parking lot, I prayed for God’s guidance and strength--whatever the situation might be.

Mom was on her way home from work and dad was bathing his two sons just before they got their costumes on. The 4-year-old was getting out of the tub, Dad turned and reached him the towel. Just then the 2-year-old brother slipped in the tub and fell on the rim of the tub. He was not responsive--and Dad took the two boys, the 4-year-old in his cowboy costume and wrapped the little brother in a towel to drive to the emergency. On the way he called Mom, and the family met at the hospital. The 4-years-old:  Can we go trick or treating now? When are we going trick or treating? When do I get some candy?

The 2-year-old was pronounced dead--exactly the same day six years ago Mom lost another child when she left him with her first husband.

There was the 4-year-old asking repeatedly: When do we go trick or treating? And the whole family looked at me for answers.  I didn’t have any answers. All what I could assure them was the presence of God. All I could do was to be with the family--to cry out for help--to pray for guidance and to leave the rest to God.

Couple of days later was the funeral--lots of people, lots of tears.  After the service the family approached me: Thank you for being with us. That meant a lot to us. Your presence was just enough.

The present of the presence--it’s just enough.

And it depends on you where you place the W: God is no where or now here.
 
Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
October 16, 2011
CROP Walk Sunday


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MORE EASILY GOT THAN NOT

Exodus 31:12-17,
Philippians 4:4-9

Sunday, October 9, 2011 -- Access Sunday 

   Usually I find that I can agree with stands taken by the American Civil Liberties Union.  Many times I agree with them begrudgingly, because from my view of the world things would be much better if whatever it is they are trying to stop would be allowed to happen!  Eventually—though begrudgingly—I usually have to admit that this would limit certain rights and therefore as the ACLU says it should not be allowed.
 
   Here is something, however, that I don’t think I’ll be able to agree with—even begrudgingly.  Perhaps some of you heard or read this story about an offer being made by a judge in Bay Minette, Alabama.  For a person convicted of a crime that carries a jail sentence—when it’s a first-time offense and a non-violent offense—this judge is offering a “Get out of jail free” card.  All the person must do is to go to church every week for a year.  That’s right—that’s it!  Attend worship every Sunday for fifty-two straight weeks and the sixty day sentence—or whatever length it may be—will be absolved.  The person can even choose which church to attend!
 
   Well, wouldn’t you know it?  The ACLU says this is a violation of the separation of Church and State, and they intend to have the program stopped.  Now, I’m all for the proper separation of Church and State—and as I said I usually come around to seeing the wisdom of the ACLU, whether I like it or not.  In this case, however, I may have too much personal investment because from my point of view sitting in church for 52 hours would do an offender—and all of society—far more good than having him sit in jail for sixty days.
 
   The title for today’s sermon is “More Easily Got than Not.”  The idea for this title comes from two different sources.  The first is from a television show in a wartime setting.  Two doctors are trying to get to an aid station that is located right at the front to help some wounded soldiers.  “Will we be able to get in there?” they ask the guards at the checkpoint.  “Getting in isn’t the problem;” they are told, “getting out is.”
 
   The second and even stronger source for this title comes from the nineteenth century writer, Henry David Thoreau.  Writing about how increasing quantities of material goods were complicating and cluttering many people’s lives, he made this observation: “Some things are more easily got than got rid of.”  Hence the title for this sermon: “More Easily Got than Not.”
 
   I think again about that sentencing alternative being offered by a judge in Bay Minette, Alabama.  “Go to church every Sunday for a year and avoid jail,” he tells certain offenders.  “Oh, I think to myself, this would be great!  If only I had the power to make people attend church every Sunday!  I’d do whatever it would take for that to happen!”  And yet no matter how much I might wish I could get more people to attend worship—no matter how sure I am that it would be very good for them to do so—I still would never say what is said in this morning’s Scripture lesson, in which God is instructing Moses on what to tell people about the Sabbath.
 
   “You shall keep the Sabbath,” God says, “for this is a sign between me and you for generations to come.  Do not profane it; do not do any work on it.”  I hear this and think, “Yes, this is very good”—until, suddenly, I hear what comes next, as God says, “Whoever profanes the Sabbath shall be put to death.”  This can’t be, I think—I must have misheard or misread this.  But then we continue and we hear, “Whoever does any work on the Sabbath day shall be put to death.”
 
   I stare at these words on this page in my Bible, but no matter how long I stare they still are there!  You may have noticed that in quoting a small portion of this passage in our bulletin this morning I could not get myself to print all of the statement.  “Whoever does any work on the Sabbath, dot, dot, dot,” is all I could decide to have printed.  “God,” I have to ask, “how demanding can you be?  How can this be in Your Holy Word?”
 
   There are many people today who say, “Oh, every word of the Bible must be taken literally—no questions asked.  And with this as their guiding declaration they pull out certain words from the Bible in order to pass their judgments.  “It’s right here in the Bible,” they say, “and every word of the Bible has to be true literally, period.”
 
   To anyone who makes such a statement I say in response what was said in the television episode that in part inspired today’s sermon title, “Getting in isn’t the problem; getting out is.”  Once you say that you are going to interpret and follow every word of the Bible literally you are in where it will not be easy to get out.  You will find that you then must follow or defend things that cannot be literally true.
 
   Is God literally telling us to put to death every single person in Westerville who is working right now—or who worked yesterday, since literally the Bible is referring to the Jewish Sabbath of Saturday here?  Is this the God we worship?  Here is what I say to you instead.  The Bible is so great that much of what it says is true in meaning for us even beyond what the words that convey this meaning can literally say.  This is the case in this morning’s passage about what God wants Moses to understand and tell his people—and for us today also to understand.
 
   The words of the Bible are from ancient documents.  The Bible is the Word of God—capital W—and yet it was written by human beings who lived in a specific time and who used the language of their time.  At the time of Moses the Hebrew language had a very limited vocabulary.  As Moses returned to his people to tell them about God’s covenant with them—and God’s laws for them—Moses didn’t have a great many vocabulary choices from which to choose.
 
  It wasn’t as if Moses could pull a Thesaurus off his bookshelf and think, “Let’s see; God said to be as absolute and clear as possible about how important it is to honor the Sabbath.  Okay, then what ‘alliterative adjective’ should I use from this list to announce this?”  There was no such list.  There weren’t several word choices here.  The Hebrew language was still very limited and often the only way to say something was to put it into black and white terms.
 
   And so these words say, “Whoever profanes the Sabbath, whoever does any work on the Sabbath, whoever doesn’t live out the covenant I want to share with you—shall be put to death.”  The meaning of this passage is that whoever treats the Sabbath day like just any other day, week after week, is cutting himself off from the best of life.  Whoever fails again and again to experience worship and rest and renewal each week is already dying in the deepest parts of himself.
 
   As part of our Sabbatical this summer Jenny and I were able to attend our United Church of Christ’s national meeting, and the most compelling speaker that I heard there was a man named Arn Chorn Pond.  Arn Chorn was a boy in Cambodia during one of the most horrific times in human history, when the Khmer Rouge regime took power and killed tens of thousands of their own people.  Arn Chorn survived those “killing fields” because he learned to play the flute, and played it so well that he was made to play their revolutionary songs that the Khmer Rouge wanted people to hear.
 
   As a teenager Arn Chorn managed to escape and was taken to a refugee camp where he was barely surviving.  There was little food and so much sickness in that camp that he was near death—when a visiting American with the last name “Pond” came to the camp and saw him, and chose to bring him to America and adopt him.  And so his name became Arn Chorn Pond.
 
   Today, decades later, this remarkable man has dedicated himself to three great projects.  First of all, he performs concerts, as he is considered one of the finest flute players of our time.  With money he earns from these concerts he does the second of his projects, which is to help children growing up in Cambodia today, many of whom all these years later are still affected by the aftermath of the war that Arn Chorn Pond survived.  The third of his projects is here in America, which became his adopted home.  Arn Chorn Pond spends large amounts of time meeting with American teen-agers.  He tells them the story of his life—perhaps plays his flute for them—and then he appeals to them not to be enslaved by all the material trappings of today.
 
   “Do more than go to the mall every day.  Do more than think you must have every new thing that is advertised or everything that you see friends having,” he tells them.  Arn Chorn Pond’s message is that even as he was enslaved by the Khmer Rouge, we in this land can become enslaved by day after day pursuing too many material things.  As Henry David Thoreau wrote, “Some things are more easily got, than got rid of.”
 
   I am glad that I not only read this morning’s passage from Exodus but studied it more deeply.
 
   When finally I moved beyond only the literal meaning of the words to the meaning of the message in them and I made it all the way to the end of the passage, I read the single most important word of all—the final word in the passage.  I read, “The Lord made heaven and earth, and on the seventh day He rested, and was refreshed.”
 
   Think about that.  The Lord God was refreshed.  Even God—Creator of Heaven and earth—must be and is refreshed by keeping the Sabbath.  How will I keep the Sabbath?  How will I find worship and rest and renewal—and be refreshed—so as not to be dying but truly live?  How will I not be enslaved by pursuing only material things day after day, but find a rhythm of life that lead be to be refreshed—and blessed—in the most important ways of all?
 
   Many of the lessons of the Bible contain meaning beyond the literal words—because they are the Word of God.  As we seek the meaning God wants us to know in the rhythm of worship and renewal—balancing our work and other pursuits—then in every week we will find ourselves refreshed in ways that even a Thesaurus would not be able to describe.  We will find ourselves living the deepest meaning of what Paul writes to the Philippians: “Rejoice in the Lord always.”
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
October 9, 2011
Access Sunday


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THE RIGHT AND WRONG SIDE
OF THE TRACKS

Exodus 17:1-7,
Philippians 2:1-11

Sunday, September 25, 2011 -- Bible Presentation Sunday 

   During the time that my mother was in a nursing home in our home town—especially when her condition became very serious last spring—I made many trips to visit her.  There were so many trips that I began to take different routes through town to get to the nursing home, seeing and remembering different places as I did.  Several times on these trips I decided to drive through the neighborhood and past the house where my family lived until I was eleven.
 
   Of course there have been changes since then.  The most noticeable one is that the railroad tracks are no longer there.  Railroad tracks ran at an angle through our town—and they passed right through my neighborhood.  These tracks went behind my Cousin Sandy’s house and then over and across from my house, and just across and one space over from my house was a loading and unloading station, where trains would sometimes stop to drop off or pick up cargo for transport.
 
   These tracks, I discovered, have all been taken out—as they hadn’t been used for some time. There is now grass and other nice landscaping growing along this raised area.  This certainly makes for a different and I’m sure in many ways nicer neighborhood.  In my childhood those tracks were so busy that we had to live with the smells of the steam engines and learned to sleep with the sounds of trains going by frequently in the night.
 
   One thing that had not changed was the porch on the house that had once been my family’s house.  On one of my drives through the neighborhood and past that house—probably because of the changes I had noticed where the railroad tracks had always been for me—I looked at that porch and I saw a vision—a vision of remembrance from some of the days of my childhood.
 
   In my vision I saw a man I didn’t know sitting on the porch and eating food from a plate he held in his hand—perhaps leftovers from our family’s supper the night before or perhaps some friend eggs or something else just made for him.  I found myself remembering times when I came home from school or from having been out playing somewhere, and there would be a man sitting on our porch, eating food that my mother had given to him.
 
   We know about poverty and hungry people in our time—and about ways they may go about getting a meal.  In the 1950’s it was very common for the poorest of people—“bums” some people called them—“hoboes” my mother called them—to jump onto a train and just go somewhere.  Later, when they were hungry enough and there was a chance to get off the train, as there was at that loading place near our house, they would jump off and go looking for a place where they might be given something to eat.  Our house had come to be such a place.
 
   It was in the midst of these years that I am remembering, while we living in that house—that I received my first Bible.  I was in the fourth grade. Today is the day we are giving Bibles to children of our church—third graders or in some cases, a little older.
 
   This is a very important day—Bible Sunday—and I hope that the Bibles our children receive this morning will mean as much to them as mine came to mean to me—or as the Bible you once received came to mean to you.
 
   I marked each Bible we gave this morning at the place where Jesus’ teaching of “The Golden Rule” appears.  “Do unto others as you would have them do to you” is a good place to open a Bible for the first time.  This morning’s New Testament lesson from Paul’s Letter to the Philippians is a bit more complex, so I did not choose to mark it as the first place for them to see.  This passage is, however, a foundational part of our Christian faith, and one that I hope these children will each learn about very soon.
 
   In this part of his letter to the people of Philippi, the Apostle Paul quotes the words of a hymn that was being sung in the churches of that time.  For lack of a better title—and there could be no better title—Bible scholars call it “The Christ Hymn.”  It tells in very basic and yet majestic language exactly what Jesus had done, coming to live among us on earth and giving Himself for us.  This hymn concludes, “And so every knee should bend…and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.”  These closing words of this hymn are especially important.  “Jesus is Lord.”  That was the very first creed or confession of faith of the early Christians.  “Jesus is Lord.”
 
   I want to talk to you for a moment about Phillips Brooks.  Most of us know at least one thing about Phillips Brooks.  It was he who wrote the inspiring words we sing every Christmas, the words of the hymn, “O Little Town of Bethlehem.”  Phillips Brooks lived from 1835 to 1893.  He was a minister in the Episcopal Church—and even became a bishop in Massachusetts.
 
   As one of the most respected Christian leaders of his time, he was once asked this question by a newspaper reporter.  “Mr. Brooks,” he was asked, “why are you a Christian?”  And without hesitation he answered, “I am a Christian because of my Aunt Tillie, who lives in Salem.”
 
   “It is because of my Aunt Tillie,” Phillips Brooks stated without hesitation.  This story reminds me that the Christian faith is “more caught than taught.”  It comes to us through the very real lives of people who exemplify the Christian faith for us, who lead us to ponder its meaning and in time bring us to adopt and proclaim it as our own.
 
   I would come home from school and see someone I didn’t know sitting on our porch and eating the leftovers of a meal that had been served in our kitchen the night before.  I had probably thought that this meal was “okay”—but here was someone who was relishing that same food.  I would feel rather uncomfortable, though, and go around the house and in through the back door.  Then later I would ask, “Mom, why do you do that?  What makes you think you should do that?”
 
   And she would answer me, “Well, I don’t help every time someone comes to our door like that.  But when I can tell that they really are in need and we have something extra to give them, the Bible tells me to try to do something to help.
 
   During those same years I was going to Sunday school and hearing stories from the Bible.   And when I reached fourth grade I even had a Bible of my own and read it eagerly the best that I could.
 
   As I saw my mother help a scrubby person who came to our door and then heard her explain—“When I can tell that they really are in need and we have something extra to give them, the Bible tells me to try to do something to help”—it was then that these words from the pages of the Bible became much more than only words.  They became for me the Word of God.
 
   How important it is to read the Bible—and to share copies of it with our children.  But what is most important of all is for there to be living examples of the Christian faith in our lives—and especially in the lives of our children—who bring the words of the Bible to life as the Word of God.
 
   The Christian faith is more caught than taught.  How grateful I am for the living example that you are for the children who are receiving their Bibles this morning, and for many others, as well.  Like “Aunt Tillie” for Phillips Brooks and like my mother for me, you may be the one who leads a child to know that these words in the Bible aren’t just words, but the Word of God.
 
   And once having caught this understanding and this joy, they will be ready also to catch the meaning of how God brought water from a rock, of how Jesus is Lord, of how Jesus teaches us to live by the Golden Rule—and then one day help to inspire the children of the next generation.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
September 25, 2011
Bible Presentation Sunday


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EVEN MORE ON THE FUTURE

Exodus 14:26-15:2, John 11:17-31

Sunday, September 11, 2011 -- Tenth Anniversary Observance 

   The fact that today is the first day of Sunday school in this new season, and what our Old Testament lesson for the day is, causes me to remember a story.
 
   A couple who had not let their young son be involved in any church activities at all, decided at last to allow him to attend a Sunday school class with a  friend of his.  He came home from the class and they of course wanted to know what he had learned there that day—and asked him to tell them.
 
   “Wow,” Joey told them, “it was amazing.  We learned about General Moses and how he put all of his people on pontoon boats while they were escaping from the Egyptian army so they could go safely across a sea that had been blocking them.  And as they went, General Moses had depth charges dropped into the water behind them.  No sooner had they made it across when the Egyptians also got on pontoon boats and came after them, but the depth charges began to explode and their army all sank into the water—and so the Israelite people were all free and safe!”
 
   “Now, Joey,” his parents said, feeling quite concerned.  “This isn’t what really happened, now is it?”  “Well, no,” Joey responded rather hesitantly.  “But it I told you what really happened, you’d never believe it!”
 
   Some things—especially some things in the Bible—can seem almost too amazing to believe.  Also, there are things that are so terrible that it seems at first impossible to believe.  This may well be how it was for many of us when we first heard what was happening on September 11, 2001.  It took time to soak in—to realize it was true.  It was that horribly impossible to believe.
 
   All of us who remember September 11, 2001, and the days that followed, have many specific memories about that time.  What I want to share with you right now from my memories are the two that relate most clearly to matters of faith.  One thing very clear for me is how our sanctuary was packed on the following Sundays.  Here and across our country there was record worship attendance on the Sundays after that terrible day.  The second thing I remember is how many people there were who told me this had caused them to have doubts about God and about their faith.  “I don’t want to,” people would say to me, “but after what happened and how horrible it was, I can’t help wondering—I can’t help doubting—whether God is really in charge.”
 
   People attended worship in record numbers and more people than ever said they were having doubts about their faith.  These two things sound like total contradictions of each other.  Perhaps, though, they are not.
 
   For our New Testament lesson today I have chosen to have us hear a portion of the story that was read in our church on the Sunday after September Eleven ten years ago, the story of Jesus and the raising of Lazarus from the dead.  It is in this story that Jesus weeps.
 
   Amid our many tears in those days after Nine-Eleven, this story of Jesus and His time of sorrow seemed to me an appropriate one for us to hear.  Today we hear what leads up to when Jesus weeps—and then to the miracle that will follow.
 
   When Jesus arrives at the place where Lazarus is being mourned by his family and friends, He is met by Lazarus’ sister, Martha, and here are the first words that Martha says to Jesus.  “Lord,” she says, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”  Martha’s focus is on the past—on what already happened and on how much she wishes that it could have been different.
 
   So, too, for us, after any tragic event or time of sorrow, we go over and over what happened in the past.  “If only things had been different,” we say again and again—even though we know we cannot go back to change any of those things.
 
   The first words of Martha are words about the past—which is a natural thing to do.  Notice, however, what the first words are that Jesus says.  The first words Jesus says to Martha are, “Your brother will rise again.”  Jesus speaks first of all about the future and what will be possible through the power and love of God.
 
   When people in a time of grief move at last from thinking only about the past and cannot be changed to envisioning the future and what will yet be because of the power and love of God—what an incredibly important moment that is.
 
   As our Westerville chaplains met with police and fire leaders to plan how we would mark this tenth anniversary of Nine-Eleven, we discussed many possible themes or titles for it.  I am very grateful for the theme that we were led to choose.  “A Decade of Remembering, a Future of Hope.” This is the theme and focus on which we all agreed.
 
   Remembering the past and what happened is very important.  We must not forget—and will not forget.  Even more important than the past, however, is the future.  What is most important of all is to live into the future in hope.  “Your brother will rise again,” Jesus says.  His first words to Martha in her grief about the past are His assurances about the future.  Jesus’ focus is even more on the future.  And so must ours be.
 
   For a decade we have remembered.  For a decade we have said “if only” again and again.  For a decade we have created ever tighter security restrictions.  For a decade we have lived with fear because of what happened.  For a decade we have remembered—and we will continue to remember and we will continue to be vigilantBut as Jesus says to Martha, He says also to us, “Your loved one will rise again.”  As Jesus says to Martha, He says also to us, “Envision the future and what will yet be because of the power and love of God.”  As Jesus says to Martha, He says also to us, “Even after what happened, dare to live in hope.”
 
   Most people assume that the opposite of faith is doubt.  But I propose to you that this is not true.  The opposite of faith is not doubt, but a hollow certainty.
 
   The opposite of faith is an unwillingness to go into the future in trust of God, even when we know that certainty is not possible.  Yes, we struggle in our faith—as well we should in this world of so many uncertainties and sorrows.  We struggle—but still we go forward.  We continue to trust in God even as we mourn certain things from the past.  Beyond everything else we look even more to the future with hope than to the past with regret.
 
   Jesus says to us, “Your loved one will rise again; God’s power and love will prevail.”  Therefore, even when there are no certainties we go into the future knowing that the final word in this world never was and never will be the word of terrorists or other forces of evil, but the Word of God.
 
   Martha speaks from the past—which is natural to do in a time of shock or loss.  Jesus speaks about the future.  Then Jesus says the most important words of all in this passage—words spoken in the present tense.  “I am the resurrection and the life.”  This is the greatest promise and assurance of Jesus to Martha—and to every one of us—in this or any time of sorrow.
 
   I remember clearly that after the tragedy of ten years ago many people came to worship—and many people expressed the doubts that they were having.  These two things may seem contradictory, but they are not.  Even as doubts were natural, people also were seeking to grow in their faith.  Those who sought to grow in their faith were blessed by God, and as they continued to do so they heard Jesus’ call to live into the future in hope.
 
   The opposite of faith is not doubt, but rather the desire for a hollow certainty.  With very real questions in the midst of the uncertainties of this world, we should and we do remember the past.  But even so much more, we live into the future in hope, knowing this day and every day that Jesus is the resurrection and the life.  This is the one certainty we can have—and it is all we need to provide strength and guidance for this day and for every day to come.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
September 11, 2011
Tenth Anniversary Observance


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A BONUS DAY FOR “MARVELING”

Psalm 149:1-9

Sunday, September 4, 2011 -- Labor Day Sunday 

   Most of us are familiar with a quotation by Woody Allen from many years ago.  He said, “Eighty-five per cent of life is just showing up.”  That’s pretty good—and it’s been a meaningful thought for me for some time.  “Being there” is often what matters most—or at least it can be stated that after one shows up other good things can follow.
 
   Here is another quotation—decades older and said by someone of much greater stature than Woody Allen.  Winston Churchill said, “Most of the work that is done in the world each day is done by people who do not feel very well.”
 
   When I first heard this statement I thought that it couldn’t be true.  And yet, it is true that for many if not most people there are difficulties, aches and pains, feelings of discouragement—on more days than not.  If a poll asked people at random whether they really feel like going to work, or going to school, or showing up for some other responsibility today—a majority would in all honesty answer, “No, not really.”  What matters is what Churchill realized—that they show up anyway and do their work and fulfill other responsibilities even when they aren’t feeling very well.  This is at least eighty-five per cent of life!
 
   For her text for today’s Children’s Sermon Pastor Sigrid chose another quotation.  “Six days you shall labor and do all your work.  But the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord.”  This quotation is so familiar that we can hear it without having its full meaning register with us.  These words of the Hebrew Scriptures, however, were revolutionary—they were foundational to everything else that followed in their culture.
 
   No one should be asked to work every day.  Every person—and even the work animals—deserved and needed to have a day off every week.  And this day off wasn’t just something decreed by a benevolent boss or by a labor union.  This day off was decreed by none other than God Himself, saying, “You can only honor me if you maintain balance in your life.  You honor me as you care for your inner being.”
 
   These words were revolutionary.  No other culture at that time had considered such a thing.  And they were foundational for everything else that followed for them.  The Psalms of praise to God were part of what followed, and we have heard one of them this morning, praising God for God’s goodness to their nation.  “Praise God’s name with dancing,” we read, “making melody.”  The Psalm also states that God takes pleasure in His people.  This was why God had degreed the minimum of a day off from labor each week—because God not only wanted their praise, but God took pleasure in them.  Also in this Psalm is a proclamation that I need to think about a bit more.  It says, “Let them sing for joy on their couches.”
 
   There is a “public service commercial” that’s been running recently which is directed at children.  It says, “Get out and play for an hour a day.”  When I was a child, if my friends and I had been told something like this, we would have exclaimed, “What!  What do you mean—only an hour?”
 
   A generation and more ago children played outside for many hours every day.  Such play was as natural as breathing, a given, a part of life.  Because of the proliferation of television, electronic games, and especially the internet, however, a majority of hours—if not all waking hours each day for some children—are now spend sitting indoors.  This, experts are at last realizing, is not very healthy, and so the appeal to get out and play for an hour a day represents not a major decrease, as it would have for previous generations, but a major and much needed increase.
 
   Going back to the time of the Hebrews who sang the words of this morning’s Psalm—and to the time of most people who have lived in this world—they were outside working most of the time.  Having an hour a day to be on the couch would be an unusual and wonderful joy.  And so the Psalm declares, “Let them sing for joy on their couches.”
 
   Perhaps you wondered about the word I used in the title for this morning’s sermon: “A Bonus Day for ‘Marveling.’”  What is ‘marveling,’ you may ask—and I am glad to tell you!  In past generations when the Sabbath Day at last arrived each week and people did not have to show up for work, they would rest and renew—they would sing for joy on their couches.  Most, however, did not spend all day on their couches.  In addition to taking time for worship, they would also go out for walks or drives.  They would look at and ponder the things they did not have time simply to behold with awe and wonder during the other days of the week.
 
   “Marveling” they called it—walking through the woods, smelling the flowers, looking at the cloud formations.  The Sabbath day was a day for wonder, a day to enjoy, a day to give thanks.
 
   I distinctly remember the time when I was a child and I first understood Labor Day and what it was meant to be—and, I must tell you, it did not make sense to me.  “We are honoring working people,” I thought to myself, “by not having them work on this day.  Shouldn’t Labor Day be a day when people do go to work and we all thank them for doing so?”
 
   That’s a pretty good question and I think my idea about it made sense.  It makes even more sense, however, that it is the way it is.  Labor Day was created to be a holiday—an extra day off—for people who otherwise received only one day off each week.  It was a bonus day to ‘marvel’—to walk through the woods or rest on a couch, a bonus day to find joy and renewal.
 
   “Most of the work that is done in the world each day,” Winston Churchill observed, “is done by people who do not feel very well.”
 
   It is those people who still show up—who do their work and go to class and fulfill their responsibilities—that enable all of us to have the lives that we do.
 
   How important it is, God says to us, to have a Sabbath each week.  “This is how you honor me,” God says.  How important it is to praise God, to marvel at God’s goodness, to give thanks for all God’s wonders.
 
   And once a year, an extra day we call “Labor Day,” just to “marvel,” is a marvelous idea.  Since its inception it has helped all working people to know that they are appreciated and to be renewed in strength.  Since its inception it has helped all working people once again on the next day to show up for work and other responsibilities—even when they do not feel very well.   And that makes all the difference.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
September 4, 2011
Labor Day Sunday


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NOT A GAME OF SOLITAIRE

Exodus 3:1-7

Sunday, August 28, 2011 -- Time and Talent Sunday 

   Just over three month’s ago, on the morning of May 23, I awoke in the nursing home room where my mother was receiving Hospice care.  She had been in Hospice care for over a week at that point, and along with my sister I had been spending most of every day and night in that room.
 
   Carol, my mother’s roommate, turned the television on at 7:00 every morning—and she did so again on that day—and tuned in “The Today Show.”  This was the morning after the devastating tornadoes that had struck Joplin, Missouri, and throughout the two hours of their broadcast there were graphic scenes from throughout that city, continuing reports about the mounting statistics of the storm, and interviews with those who had lived through it.
 
   I watched and listened, and I knew rationally how terrible all of it was.  And yet I did not feel the pain of the tragedy in the way I normally would.  At that time my emotional energy was drained.  After more than a week of keeping a constant vigil at my mother’s side and not knowing how much longer we would be need to be there, my ability to feel compassion beyond that room was limited.
 
   I prayed for the people of Joplin, but I was even more grateful that I knew all of you here were also praying for them.  And I confess that at that time I was most grateful of all for the prayers that I knew you were saying for me and for our family.
 
   This morning we have powerful stories in both our Old and New Testament lessons, and I am choosing to focus on the story from Exodus of the encounter Moses had with God at the burning bush.
 
   Though he had been raised in the Pharaoh’s house in Egypt, Moses knew he was by blood one of the Hebrew slaves who had been put to work there.  Moses, however, had escaped from Egypt many years before this and was now living a very solitary life in a remote region far away.  Moses thoroughly expected that this was how he would live out his days, in this place, far away, unconnected from his people.
 
   On a day that starts out so routinely, however, things quickly becomes anything but routine, as Moses sees a bush that is burning—and burning—and yet not burning itself out.  Finally, he simply has to see what in the world is happening here—and he finds that he is in the presence of the Holy.  The miracle he sees, and the voice he hears, tells Moses that he is in the presence of God.
 
   This is quite amazing to say the least.  But what God says to Moses—the words that conclude this morning’s lesson but only begin the elaborate story that will then follow—are most amazing of all.  “I have observed the misery of my people who are in Egypt,” God says; “I have heard their cry…I know their sufferings.”  And from here God will state that Moses is the one most prepared to lead these people on God’s behalf out of slavery and into freedom.
 
   Sheila Fox opened our church council meeting this month with a devotion that was very moving for me.  Her devotion focused on the theme that no one can be a solitary Christian.  God calls us into community, to care about one another and to work together to fulfill God’s purposes.
 
   Moses expected to live out his life as a solitary individual, but God called him and convinced him that he was needed for a far greater purpose, living in the midst of others.
 
   Today we are celebrating the 25th ordination anniversary of the Rev. Marilyn Marshall-Goetz.  As a friend and colleague of Marilyn’s I have learned many things from her.  There is one lesson that I remember most of all.
 
   Marilyn began to attend our church just as one of our charter members, a beautiful person named Robin Seils, had returned to active involvement with us.  Sadly, it was also at that time that Robin was diagnosed with leukemia, and it was a very serious diagnosis.  I went to visit Robin in her hospital room at the same time that Marilyn was also visiting her.  As I arrived, Marilyn was talking with Robin about being hopeful in God during this time.  Robin responded that in this time she was not able to feel such hope.  Marilyn took Robin’s hand and looked into her eyes and said to her, “Then I will hold your hope for you until you can feel it again.”
 
   Those words meant more to Robin than I can possibly explain to you.  They also meant so much to me, and have been a lesson to me ever since.
 
   There are times for each of us when we feel depleted.  In such times our faith may be low—and we may not be able to feel any hope at all.  We may not even be able to pray for ourselves very well in such a time.  In such a time and through such times those who are part of our church community—our faith family—hold our hope for us, pray for us, offer us the strength and support we need more than ever and would not otherwise find or know at that time.
 
   This is what I felt throughout those long days of vigil in my mother’s nursing home.  Even when I could not feel much compassion beyond our own situation, and did not feel great faith or strength, I felt your strength; I felt your prayers; I felt your hope that you were holding for me and for everyone else in my family at that time.
 
   Today is “Time and Talent Sunday” at our church.  Many people might think that all this means is that we are giving thanks for various talents that members of our church may have and for the 24 hours we each have every day—and that on this day we encourage one another to share more of those hours and talents through our church.  And, yes, all of this is true.  But what is most important about this day is the sharing of our faith—and our giving thanks for what we share and for how we support one another in all times and especially in the times of need that each of us goes through.
 
   Life is not a game of Solitaire.  We are not called by God to go off by ourselves and be removed from the needs of others—and the support of others.
 
   .  “I have observed the misery of my people who are in Egypt,” God says to Moses; “I have heard their cry…I know their sufferings.”  God’s power to make the bush burn and burn and not be consumed is quite amazing.  What is most amazing, however, is God’s compassion for people in need and God’s call to each of us to live in community, giving support and receiving support—and when necessary even holding one another’s hope—as we share our time, our talent, and most of all our faith.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
August 28, 2011
Time and Talent Sunday


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TRANSFORMERS FOR TWO MILLENNIA

Romans 12:1-2

Sunday, August 21, 2011 -- Tenth Sunday after Pentecost 

   During my Sabbatical earlier this summer I studied the challenges that Christian Churches are facing at this time, and found that there are certainly many of them.  Among all these, however, perhaps the biggest single challenge is the perception that teens, twenty-something’s, and thirty-something’s have come to have about churches.  Again and again, I read or heard, younger people now tend to think of the Church as “out of touch,” as “fighting against scientific understandings,” as “working harder to keep people out than welcoming people in,” or—most indicting of all—even thinking of the Church as “Unchristian” in terms of their understanding of what “Christian should be.”
 
   There are many reasons that such perceptions have come about for our younger generations.  One of the most compelling reasons for these perceptions is media coverage of religious storiesWhen is it, I ask you, that a story about religion or a church or a church leader makes the news?  What about a time that a radical and fringe group who call themselves a church demonstrate and shout horrible, hateful things at the funeral of a military person?  What about a time that a crazed minister threatens publicly to burn the holy book of another religion?  What about a time when a church leader is caught living a secret life totally the opposite of what he preaches, or caught skimming money from his church in order to live a lavish life-style?  Yes, you can be certain that any story such as these will be covered in great detail.
 
   I will not say that such stories should receive no coverage at all, but I will ask about the countless other stories that could be covered.  What about a time when a church sends a crew of people, as ours did recently, to work on the yards and homes of families who are in need in Columbus—or sends teens and adults together to work on homes of families in need in West Virginia—or changes hundreds of lives forever by paying for the building of wells in a nation in Africa?  Will any of these stories be covered by television crew and newspaper reporters or photographers?  No—not likely.
 
   During the past week several people have asked me about this morning’s New Testament lesson.  It’s Romans chapter twelve, verses one and two.  “Only two verses,” I have been asked, “is that all we are reading?”  And my answer is “Yes, that’s it absolutely.”  There is so much in these two verses that I don’t know that we could “take much more” than this!  Consider what is in just these two verses: presenting ourselves to God as a living sacrifice; not letting ourselves be conformed to this world but transformed by discerning the will of God; discovering what is good and acceptable and perfect.  I would say that this is more than enough to try to cover in one morning’s service!
 
   As I have studied these two verses in greater depth, here is some of what I have taken away as a summary of their meaning.  To follow these teachings we must live actively for more than ourselves.  We must move from compulsion to inspiration as the basis for our living.  And we must move from a dying existence to being true worshipers who are continually renewed in faith and in hope.
 
   Allow me to distill these vital teachings even more.  I will never forget a seminar I attended in which the leader had offered many very meaningful insights about the Christian faith over a period of several hours.  Then came the question and answer period that always follows such a time, and I remember most of all a question that I knew was impossible for anyone to answer.  “Professor,” this person asked, “how would you proclaim the message of the Christian faith in one word?  What would that word be?”
 
   “Well,” I thought to myself, “that is certainly a ridiculous question to be asking.”  But without hesitation this Biblical teacher answered it!  “Transformation,” he proclaimed, “the message and meaning of the Christian faith beyond all else is the transforming of lives.”  And as he said this I thought about our passage for this morning—so brief, and yet so immense in what it says.  And what it says most of all is to be transformed by the renewing of our minds through the will of God.
 
   “Transformers” may be a relatively new phenomenon in our society, getting great media attention through the “Transformers” movies and toys and posters that we see so often.  Not as a recent phenomenon but as its mission for two millennia—for two thousand years—the Bible has called Christians to be transformers—to be transformed by God and then in turn to bring transformation to the lives of those among us who are in need of such blessing.  This is exactly what we in our church are called to be and to do—whether or not the national or even local media ever pick up on these stories.
 
   This is also exactly what happened just over a week ago, as crews from our congregation worked for three days with families in need on their homes and yards.  After those projects were completed the words I heard most of all about what happened at those sites were “dramatic difference” and “transforming change.”
 
   These pictures may not be picked up by our local television stations and shown in public ways, so I have asked that they be shown to you this morning.  Here are some before and after pictures showing the dramatic difference, the transforming change that members of our church helped to bring about….
 
   Only two verses—this is how long today’s Scripture lesson is.  But how packed with meaning these verses are—with more than enough for us to try to absorb into our understanding this morning, and then to seek to live for the rest of our lives.  “Be transformed by discerning the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”  This is the compelling and challenging message that the Bible has dared to proclaim for two thousand years, and that we hear anew today.  This is the compelling and challenging message that those who are taking membership vows this morning are daring to say yes to embracing, whether or not the media these days are picking up on the power of this message.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
August 21, 2011
Tenth Sunday after Pentecost


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BOLD BEYOND BELIEF

Genesis 45:1-15

Sunday, August 14, 2011 -- Sunday before School Starts! 

   This is not the most common question I am asked—but it is a very frequent one.  I am asked very often about forgiveness.
 
   “Pastor,” I am asked, “do I have to forgive that person”—or “those persons”—“after what they did to me?”  Or the question may be phrased, “Does the Bible say I have to forgive?” or “How can God expect me ‘just to forget it’ after what they did?”
 
   Forgiveness is not easy even to ask about, much less do.  The pain on the face of the person asking tells me how deeply they are struggling with the question, and that it is one that cannot be answered hastily or lightly.
 
   This morning’s Scripture describes one of the most dramatic scenes in the entire Bible—which is saying something, because there are many very dramatic scenes in it.
 
   Joseph was the eleventh of twelve sons born to the patriarch, Jacob, and from the viewpoint of his ten older brothers, he was their father’s favorite.  One day when Joseph was seventeen his brothers became so jealous of Joseph and angry with him that in a fit of rage they were ready to kill him.  While they didn’t do that, they did the next closest thing.  They captured him and sold him into slavery to some Egyptian traders passing through their land.  So Joseph was taken away.  Whether he would die sooner or later in slavery in that foreign land the brothers did not know and did not care.  They did know that they would never see him again and that was fine with them.  To cover their tracks they told their father that Joseph had been killed by a wild animal.
 
   In his life as a slave in Egypt Joseph went through terrible times and amazing ones—sometimes in prison and sometimes out.  What was by far most amazing of all was that while he was in prison he was able to interpret a dream of the Pharaoh concerning seven years of bountiful harvests and then seven years of famine that were ahead.  As Joseph outlined the strategy they must have for storing up all the grain possible during the good years in order to get through the coming years of famine, the Pharaoh not only released Joseph from prison, but placed him second in command only to Pharaoh in all of Egypt in order to direct the carrying out this plan.
 
   This morning’s portion of the story takes place after the seven bountiful years and during the second year of famine.  People from many nations are now traveling to Egypt to buy grain, as it is the only nation that was wise enough to store up so much extra.  Among those who come to Egypt seeking to buy grain are Joseph’s own brothers, the very people who years before had sentenced him at the least to a life of misery and most likely to an early death.
 
   Now we come to this morning’s scene, when Joseph’s brothers are brought before him.  Of course they do not recognize this adorned and powerful man who speaks the Egyptian language and rules with such immense power.  Joseph, however, recognizes them, and gives orders for his assistants to leave the room so he can be alone with them.
 
   “Joseph,” we read, “could no longer control himself.”  The emotion he felt was so strong that he “wept so loudly” that even though the doors were closed, the Egyptians in the rest of the household could hear him.  “I am Joseph,” he now says to them, and then asks, “Is my father still alive?”
 
   I can’t begin to imagine what his brothers are thinking at this point, but it must be a combination of shock, disbelief—and fear.
 
   Then Joseph says the most important words of all.  “Do not be distressed, or angry with yourselves, because you sold me into slavery,” he says to them, “for God sent me before you to preserve life.”  In this incredibly amazing story, these words of Joseph are most amazing of all.
  
   “Do I have to forgive that person”—or “those persons”—“after what they did to me?” “Does the Bible say I have to forgive?” or “How can God expect me ‘just to forget it’ after what they did?”
 
   These are deeply difficult and troubling questions.  Perhaps you have asked such a question at some time in your life.  I know that I have.
 
   In response to someone struggling with such a question I cannot and do not simply say, “Well, of course you have to forgive and that’s that!”  Forgiveness is never as simple or easy as that.  As we continue to talk about what they are going through, I do say this: “I pray that at some point you will be able to forgive.”
 
   There is much for us to learn from the story of Joseph and such amazing forgiveness on his part.  It is important to note that Joseph’s forgiveness does not occur instantly.  His brothers had sold him when he was 17.  More than 20 years have passed since, so that he is now in his very late 30’s.  Many things have transpired and Joseph has come to recognize what is most amazing of all in this or any other story—and that is the purpose and providence of God.  Joseph’s forgiveness is offered so graciously—and yet we must see that it is offered within a far greater context—a context of being able to say, “God sent me here…to preserve life.”
 
   When I say to someone, “I pray that at some time you will be able to forgive,” I am not telling them just to “forget it” or that this means no more than simply letting the other person or persons “off the hook.”  Also, and perhaps most importantly of all, in hoping this person will be able at some point to forgive, I am saying this not so much for the benefit of the one being forgiven as I am for the benefit and blessing of this person who may offer forgiveness.
 
   Forgiveness is a power that is bold beyond belief, because forgiveness is not just a feeling or an idea; it is a bold force made known through the actions that will follow.
 
   The person who forgives is now released from the power that had been gripping him or her and receives the far greater power and providence God—which continues to give more and more blessing.
 
   Forgiveness seems at first to be unilateral.  The person doing the forgiving must be the one first of all to offer this.  As the bold force of forgiveness is extended, however, we realize that this is not just unilateral, because God is in the midst of it.  God’s providential power now comes to be known in still greater ways, even as Joseph could see the ways that God had been working all along to provide.
 
   I cannot tell you that you must forgive or when you must do so.  And I cannot and do not tell you just to forget whatever happened.  But I do say to you that as you remember what happened and as you open yourself to God’s far greater power and providence, you will come to that time of letting go of what was gripping you and holding you captive as you go forward into the far greater future God wants to give.
 
   What a powerful moment it is when you are able to say and to act upon these declarations: “I am strong…I am even stronger…because no matter what your intentions were, whether accidental or purposeful, God’s purposes are so much greater.  And that is why I have become even stronger through this.  It is because no matter what you intended or did, God has sent me forth—and continues to send me forth—to preserve and to embrace life—abundant life in this world and eternal life beyond.”
 
   Forgiveness is a very personal and very challenging subject.  I have tried to offer this morning not just my thoughts but a Biblical view concerning it.  True forgiveness cannot be offered hastily or lightly, but when we come to the time of being able to offer it, what power, what blessing it holds—and will hold eternally.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
August 14, 2011
Sunday before School Starts!


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THAT’S NOT FAIR

Genesis 37:1-28

Sunday, August 7, 2011 -- Eighth Sunday after Pentecost 

That’s not fair--this might be the most popular statement amongst siblings.
That’s not fair--you like him better than me.
That’s not fair--he gets more presents than I do.

Maybe as parents you have heard this statement: “That’s not fair” before?
Maybe after you heard “That’s not fair” you tried to explain your actions, but the ears couldn’t listen, but were pre-occupied with the feelings that things are not fair?
Maybe the person who is convinced that “this is not fair” does not see the many times when he or she received privileges?

In today’s story I hear the siblings say: That’s not fair.
That’s not fair that the youngest brother is Dad’s favorite.
That’s not fair that the youngest is given this beautiful new colorful coat made out of the finest material and we, the older brothers, have to wear the dull tan and green colors that don’t show the dirt, and clothes that last a long time.
That’s not fair that this beautiful coat makes our little brother look like someone who is too good to do any manual chores.
That’s not fair that he is treated as someone special and we have to work extra so that he can rest and take it easy.
That’s not fair that he is parading around and watches us work hard.
That’s not fair that we have to pick up where he slacks off.
That’s not fair that he also dared to share his dreams with us.
That’s not fair, that even in his dreams we were his slaves.
That’s not fair that he, the youngest, treats us so unfairly.

That’s not fair and so many other things which are not fair about our youngest brother, so we as siblings want to do something about him. We want to take matters in our own hand.

Let him figure out what it means to be treated unfairly. Let him feel it--because that only would be fair.

It is that even in the time of the Old Testament, siblings were concerned about being treated unfairly. Parents and everyone else who has ever heard: That’s not fair--be comforted. You are not dealing with a new or unusual complaint. This criticism is thousand of years old. Our story of the Old Testament is a prime example of sibling rivalry and how older brothers tried to deal with unfairness in their own way.

It is also good to know that the Bible never says that God is fair. But when God created the world and everything in it, God said: It is good. And when God created humans in God’s image, God said: It is very good.

The Bible does not say that life is fair. The Bible does not say that God is fair. Actually reading some of the stories, and who God chooses to be leaders of his people, it doesn’t look to be fair at all. At least according to our standards, God sometimes may have chosen the wrong person. Couple of weeks ago we read about how Jacob tricks the birthright of his older brother Esau, and he will be God’s chosen one. In today’s story we read that Joseph as the only one amongst his brothers who gets this wonderful coat and dreams that his older brothers will be servants to him. Or consider Moses, who even kills an Egyptian guard, will be the leader of the Israelites. Or King David did not always behave in a royal matter--but he is chosen to be the king and many psalms are accredited to him. These are just a few examples in the Bible when we think that life is not fair.

The Bible doesn’t say that life is fair. The Bible does say that God is good. About 2 years ago one of our members, Tom White, had his terrible accident falling ofF a tall ladder. He spent many weeks in the hospital, received many blood transfusions and there were many weeks of uncertainty and intense prayers. Whenever Susan posted updates about Tom, and sometimes the medical diagnosis and prognosis didn’t look good, she concluded with the sentences: God is good--all the time. Life might not always be fair, but God is good--all the time.

I have to admit--the more I read how the youngest brother Joseph was treated differently and received all the privileges, the more I can sympathize with the brothers. That does not mean I would have acted the same way. But I can understand where they are coming from and their feelings of: That’s not fair. It is sometimes difficult for us to accept that other people are given more privileges than we have. It is sometimes difficult for us to live with the fact that we are not chosen. It is sometimes difficult for us not to act like the brothers and take matters into our hands--and to make things fair--at least for a while.

The story of Joseph doesn’t end here, but the adventures are just starting. After the brothers threw him into the pit, the brothers sold him to strangers and Joseph started his journey in Egypt. Joseph doesn’t complain about his new circumstances, but with a great attitude, he adapts to his new situation and prospers. Joseph uses the special gift which God has given him--the power to interpret dreams--not only to save his own life, but also to save nations from draught. And what is even more wonderful to fathom--all this time God is with Joseph, even through some challenging times of distrust, and danger. Joseph’s new life is far different than before--but God turns a potential terrible situation into something positive. And even more: It was Joseph who saved the nation and even his own brothers and their family from famine.

Life is not always fair. But maybe the brothers and also we don’t need to spend so much time and energy arguing why certain things are not fair, but rather use that energy to re-focus. Instead of pointing out what we don’t have, instead of focusing of all the things we think are not fair, maybe we could learn to see life from a different perspective: What do we have? What can we do to live life to its fullest?

Life happens--and sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. But you can choose how you adapt and what you focus on.

Life is not always fair, but maybe we could the same letters F A I R and use other words starting with the same letter.

F is for forgiveness.
If life is not fair, then forgiveness isn’t fair either. But how much easier is it for us to live with forgiveness than adding up all the times which in our mind are not fair? Forgiveness is not necessarily about the other person, but forgiveness is really a gift we give to ourselves. Because forgiveness offers peace.

A is for attitude.
Attitude is more than adding up facts. Attitude is how we live with what is given to us. Every single day, many times during the day we have a choice we will embrace for that day. We cannot change the past, we cannot change certain facts, we cannot change how other people will react. The only thing you can do is to decide how you react. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it. Only you are in charge of your attitudes.

I is for impact.
What impact does this incident which you think is unfair have on your life? Not only for today, but for the following week, month or year? And to widen our horizon: what impact does this unfair incident have on life in general?? Will, what seems to be so unfair, change the world?

R is for relax and let go--let go and let God.
Maybe this is the most difficult. You are not in charge. You don’t know what the future will bring. As the brothers did in our story, they dealt in their way with what they thought was unfair, but little did they knew that the brothers, whom they sold, will actually save them in the future. Relax, let go and let God.

Maybe if we start concentrating more on those four words starting with the same letters as the word fair: forgiveness attitude, Impact and relax, maybe then we can join Susan in her words: God is good--all the time. Amen.

Rev. Dr. Sigrid Rother
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
August 7, 2011
Eighth Sunday after Pentecost


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Wedding Ceremony                        


Alicia Delvaux and Nevin Steindam Wedding Ceremony

Saturday, August 6, 2011

   Recently when I told a fellow minister that Jenny and I would be officiating at our son’s wedding, he asked me if I would be including any embarrassing stories about Nevin from his growing up as part of it!  My immediate answer was--and is--“No, of course not!”  So, Nevin, you can relax about that!

   I’m not including any such stories because it wouldn’t be the least bit appropriate, but in addition to that I’m not doing so because there really aren’t any such stories to tell!  Oh, I remember and could tell a few cute things as every parent can about their children.  When all is said and done, however, what has always been true and matters most of all is that you, Nevin, are such a good person.  And what has always been true and matters most of all is that in Alicia you are
marrying such a good person.

  I will share one memory, but it is from my own private thoughts.  This is something that many parents may wonder about as their children grow.  There were times as you were growing up, Nevin, I would think about the long-term future and know that you would probably marry some day, and of course I hoped that the person you would find to share your life with would be such a good person.  And I remember thinking, “The person Nevin will marry is out there ‘somewhere’ right now and there is nothing I can do at this time to help make that person be a good and wonderful one.  Jenny and I can only do our best as Nevin’s parents and trust that the parents of his future bride are also doing their best right now.  And, indeed, that is exactly what was happening all along.

   Alicia, you chose for this ceremony a verse from the Bible that I have never used in a wedding before.  The verse is Lamentations 3:22 and I am very grateful that you have chosen it, because it is exactly right for this day.  “Because of the Lord’s great love,” we read, “we are not consumed, for His compassion does not fail.”

   Tom and Judy, Jenny and I, take great pride that the two of you have grown to be the persons you are and that we had important parts in this. And yet we know that so much more also happened--many more influences, challenges and blessings than we could control--all of which together have brought you through these years and led you to be who you are and where you are as you give yourselves to one another in marriage.  “God’s compassion does not fail,” Lamentations says, “because of God’s
great love.”

   In addition to your choice of the Lamentations verse, Alicia, I very much appreciate your choice of the beautiful poem that Jacky read just minutes ago--“The Pleasures of an Ordinary Life.”  This poem lifts up what matters most of all in this world--the pleasures that are too often considered ordinary--the enjoyment of what is of lasting meaning that we are blessed to share in the midst of what is usually called “ordinary.”

   I am led to think about the wedding that received the most attention and media coverage by far this year--the “royal wedding” of Prince William and Kate Middleton a few months ago.

     There was so much fanfare around this wedding that people could conclude that somehow it must “count more” than any other wedding.  In truth what it “counts for” is exactly the same as every other wedding this year or any year in which two people enter their marriage covenant with the sincere desire to commit their lives to one another.

   There are often times after a celebrity wedding that there are soon reports of problems and an ending of the relationship.  And we wonder how that can be.  This couple had “everything”--wealth, glamour, fame.  But what they did not come to have is what matters most of all.  They did not embrace the pleasures of the ordinary--which are most important of all.  They did not allow themselves to see the compassion and the blessing brought to their lives because of God’s great love.

   The verse from Lamentations about God’s great love and blessing throughout our lives affirms what is most true and important of all.  The passage from Colossians that you also chose tells how to embrace and live this most important blessing from day to day.  “Kindness, forgiveness, and thankfulness” are the traits that I want to lift up from this passage most of all for you always to remember and follow.

   Alicia and Nevin, each of you is the person you are--each such a good person--and today you become even better person still as you become one together in God’s great love.  God’s love and compassion will continue to bless each of you and bless the two of you together, so that this love will also bless the countless other lives that you together will touch throughout the coming years.

   As you share the pleasures of your ordinary life, you will find that they are truly the most extraordinary blessings of all.  Alicia and Nevin, may your love be extraordinary--as God’s blessing continues to be made known to you and
through you--now and always.

Rev. Harold Steindam
Alicia Delvaux and Nevin Steindam Wedding Ceremony
Saturday, August 6, 2011


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St. John's UCC 50th Anniversary                        


FINDING EMPLOYMENT

Psalm 105:1-6, Matthew 20:1-16

Sunday, September 18, 2011 -- St. John’s UCC 50th Anniversary Celebration

   Worship services have now been held in this sanctuary—and in the accompanying Chapel alongside it—for fifty years.  By my quick calculations I find that there have been approximately 2600 Sundays during this period of time—twenty-six hundred “Lord’s Days” on which worship has been held and sermons preached here.
 
   Recently I heard for the first time one of the sermons preached in this sacred space during this half century.  The date of this particular sermon was June 22, 1975—and I heard it for the first time on May 30 of this year.
 
   It was on May 30 that my mother, Alice Steindam, died after a lengthy stay at the Genoa Care Center.  After we took care of the things that families need to do at such a time, I returned along with my sister, Shirley, her husband, Mike, their daughter, Darci, and her infant son, Russell, to our parents’ long-time home on Genoa-Clay Center Road.  We had not been there long when my sister found a box of cassette tapes that my mother had recorded many years ago—including a recording of the sermon that Rev. Paul Deppen preached here on the morning of June 22, 1975.  That was a significant date for our family, as it was the day of my ordination as a Christian minister.
 
   For some time I had been serving my first church—Emanuel United Church of Christ in Upper Sandusky—as a student minister, and so I was there leading worship and not here that morning. The ordination service would take place here later in the day.  That morning, however, worship as always took place here and as an important part of his sermon, Rev. Deppen referred to the upcoming ordination service.  He did not talk just about me and my calling into ministry, however.  Rather, he used this occasion as a teaching opportunity for all members of this congregation—to have everyone listen and consider again how God calls each of us in our lives.
 
   “Look what I found,” Shirley suddenly called out as she brought the tape and an old cassette player into the living room of our mother’s house.  She pushed the play button and I listened to this sermon that had been preached here—a sermon I had not before heard—on what had been such a significant day in my life.  Now I was listening to it on yet another very significant day for us—the day of the beginning of our mother’s eternal life.
 
   As I’m sure all of you who know and have heard Rev. Deppen can imagine—this particular sermon was very inspiring.  And as I listened to it I found myself thinking about how many inspiring services, how many inspiring sermons—how many inspiring moments—there have been in this sacred space throughout these fifty years. 
 
   As I have anticipated this very special day, I have realized that there have been many such moments in this Sanctuary and for this congregation that I have not been part of—even as I was not part of that morning’s service on June 22, 1975.  I have, however, been extremely blessed to be part of and inspired by countless other moments—through many of the pastors, parishioners, and services of this church.
 
   I consider myself very blessed to be able to remember Rev. Paul David, and to know that it was he who baptized me.  I remember Rev. Robert Nienkamp with such gratitude—and will always remember how he led our congregation up to the time of his death in the decision to build this beautiful church.  I remember Rev. Paul Rohrbaugh who was my pastor through my formative years, including my confirmation classes, and Rev. Robert Carlson, who arrived just in time for my confirmation day and who was a great inspiration during high school years.  Both Rev. Rohrbaugh and Rev. Carlson have continued to be friends and colleagues and guides for me throughout the years of my ministry.  Then, as I was about to graduate high school Rev. Paul Deppen arrived, and what blessing he brought to the church overall and to so many of us individually.  Still today, whenever I am asked “who my home minister” is, I say, without pause, Rev. Paul Deppen.  And our family will never forget how Rev. Deppen and Rev. Robert Waidmann ministered to my father, Bernard Steindam, more than 28 years ago, during his time of his illness and dying, and ministered to our family as they did to countless others in such deeply meaningful ways.  And for more than a quarter century since that time others in pastoral ministry, others as staff members, and so many others as teachers and musicians and more have continued to lead and bring blessing to and through this great church.
 
   This congregation has now served its community and world in Christ’s name for over one hundred and forty years—with the past fifty of these years being at this location and centered in this sacred space.  These are incredible numbers—remarkable periods of time—but they find their full meaning only when I begin to think in terms of each individual, each family, that has been enriched here—and realize that my family is but one of the hundreds—thousands even—that has been so blessed here.
 
   As I walk through, look through, or even think about this space that we dedicated to God’s glory fifty years ago, I can see or picture in my mind so many significant events and places within these walls.  I remember that even for me as a child fifty years ago it was very meaningful for me that the pulpit furnishings from our former church building were being brought here for our ongoing use and services in the chapel.  And here in the sanctuary itself, I look about and see the places where I was standing, or sitting, or kneeling at very important moments in my life.
 
   I think most of all about this pew right here...  For some reason this was the pew that my family chose early on as “our spot” for worship, and for years, my dad, mom, sister, and I sat in it every Sunday morning for worship.  By the time I was in junior high and high school, however, whenever I could I did move up to the balcony with my friends to sit with them there.  I don’t know if that still happens with some of the teens of this church, but I hope so!
 
   This, you see, has been and continues to be the sacred space where the words of this morning’s Psalm are lived out—where we give thanks to the Lord, call on the name of the Lord, sing to the Lord and seek God’s presence and strength.
 
   What an inspiring place this is.  And of all that is here as a permanent part of this space, I have to say that what is most striking of all are the windows that surround and adorn and inspire us here and in the chapel as well.
 
   Not only were these windows of a new style at that time—as beautiful as and yet different from traditional stained glass—but most of these windows, as many of you know, were designed to interpret the Statement of Faith of our United Church of Christ.  Only recently did it dawn on me just how amazing this was!  The Statement of Faith was written and accepted by our still very new United Church of Christ denomination in 1959.  In 1961 this Sanctuary was dedicated, with these windows so beautifully designed, produced, and installed at that time.  How amazing indeed it was and is that in that very “brief window” of time, these incredible windows came into being and have inspired worshipers here for fifty years since—and I expect will continue to do so for at least that many years and more into the future.
 
   On this very important date we gather—as individual families within the larger family of St. John’s United Church of Christ—gather on this Lord’s Day at this time within the beautiful windows and more of this sacred space.  We each have found “our pew” or other place for this day to hear God’s Word.  And—what is the Word that we hear today?
 
   We hear one of Jesus’ most powerful—and most controversial—parables! I must confess to you that when I saw that this would be the Gospel reading for this particular Sunday, my first thought was, “Oh, no—not that one—not on this special day!”
 
   Jesus tells about the owner of a vineyard who goes out early in the morning to hire workers for the day.  This was a common occurrence at t that time.  Many people were “day laborers”—who hoped each day that they would be hired by someone so that at the end of the day they could purchase food for their family.  There was a gathering place in each town where such workers would assemble by six in the morning—with the hope that they would be hired and earn the “usual wage” or standard amount of one denarius for that day’s work.
 
    Jesus says that this day begins and at six in the morning many but not all of those assembled are hired by various employers, including those fortunate enough to go to work for this owner of a vineyard, who agrees with them to pay the usual wage.  At nine o’clock this employer decides that he can use more workers and goes back to the town’s gathering place where he hires some of those still waiting and hoping there.  He does the same at a noon and then at three.  There isn’t even time to discuss a wage at this point—“Just go to work and I’ll be fair with you,” he promises.  Finally, at five in the afternoon he goes back one more time.  The working day at that time was twelve hours—six to six—which means there’s only one hour left to go.  “Why are you still here?” he asks the people still waiting after being there all day.  “Because no one has hired us,” they answer, and he says to them, “You also go into the vineyard.”  Six o’clock arrives.  The work day is over.  It’s time to pay the workers and the owner has them paid in reverse order to how they had been hired.
   Those who had started at five o’clock and worked for only an hour don’t expect to receive much but at least it will be something.  How amazed they must be when they each receive a denarius, the usual rate at that time for a full day’s work!  So also the others all receive a denarius, until at last those who had worked for the full twelve hours step forward.  I can understand what they are thinking: “Wow, if the guys who worked one hour have received a denarius, how much more will those of us who have worked all twelve hours be paid?”  But they also are paid—one denarius—and they complain bitterly about how unfair this is.  And—it is unfair, is it not?
 
   In another way, however, it is fair because, as the owner reminds them, this is exactly what they had agreed upon at six that morning for their wage to be.  Even so, I find myself identifying with and being upset along with these workers.  “Twelve hours, same pay as for those who’d worked one?—come on!”  This is why I thought to myself, “Oh, no,” when I first saw that this would be today’s Scripture.  “Why such un unsettling and controversial teaching of Jesus on what should be a festive and celebrative morning?” I found myself asking!
 
   Eventually, however, I came to realize that this is the very teaching that we at this time and in this sacred space need to hear.  We are here this morning—all together.  Some of us have been here since six in the morning and have done so much for the work of this church for what seems a very long time.  Others didn’t arrive until five o’clock.  And yet we’re here together—all here as part of this one beautiful family of God’s people.  And the reward for all of us—of being able to enjoy and be inspired by and within this glorious space—is exactly the same.  Each of us is offered the grace of God—for now, for each of the days to come in the life we have in this world—and for eternal life to come.
 
   I noted a moment ago that while it seemed so unfair that the “twelve hour” workers were paid only a denarius, from a “labor standpoint” this actually was perfectly fair, because this was the wage on which they had agreed.  There is another way also in which the payment of a denarius to every worker was even more fair—was most fair of all.  As I noted, each worker went to the gathering place that morning hoping for work so that he could buy food for his family later that day.  For many families at that time, there would be little or nothing to eat on the days that their wage-earner did not find work.
 
   This vineyard owner in Jesus’ parable—very much like God Himself—wants blessing for every individual, for every family.  And so he is generous—even to the point that some would begrudge such generosity.
 
   The title for this sermon preached within this sacred space on this very important day—is “Finding Employment.”  All of us know what “employment” is—just as those would-be, hopeful workers in Jesus’ parable knew.  In today’s economic times we hear and think even more deeply about what employment means.  But on this day I must say to you that there is an even greater meaning for the word “employment” than what we usually think.  I opened the dictionary this week to this word, and yes, there are the expected definitions about finding engagement for pay in a job.
 
   The dictionary’s first definition of all, however, for “employment” is this: “Purpose.”  “To be employed is to have purpose for our lives—hopefully in a way that earns enough money to support ourselves and our families, but also in many and far more important ways than that.
 
   As I say to every class of new members who join the congregation I serve in Westerville, Ohio, I say to you.  I hope and I pray that you will be here—within this sacred space for worship and learning and fellowship—often.  But far more important than what you do or receive within these walls will then take place as you go out from these walls.  Inspired by what you receive here may you live every day of your life with a faith-based sense of purpose.  Allow me say this once more.  “May you live every day of your life with a faith-based sense of purpose!”
 
   For fifty years worship and so much more has taken place within these walls, taken place within the beauty of these windows.  For over one hundred and forty years this congregation—many families joining together as one family—have worshiped and worked and served together as St. John’s Evangelical Church—and then as St. John’s Evangelical and Reformed Church—and ever since moving to this location as St. John’s United Church of Christ.  But always, though our denominational name has changed, the One in whose name we serve—Jesus Christ—has remained always the same.
 
   For two thousand years the message of Jesus Christ has been proclaimed in this world through faithful congregations in all the towns and cities that now cover the world.  How grateful I am for this congregation.  Whenever you first came to work and serve as part of this great church—whether at six in the morning or only at five in the afternoon—may you know the blessing of that one denarius of reward that you and all others are blessed to receive here.  May you continue to gather with your family within this wider family—whether always in the same pew or always moving to different ones—in such a way that you find employment—in order that you find that faith-based sense of purpose to guide and bless you as you go out from this sacred space and into the world.   May that one denarius of God’s grace bring blessing to you and through you for this day, for the days to come, and indeed—as for my parents and for so many others who have worshiped and been nourished here in the past—for eternal life.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
St. John’s United Church of Christ
Genoa, Ohio
September 18, 2011
Fiftieth Anniversary Celebration of New Church and Sanctuary



Special Tribute                        


Tribute to Rev. Bill Chidester

 

Tuesday, May 24, 2011  

   On the day that I met Bill Chidester he became my friend.  And from that day on he would always be my best friend in ministry.

   It was late summer 1975.  Bill had recently moved to Ohio to serve Sycamore United Church of Christ, located only eight or nine miles from the church near Upper Sandusky that I had been serving, and we both attended a meeting of area UCC clergy.  There was a presence about Bill that caused me immediately to want to get to know him and as I found a way to sit next to him and we talked just briefly, it was clear to me that here was someone I could respect and learn from.  I was quite right about those initial thoughts, although I could not begin to imagine how much I would learn from him and come to respect him over the course of the more than 35 years that would follow as colleagues and friends.

   Bill came to rural Ohio from Yale Divinity School with a great deal of knowledge and expertise to share.  He came, however, as one who was so approachable.  Bill had amazing abilities and insights—whether in preaching or offering pastoral care or leading a meeting—and he shared each gift by meeting people where they were, always inviting and caring as his way of going about ministry.

   Bill had a can-do attitude.  Less than a month after meeting one another, he and I formed a small group with two or three other clergy who began to meet weekly in Bill and Sharon’s home to discuss Scripture lessons for the coming Sunday’s sermon.  During one of those sessions we somehow began to talk about taking our Confirmation kids on a trip to discover United Church of Christ heritage.  It was an overwhelming idea to me but Bill knew we could do it.  And indeed we did.  In the summer of 1976 we took more than 50 Confirmation students and other leaders on a ten day bus trip through Pennsylvania, New Jersey, New York, and New England states.  We spent days in New York City—even going through the Bowery area—and in Boston.  We survived Hurricane Bell as it swept up the coast on a night we were staying in an old conference house right along the ocean.  All this was done meaningfully and memorably for middle school students from eight of our rural churches—with many of those youth having never before traveled outside Ohio.  To put it mildly, I learnedas much as any of those kids did on that amazing adventure that Bill most of all brought into being.

   Of all that I learned from Bill, what I learned for which I am most indebted of all is this:  Bill had—and encouraged other ministers to have—a healthy disrespect for the ministry.

   It’s very easy for ministers to get caught up in their role to a point of thinking more highly of themselves or that they are more important than they actually are.  Bill always kept a healthy understanding of who he was and who all of us in ministry are.  We are very human individuals called to serve in a sacred and trusted role.  And with that “healthy disrespect” Bill’s ego—and consequently mine as he influenced me—stayed in a very healthy balance.

   Bill had a strong ministerial heritage in his family and was proud of and always honored that heritage.  And yet he found his own way to live out this sacred and trusted role.  During his career he would serve two churches—each a long and meaningful tenure that continues and always will to have impact for great ongoing blessing.  Bill served more than a decade at Sycamore United Church of Christ, and then over a quarter of a century here at Sylvania United Church of Christ.  At each of these churches Bill’s presence, his approachable nature, and his many gifts for ministry enabled him to bring lasting blessing to hundreds and hundreds of lives.  Always he was seeking to improve his abilities and sharpen his skills even more, and he did this in a number of ways.  He went on to earn his Doctor of Ministry degree, and every year he attended continuing education seminars.  It was in attending those seminars and rooming together each year that Bill and I most of all maintained and grew our friendship through these years.

   Bill could have aspired to other levels in his professional life.  But what he wanted to do most of all he did do through all of his career—and that was to serve a caring congregation that was growing in faith and mission and impact for good in the world.  Thank you, people of Sylvania UCC—and also members of Sycamore UCC—for being part of such churches that brought fulfillment for Bill even as he brought great fulfillment to you.

   Finally, Bill shared the sacred role entrusted to him so very well.  He was a true colleague.  And I must take one more moment here to say how incredibly grateful Bill was whenLuke Lindon accepted the call to share ministry with him here at Sylvania UCC.

   Bill was an outstanding minister.  I have known none finer.  And yet that was not what was best about him.  He was first of all and most significantly of all a loving husband, devoted father, proud grandfather, and amazing friend.  And it was as he fulfilled all of these most important roles that he also could speak to us and inspired us in all the ways he did as such an outstanding minister.

   Thank you, Bill.  Thank you, dear colleague and friend.  I am forever changed because you allowed me to become part of the circle of your life—even as you invited and allowed many others also to share the blessings you offered in such abundance.

   I pray that all of us in ministry will be as approachable in our work as you always were in yours, as we maintain proper balance in our personal and professional lives by having that “healthy disrespect” you had concerning the images of ministry—and which in turn led you and can lead all of us to find the healthiest of respect for what truly is a most sacred and trusted role.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Sylvania United Church of Christ
Tuesday, May 24, 2011


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Sabbatical Study 2011                        


The main focus of my Sabbatical study was the decline occurring in churches in recent years and what is happening in some churches that has them still growing--even thriving. I read many books and articles, interviewed over a dozen ministers and other church leaders in growing congregations and visited as many churches as possible. Below is the result of my study.


ADMITTING “WE CAN’T STOP THEM”—AND THEN GOING FORWARD
 
Reflections on the Present—and Hope for the Future—of Mainline Churches
 
   Each interview begins very much the same.  Before moving into the dialogue I hope to have I ask the church leader to listen to some of the serious concerns in the United Church of Christ and other mainline denominations.  Seventy per cent of UCC congregations can no longer afford a fulltime, ordained minister with denominational standing to serve their church.  The average age of UCC members nationally is 65.  We are losing five congregations for every one we gain.  The percentage of ordained clergy age 35 or younger who are serving our churches has dropped from 35% in 1970 to less than five per cent today.
 
   Then I ask them to listen to some trends that are of concern for churches across the spectrum.  Sunday mornings and Wednesday evenings, once “protected” in most communities, are now no different than other times of the week.  Church involvement has gone from being a foundation of American life to being just one of many “options.”  “None” is the fastest growing response to questions about religious involvement.  Media focus predominantly on negative stories regarding churches, and consequently younger generations are very suspicious of the Church in general, thinking of it as “out of touch,” fighting against scientific understanding, or even being “unchristian.”
 
   Each of my interviews begins in this same way, as I try to make a number of “opening statements” before our dialogue.  What happens next—and usually before I’ve had time to get through my entire list—is also the same.  The person sitting across the table is not only nodding in agreement with each statement—because he or she already knows these things—but is also eagerly adding their own examples of current downturn in the “Church”—all churches in general and mainline congregations in particular.
 
   Whether using anecdotal evidence or the findings of recent scientific surveys, most people now agree that the mainline Christian church—in strength, status, and role—is in serious decline.
 
   At the same time, however, there are many mainline churches that are thriving—gaining vitality in mission and ministry.  What is happening in these congregations that can be helpful for others to know?  This question will be a focus for this document.  In order to go forward with positive understandings, however, we must first be willing to face and admit current concerns—and what has led to them.
 
 
“WE CAN’T STOP THEM”
 
   One of the great “characters” of the past half century plus not only in baseball but across our culture has been Yogi Berra.  In addition to having a long career with the New York Yankees and being one of the best catchers in baseball history, Yogi often made statements on a variety of subjects that came out in very humorous ways, with many of his quotes becoming part of our ongoing lexicon.  For example, it was he who said, “When you come to a fork in the road, take it!”
 
   Many of his statements, while silly in one way, may also offer insights as they change how we see something that is otherwise overly familiar.  My favorite Yogi quote came during a time when attendance at Major League baseball games had dropped.  A reporter asked him what he thought about this and what should be done about it.  “Hey,” Yogi responded, “if the people aren’t going to come to the ballpark, we can’t stop them!”  Trying to “stop” people from “not attending” creates quite a picture— worthy of comparison to some of the hyperbolic statements of Jesus (i.e. “a log in one’s eye”).  It’s impossible—and invites further thought from a new perspective.
 
   Over the past decade and more the evidence that people are staying away from churches—and can’t be stopped—has been mounting.  A majority of people in the youngest two generations have not grown up with an expectation of attendance at worship or Sunday school. The evidence is also clear that this change has hit our society’s most established churches—those in the “mainline”—hardest of all.
 
   Eden Seminary President, David Greenhaw, notes that the very strength of mainline churches for so many generations eventually led to our greatest weakness.  We were in the privileged position of placing church buildings in what were the best locations—amid farming regions and highly populated areas of cities (especially with certain ethnic groupings).  As inner city populations lessened or changed in make-up, and as the number of farm families decreased in rural settings, the people available for active involvement in these churches also decreased dramatically.  Many of these buildings were constructed for large congregations and have physically deteriorated while also becoming too large for their current congregations.  Thus these once proudly placed buildings can require all the resources those left in them can muster just to maintain them.
 
   Costs related to having a full-time minister have also risen at a rate greater than the budget many congregations can support, meaning that the traditional understanding of full-time ministry cannot be offered by such congregations.  The possibilities for growth in ministry and mission—or of having more than a “maintenance” ministry—are thus even further decreased.
 
   There were over 100 churches in the UCC Association in which I began my ministry and nearly all of them paid at least a living wage to a minister.  Now less than half are doing so.  In an Association where I served three decades ago, one of its counties had ten active UCC churches.  Recently I learned that among those ten, two have since closed, some share a minister, and others have part-time pastoral leadership.  The focus for each changed from thriving to surviving—with not all of them doing even that.
 
   While we have become acutely aware of these issues in recent years, they have actually been occurring for several decades—if not centuries.  Again, it was David Greenhaw whom I first heard state that the largest predecessor part of the United Church of Christ, the Congregational Church, while being the strongest cultural force in America after the time of the first Pilgrim and Puritan landings in 1620 and 1630, actually began to decline as a percentage of American population as early as the 1740’s.
 
   It was in 1964 (coincidentally the final “Baby Boom” birth year) that mainline denominations experienced their first decline in actual numbers on membership rolls.  That trend has not changed.  I began to serve my first church in 1973 and in each year for the next decade plus a report would come from national headquarters telling how many our losses had been during the previous year.  It seemed, however, that little attention was being paid in response.  After all, we were strong—we were “the churches” and we knew it.  Why worry about being just a “little less dominant” than we had been a year before?  Inevitably, though, as American population continued to increase at an average of one per cent per year while mainline church rolls decreased at an average of one per cent each of those same years, the numbers could no longer be ignored.
 
   People “were not coming to our ball parks” in ever greater degrees—and we could not stop them.  We especially could not stop them as we continued to do only what we had been doing for so many years before.  The “good old days” were over, whether or not we were ready to admit it.  Actually they had been over for some time.
 
 
MEGA TRENDS ACROSS THE BOARD
 
   The Church is not the only institution that has been experiencing such changes in recent decades.  Masonic orders have had drastic decreases in active involvement.  Service clubs struggle to attract the numbers they once did.  Even such enterprises as bowling leagues are less prevalent than they once were, as more people prefer “bowling alone” to the commitment of being part of an organized group gathering at a certain time and place.
 
   Consider also the reductions in the newspaper industry, once a staple of American communication.  The peak year for newspaper readership was 1964, matching exactly the time of decline in “subscription lists” for mainline churches.
 
   The decline of the American automobile industry is yet another example.  I worked at an auto factory in my college summers of 1969 and 1970.  At that time no one could have imagined the decline in sales and overall “customer loyalty” that were not far off—or what would have to take place for this once dominant industry even to survive, much less again compete.
 
   Having been born in 1950—not at the very beginning but early in the Baby Boom years—I have had a good viewing point from which to see the vast changes that have occurred during the past six decades.  My childhood was in the 1950’s, when Sundays were protected days.  I remember how my father would be sure to buy gas on Saturday if we would be visiting relatives the next day, as gas stations were not open on Sunday.  My teen years coincided with the challenges and changes of the 1960’s, and my ministry began in the 1970’s when mainline churches still assumed unchallenged strength and influence, even though trends to the contrary were already in place.
 
   Through each decade since the seventies, these trends have not only continued but gained momentum.  It was in 1980 that I heard Lyle Schaller observe how many small churches there were in mainline denominations with an average age of members that would make us think they would cease to exist in another decade.  Yet, he confidently went on, they had continued at their same relative strength for several decades already and almost certainly would for many more.  Three decades later such a statement can no longer be made, as many of these congregations have indeed closed since while countless others are barely surviving.
 
   Values differences between older and younger generations have certainly been major factors in bringing decline to local churches.  Staying active and supportive because this was “Grandpa’s church” is no longer a motivating factor for younger adults.  Yes, they will make appearances on special occasions, but the kind of ongoing support required to keep a church vital will not be given.  Most likely these members of younger generational are not involved in any church, and if they are it is likely one large enough to offer perks and packages for their family that “Grandpa’s church” could not dream of providing.
 
   The greatest change of all, however, has been in the overall understanding of the role and importance of “church” in our culture.  The immensity in change from the attitudes and realities about Sunday that I recall from the 1950’s to those of today is difficult to put into words.  Recently I attended Sunday morning worship at a small congregation I had learned was “making a comeback” after being near to closing.  On the way to this church I drove past a long stretch of soccer fields.  Every one of those fields was in use, filled with youth and adult leagues alike, playing games that are scheduled there on every Sunday morning of the year that weather allows.  The number of worshipers at the church I then attended was encouraging compared to what had recently been.  Yet I could not help wondering how many such congregations would be required to equal the number of people at just that one stretch of soccer fields that same Sunday morning.
 
 
NO LONGER “EXPECTING THE SAME RESULTS”
 
   One of the great hymns of our tradition includes a very powerful line: “New occasions teach new duties.”  (“Once to Every Man and Nation,” James Russell Lowell)  Mainline congregations have been singing these words for more than a century.  Not very often, however, has the message actually been heeded.  Many jokes are made about the “Seven Last Words of the Church” (“We’ve never done it that way before!”).  Unfortunately, this is not so much a joke as a commentary on what has been true for too long in congregations that assume they are at the center of things (in the “mainline!”) and thus have no need to change.
 
   We are also familiar with the oft-used definition of insanity: Doing the same things while expecting different results.  Through the decades since our downturn began undeniably in 1964 we have continued to think that if we do the same things we have been doing—perhaps just a “little better”—then the results will be different.  Then we can go “all the way back to the 1950’s” (the ideal that many churches still have).
 
   Rev. Robert Molsberry, United Church of Christ Ohio Conference Minister, preached a compelling sermon upon his arrival in Ohio.  Jesus instructed his disciples to “fish for people” and “cast out into the deep.”  The disciples, however, were instead washing their nets.  (Luke 5:1-11)  “This is very much what the Church has been doing,” Rev. Molsberry stated.  “We are busy washing our nets and placing them along the shore.  ‘Look how clean and attractive they are,’ we announce, expecting the fish to come out of the water and jump right into them!”
 
   We expect the standards and messages that worked with the Duty and Builder generations to work equally well today.  “Surely the fish will come to us and we don’t need to ‘cast out into the deep’ or be present ‘where the fish are now swimming!’”
 
   For a long time we in mainline settings have done the same things while expecting different results—even old (1950’s) results—to follow.  Perhaps we are at last ready to try for new results by remaining faithful to the best of our traditions as we also see “new occasions” and ask what “new duties” we are being called to perform.
 
 
GOD’S CALL TO “NEW DUTIES”

   After decades of denying the realities of decline, we can no longer do so.  Unfortunately, many church leaders have now moved so far as to be stuck in another “stage of grief”—depression.  “We are dying,” I hear many of our most committed folks say, “and”—many go on to assume—“there is nothing we can do in response.”

   What a blessing it was to hear Rev. Laurinda Hafner (Senior Minister of the Congregational United Church of Christ in Coral Gables, Florida), who was the Sunday preacher at the 2011 UCC General Synod Meeting in Tampa, Florida.  “It is time to stop moaning that we are a dying church,” she proclaimed, “and instead claim the faithful and vital role God has called our congregations to have in this time.”

   Consider these faithful and vital realities—and the possible “new duties” that follow.

   Those of “Generation X” (born 1964 or 65 through the very early 1980’s) and the “Millennial Generation” (born early 80’s through the end of the 1990’s) do not give financially to charitable causes in the same ways that previous generations did.  I am not referring here to the fact that they don’t give by check or in church envelopes on a weekly basis, although these things are also largely true.  (Many stewardship studies are being done on how to enable younger adults to give in ways that fit their financial lifestyles—by electronic fund transfers, credit card payments, even giving by cell phone—and these and other approaches all need further consideration.)  What I am speaking of here is that younger generations do not give simply “because it’s the right thing to do” (in other words, out of duty to cause and trust of institution).  Rather, they give only when they know their dollars are making a difference in changing lives and when they understand
how those dollars are being used.

   I confess that I am among those who once rued such changes, because dire calculations can be made about how much less money churches will eventually receive because of them.  I am now beginning to see, however, that this may actually be the challenge that will redirect us toward a stronger future.  As long as churches could count on the giving of enough members “no matter what” (or of the endowment dollars they had bequeathed years before) there was little need to change anything.  Thus many patterns continued even as declines were occurring, which added all the more to those declines.

   For decades we have talked about younger people as the “future of the church.”  In many churches even those in their forties are spoken of in this “seemingly caring” but actually pejorative way.  Younger adults, teens, and also children are not the “future” of churches but a vital part of the Body of Christ today, and must be seen in this way.  They must also be treated in this way—and fully included now—because the Church cannot continue in any other way.

   Here’s the good news.  It is that by listening to and including the influences of—and understanding what is important to—Generation X, Millennial Generation members, and those even younger, the Church can be as relevant as it has ever been, and as relevant as the world needs it to be (and these needs are greater than ever before).

   Here is more good news.  It is that younger generations truly do care about spiritual matters and faith questions.  Certainly there are different ways they hear and respond to the Christian message, but they do want to hear it and are open to being impacted by it.  I see evidence of the searching of young people about spiritual and faith related matters every day.  Very seriously and deeply they are questioning and searching.

   Churches must take younger people seriously.  Hear their questions and develop programs in which they can ask them.  And—not later but now—include them in the life of the church.  This means having children, teens, and younger adults be visible and take leadership in worship services, activities within and beyond church doors, and decision-making that guides the congregation.

   Theologian Emil Brunner declared that “the church exists by mission as a fire exists by burning.”  Never has it been truer than it is today that a church must have a mission focus—with clear and celebrated involvements that are changing lives in its local setting and beyond—if it is to remain vital.  Younger people demand this, and it is right that they do.  Every church I have studied that is vital and growing—regardless of size of congregation—is increasing and celebrating mission involvements and offering clear and welcoming ways to be part of them.

   Worship must be a time of meaning and joy.  Calling it “traditional” or “contemporary” is not what matters—being relevant does.  This means including both long-standing worship elements and new expressions of praise and technology.  It means experiencing energy among participants even as inner reflection is also encouraged.  It means having a number of individuals or groups in leadership during the service, and not the minister alone providing it.

  “What does the Bible—and what do the faith stories of those around me—say in response to what is happening in the world and what is happening in my life today?”  As worshipers return to their daily lives with insight and hope related to these questions, they will want to experience such renewing worship again soon.

   Not “adding members” but “making disciples” must be the priority for churches.  This means being aware of the individual journey each person is making and helping each person to follow the way of Jesus.

   The church community must be inclusive of all who seek sincerely to follow Jesus.  It was Jesus himself who declared and best of all demonstrated this.  Younger generations have no desire to be part of groups (especially ones calling themselves churches) that do not welcome and include everyone and even spend vital time and resources trying to keep “certain people” out.  Churches holding on to old prejudices about who can or cannot be involved will become even less relevant in coming years.

   Finally, we must understand that a church gathers not only within its building, but wherever “two or more gather” in Christ’s name.  Referring again to Rev. Molsberry’s quote, we can no longer wait on the shore for fish to jump into our nets, but must find ways to be present as a community of faith in varieties of settings.  This may take the form of a mission endeavor or through an inviting study group, singing experience, or other activity that is held “where people are.”

 
UNDERSTANDING SOME THINGS WILL CHANGE…

   One of the people I interviewed for this project was Dr. Richard Wing, Senior Minister of First Community Church in Columbus, Ohio.  While sitting with him in a restaurant I realized that at a nearby table was a young man whose wedding I had performed about four years earlier.  He and his fiancée had looked for a church not only for their wedding, but to join and make their church home.  I enjoyed immensely getting to know them as we prepared for their wedding and welcomed them into active involvement in our church.  For a year after their wedding they were active in worship and more.  Then their involvement lessened and eventually stopped.

   I wondered if I should go over to speak to him, not knowing if it would be awkward.  I decided I would, and when I did Jason welcomed me warmly and caught me up on how he and his wife are doing.  I then returned to our table and briefly told Dr. Wing the situation, and how sad I was still about losing them from our congregation.

   “I know what you’re saying,” he assured me, “and I used to feel the same.  Finally, I began to look at this differently.  I realized that people become involved in churches for many reasons.  For some there is a need that lasts for a season of their lives and then they move on—similar to attending a university in pursuit of a degree.  Perhaps they go from ours to a different church and perhaps to none, but in either case we must be grateful that we were an important part of their lives for however long that season lasted.”  Dr. Wing’s wisdom has been a great blessing for me.

   It used to be that people who joined a church would be part of it for as long as they lived in that community.  For many people this is no longer true.  Not long after that “restaurant encounter” I received a voice mail response to a message I had left with another family, telling them I had missed them and hoped to reconnect soon.  In this return message Shawn thanked me for my concern and told me they had been meaning to “let me know.”  They were now attending and probably would join a different church.  He then said this:  “Thank you for everything you have done for our family.  We will always have special memories—most of all that our daughters were baptized at your church.  It’s nothing you’ve done.  It’s just a new time in our lives.” Even meaningful baptisms of children no longer assure that a family will remain in a church if “a new time in their lives” comes about.  Rather than focusing on personal sadness when someone moves on from our congregation, I now try to focus on celebrating what we did for them—and they for us—during the season that we shared.

   Another change from previous years is that people may be on multiple faith or spiritual paths at once, with areas of influence in addition to those expressed in our church.  Rather than seeing this as a threat or being closed to other expressions, we can instead celebrate that we have much to learn as well as offer in such cases.  The church I serve has people of many faith backgrounds and all add greatly to what we share.  Several of our formerly Catholic members continue to make the sign of the cross after prayers during worship services.  While this would once have caused shock waves in a Protestant church, I feel blessed each time I witness it and often want to join in the sincerity of their expression.  Recently a beloved friend of one of our members—a person who had become part of the Buddhist faith—died, and his family had no place to hold a memorial service for him.  We welcomed them into our sanctuary, using portions of both Buddhist and Christian traditions, and this was a meaningful experience not only for members of his family and faith community but for those of our congregation who attended.  Wedding ceremonies for Christian/Jewish or other “mixed background” couples can offer teaching (as well as touching) moments.  Many churches now offer yoga classes—with understanding about its Hindu roots as part of the sessions.  Teaching about and trying to promote understanding of Islam and its scriptures in our churches is now more important than ever.

   For people of all ages—and especially younger generations—new styles and approaches to “doing and being church” must be welcomed.  Through my involvement in Rotary I am aware of changes being approved for new clubs in this international organization.  No longer is the “60% attendance at meetings rule” enforced.  As a matter of fact, what constitutes an “official Rotary gathering” is being modified to welcome younger men and women who would rather gather as a group for a service project or at a bar for conversation than go through the formalities that have for the past century defined what an official meeting must contain.  While this is being met with resistance by some, it is moving forward, giving this international service club its best chance not only to hold on but to grow in the service that is its core value.

   So also we in the church must hold our core values highest of all, knowing that function is more important than form.  Here are three core values of our United Church of Christ as clarified by David Greenhaw.  One: Faith and critical thinking are inextricably bound.  Two: Responsibility to the social world in which we live is inseparable from the spiritual values that we embrace.  Three: We are not afraid of differences, believing that those who are different from our current majority in religious expression, in race or ethnicity, or in sexual orientation, can bring blessing to us.  These have always been our core values.  It is more important than ever to live them.

 
…AND SOME THINGS WILL NOT

   My congregation granted me time away to study churches that are remaining vital and even growing during this period of downturn for so many.  It happened that just as my time away was to begin my mother entered Hospice care, so I spent the first three weeks of this planned time with her and other family members as her life on earth was completed and celebrated.

   At first I assumed that because of this change for that considerable portion of the time, I would have to accept learning far less related to my study.  As those days went on, however, I came to realize that I was experiencing firsthand the most important lesson of all—and which matters above everything else in vital churches.  Throughout those weeks the people of my congregation did extraordinary things as they held me and my family in prayer and offered countless other expressions of support.  I was amazed, humbled—and most of all grateful—to receive such gifts of grace.

   I realize more than ever through this personal experience that this is what has always mattered most of all—and always will—in vital churches.  A community of faith that is supporting, guiding, and loving its own folks, especially in times of need, and that reaches beyond to share Christ’s love with others who are in times of need—is and always will be what the Church most of all is called to be and do.

   Not the number on the roll or the amount of money in the endowment fund determines the vitality of a church.  Rather, the presence of the Living Christ made known in the congregation’s gathering and reaching out does.  This can happen in many forms.  It can happen with full-time clergy serving the church or with shared leadership involving a part-time ordained person and trusted congregational members to provide such leadership.

   As mentioned earlier I recently drove past a long stretch of soccer fields on a Sunday morning—with every field in use—and then worshiped at a smaller membership church.  On that drive I was dismayed to think of how many people were at those fields compared the number who might be in the church I would attend that same morning.

   It is true that the worshiping congregation that morning was only about 70.  But they were a vital 70!  While the percentage of younger adults and children was not as great as that of older generations, people of all ages were present—and the children and youth were clearly loved and included in the life of the congregation and the flow of the worship.  Upcoming mission opportunities were highlighted, there was a joyful energy throughout the hour, and their relationship with their minister was one of blessing.  As a result their church was showing growth in numbers.  The numbers could hardly compare with how many people were on those soccer fields that same morning, but the people of this church were experiencing something far more meaningful—experiencing what will impact the world in ways a Sunday morning soccer match never could.

   As long as there are congregations that embrace the spirit and presence of Christ, there will be people who hear the call to serve in pastoral and other roles of leadership in them.  As long as there are congregations embracing and sharing Christ’s love, the Church will continue to find ways not only to survive but to thrive in this new century, as it has through the challenges of each of twenty centuries before.

   No, if people “aren’t going to come” we can’t stop them!  But we will be able still to find ways to meet, embrace, and welcome many.  Our newest occasions require new duties—even while holding on to the best of what has been.  Whether for a season or for an entire lifetime what is shared in such communities of faith will translate not just into welcoming church members, but into making disciples, and in turn these disciples will change the world just as it has always been changed—by transforming lives one at a time.  In new and vital ways, may the abundant life in this world and eternal life beyond promised by Jesus be proclaimed.

Rev. Harold Steindam, Senior Minister
Westerville Community United Church of Christ, Westerville, Ohio
July 31, 2011


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Thanksgiving Eve Worship                        


AN EARLY VIEW FROM THE HILL

Matthew 5:14-16

Wednesday, November 23, 2011 -- Thanksgiving Eve Worship 

   Dear Fellow Saints.  I wish to thank Elder Brewster for his presentation this evening concerning the care we provide for our fellow saints who are in greatest need at this time.  I also wish to thank him for allowing me to take leadership of this portion of our special mid-week service.  Usually Elder Brewster speaks God’s Word to us, but at this service, as your Governor, I have asked to do so—to give a “State of our Community” address to you.
 
   Today is November 23, 1627—very nearly seven years since our arrival on these shores in December of 1620.  This has been our seventh and thus Sabbath year of life here—a very important Biblical year.  We remember only too well the hardships of our first winter, which was just beginning as we arrived.  What sorrowful months those were.  Of the 102 of us who came here, barely fifty of us were still alive when spring at last arrived.
 
   We prayed continuously for God’s providence throughout those desperate days.  One of our greatest fears, you will recall, was how we would be treated by natives here.  We had heard stories that caused great trepidation.  But then—praise be to God!—in the April of 1621 the first of the natives came to our settlement—and his first word was “Welcome!”  His name was Samoset, and he spoke a little English.  He then introduced us to Squanto, who spoke even better English.  Squanto, we learned, had once been captured by some Englishmen who tried to make a slave of him.  He was able to escape—but not until he had learned their language—all part of God’s plan to help us, I am sure.
 
   We also remember the day we happened upon their tribe’s storage of corn.  We were so hungry that we ate much of it.  We didn’t know it was their corn for seed and in doing this we were stealing from them.  In spite of that—and in spite of how he had been treated by other white settlers—Squanto was very kind to us, even teaching us how to plant crops that grow best in this soil.  By autumn’s harvest we had such joy, knowing there would be ample food for winter.  How right it was to have a harvest worship and feast in thanksgiving—and of course to welcome the natives who had blessed us so.
 
   This is now the seventh year of such a celebration.  I do not know if this idea of such an annual feast and time of worship and thanksgiving will continue long into the years ahead, but I do know how important and right it is for us at this time to reflect and once again give thanks.
 
   In the address I made to you seven years ago—while we were yet aboard our dear Mayflower—I spoke of God’s providence and destiny for us.  I cited the words of Jesus in His Sermon on the Mount as recorded in the Gospel of Matthew: “A city set on a hill cannot be hid.”  I could hear God saying to us that this place where we were arriving to settle would always be a “shining city set on a hill,” and I was convinced that God’s greatest providence would always be upon this land, whatever might be ahead.  Let us reflect further on some of what has already occurred—and what may yet be—for this shining city.
 
   First of all, I remind you of what caused us to set out from our homeland and dare to sojourn to this New World.  It was and will always be our desire to worship as we see right.  We could not abide having bishops in fancy robes in some far away place telling us what we must do.  God’s Holy Spirit speaks to each of us and we listen and we follow accordingly.  If some want to call us “Congregational,” so be it.  For, indeed, we believe that our congregation—and every congregation—should in prayer and discernment be able to govern itself.  May such a spirit as this spread to all parts of this land, and may freedom ring always in every part of it!
 
   With worship as our reason for being and for being here, I am most grateful that we began as soon as was possible to build our house of worship.  In only our second year—1622—we began the construction that took over a year to complete.  Since that time of completion we have not failed to gather in this blessed space every Sabbath Day—and for other occasions of worship such as this one.  Praise God for this consecrated space.
 
   Next, I speak to you of the way of life for our women and children.  They do follow all Godly ways and precepts from Holy Scripture.  For this one time of special worship we are sitting together—with men and women and families actually being allowed to intermingle!  I assure you that on the coming Sabbath we will return to what we know is proper, with men on one side and women the other, so that there will be no distractions during Elder Brewster’s teaching.  We follow all Biblical precepts, and our understanding is that there should be equality of opportunity for all.  Some may call this a system of “free enterprise,” in which our women and even our children are allowed along with the men to work and prosper as they are able.  Such enterprise has already blessed us abundantly, and it is my fervent prayer that such an open system may continue for all years ahead in this bounteous land.
 
   Finally, I speak to you of our beloved pastor, John Robinson.  While other congregations with similar principles to ours hoped they could work with the Anglican Church to purify it—and therefore they are often called “Puritans”—Pastor Robinson helped us to see that we needed to separate from that church in order to be free—and so “Separatists” we are often called, especially since we made our pilgrimage here.  Pastor Robinson inspired and aided us in all our plans.  We were so sure that he would set sail with us in 1620, but he thought it best to wait with the others and then travel in the next voyage a year or two later.
 
   Sadly that meant that we would be here for a time without a leader ordained in the ministry.  But, again, how grateful we are for Elder Brewster, who has led us so faithfully!  Twice an ordained minister traveled from our homeland to serve us, but sadly neither worked out.  One was so poorly suited for this life that he returned to England at his first opportunity.  The second was so poor a leader that we returned him to England at the first opportunity!  Each year we prayed would be the one when Pastor Robinson would join us.  But never was he able—and then, only last year, we received the sorrowful news that he had taken ill and died.  May God rest his soul in eternal peace! 
   And may God continue to hear our prayers of thanksgiving for Elder Brewster, who continues faithfully still to lead our devotional lives.
 
   Do you remember the words that Pastor Robinson spoke to us in his sermon on our departure more than seven years ago?  He preached inspired us for our journey—and the very last words he said to us were these: “Remember, God hath yet more light and truth to break forth from Holy Word.”  What an important guiding lesson this has been!  God is still speaking to us.  God’s Word is not closed but open.  We must always be praying, studying, and listening to what new understandings God yet wants us to learn from the pages of Holy Scripture.
 
   In the first book of the New Testament of this Holy Word, Jesus speaks to His disciples from the mountain.  “You are the light of the world,” He says to all of us.  “A city built on a hill cannot be hid.”  How thankful we are to know that we are the light and we do not desire to hide our light under a bushel basket, but to set it on a lamp-stand where it will give illumination to all.
 
   Yes, after seven years I am even more convinced that God has called us to be—and we are—“a shining city set on a hill.”  With all the providence of our lives—the light of God’s Word, the bounty of this land, the friendship of the natives, and our own industrious and joyous labor offered on all days except the Sabbath—I am certain that this light will spread and will shine not only in each of our own houses, not only in our community, and even not only in our land, but to all the world.
 
   In my mind’s eye I look far into the future—to imagine people twelve generations hence.  I imagine my great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great granddaughter.  Perhaps her name will be Anne—and she will live and serve with the saints of a congregation many miles from here, but one that has come into being from the same spirit we share today.  To live humbly and to serve to others—and always to worship God freely—these will be her values and the values of those around her.
 
   No, I cannot say for sure what will be ahead.  But I know what has already transpired and how greatly God has blessed us thus far.  And I can only begin to imagine the blessing that will continue to spread through us from this shining city set on a hill—and how this light will illuminate the world.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam—as Governor William Bradford
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
November 23, 2011
Thanksgiving Eve Worship
 
With Scott Marier, Executive Director of WARM, in the role of Elder Brewster, and Anne Blaisdell, a direct descendent of Governor Bradford, as referenced at the ending.



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Advent Wednesdays                        


SIMPLY WAIT

Mark 13:32-37

Wednesday, November 30, 2011 -- Midweek Advent Reflection Service 

   I don’t know why it happened—and take no credit for it.  It simply did happen—that as this Advent Season began last Sunday, and for each of its four days so far, I have been open to God’s blessings, and thus have found myself receiving God’s blessings in some deep and meaningful ways.
 
   As I said, I don’t know why—and the fact that I don’t know why is probably part of the reason for it.  It simply happened and continues to happen.  I could and did not make it happen.  It simply did—and is—and I pray that it will continue.
 
   In the novel, Siddhartha, by Hermann Hesse, as the title character makes his journey to various places, he is often asked what his resources or talents are.  And every time his answer is the same.  “I can pray; I can fast, and I can wait,” Siddhartha says, over and over again.
 
   As I read this novel, at first when Siddhartha would say this I found myself thinking: “Well, that isn’t much!  Being able to do those things won’t get you very far!”  But as the story continued, I began slowly to realize just how powerful each of these gifts is.  Especially the ability to wait—what strength there is in being able to do that!
 
   The title of the devotional booklet we are giving out at our church for this Advent Season is, “What Are We Waiting For?”  This title reminds me of a song by a couple named Jim and Jean Stroedee.  The song has a refrain that says, “What we do while we’re waiting depends on what we’re waiting for.”  This is a concept worth much more reflection.  What we do while we are waiting depends on what we are waiting for.
 
   In the Advent Season, what are we doing—and why?  What are we waiting for?
 
   During the early years of my ministry, I got sick every single year during the week after Christmas.  I would either come down with a terrible cold or get the flu or contract some other malady.  I finally realized that this was a result of the letdown and exhaustion I had, which in turn made me quite vulnerable to getting sick.  But even more than that it had to do with what it was that I had been waiting for and working toward throughout the Advent Season.  My entire focus was on getting through it, getting things done, getting things checked off the list.  And so, when finally I “got there”—I crashed.  That was the “reward” for all my work because all I was waiting for was to be finished with it.
 
   I’m pretty sure God wants each of us to receive and experiences much more than only this during Advent and then Christmas.  Just checking off the list—just getting through or getting things done—is not meant to be the intention or the result.  And I’m also certain that God does not want us to experience a huge “post Christmas let-down” and maybe even illness afterward, but rather the greatest of fulfillment and blessing when we do indeed arrive at Bethlehem on Christmas Day.
 
   A few minutes ago we heard a portion of the Gospel lesson for the First Sunday of Advent.  I’ve never been a big fan of the Scriptures for the First Sunday of Advent, because they always have to do with what is called “The Second Coming” or return of Jesus.  The idea of preparing for or expecting “The Second Coming” causes great anxiety for many people—and many predictions are made about it.  During this year of 2011, as I’m sure you remember, there were two such predictions that made the news, both by a radio minister named Harold Camp.  First he predicted “The End” would come in May, and then declared that he had made a “slight miscalculation,” and that Jesus would return and the end would take place in October.  As you may have noticed, both of his predictions—like every other such prediction ever made—did not turn out to be true.
 
   In this Scripture Jesus talks about “keeping awake” for when this will happen—which has always added to my anxiety.  This is because my interpretation of this has always been that we had better be alert and ready for the Second Coming every minute.
 
   What Jesus stresses more than anything else in this passage, however, is that no one knows or could ever predict when this will happen.  Even Jesus Himself, while on earth, did not know.  Only God knows.  Finally I have come to realize that this teaching of Jesus is not intended to cause us anxiety, but to lead us to let go and trust God.
 
   The final words of Jesus in the passage—“Keep awake”—do not mean that we should be trying every minute to calculate the date of Jesus’ return, as Harold Camp and countless others have done before him, but rather do be open right now to the blessings of God that are here for us.  These are not blessings that we get by “predicting and calculating a date” or blessings we can make happen in any other way.  Instead, we simply need to accept them.
 
   This is what Advent is meant more than anything else to be about.  In this season, we simply wait.  And as we wait we allow God’s blessings to come to us and we are guided from there in all we say, do, and give—guided to have whatever there will be on our lists of things to get done.  And then, Christmas does indeed come.  And it comes not with letdown or illness, but with the greatest of fulfillment.
 
   “What we do while we are waiting depends on what we are waiting for.”  We are waiting for a birth.  We are waiting for the birth—of God Himself into our world and into each of our lives.  Maybe, just maybe, by admitting that I can’t explain why I’m feeling more blessing in this season is the best explanation of why it is so.  It isn’t about me and my lists.  It’s about God and God’s promises.  And it isn’t up to me or even up to my greatest efforts.  It’s up to God and the amazing power of God’s grace.
 
   So together, let’s “simply wait.”
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
Midweek Advent Reflection Service
November 30, 2011


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Christmas Eve                        

POWERFULLY PRESENT

Luke 2:1-7

Saturday, December 24, 2011 -- Christmas Eve 

   Tillie, a member of a church I used to serve, was an extremely caring and concerned person.  One Sunday I preached a sermon about a rather harrowing experience I had had the week before.  This was long before the days of cell phones or GPS systems—or even a “Triple A” membership, in my case—and my car had broken down in a remote area where I did not know anyone.  In my sermon I told about some of the things I had experienced while in that very vulnerable and uncertain situation—not knowing how I would get out of it and needing to rely on the help of complete strangers.
 
   When the service ended I went to one of the doorways to greet worshipers, and I could see Tillie practically fighting her way past other people to make it to me.  When she did she grabbed my hands and looked at me with such worry on her face.  “Oh, Pastor,” she cried out, “did you ever make it back home?”
 
   I wanted to say, “Tillie, I’m right here talking to you—of course I made it back home!”  Tillie, however, wasn’t convinced and wanted to know how I had made it back, so I gave her a brief explanation.  Only then did that very worried look on her face begin to disappear.
 
   We have heard again this evening the simplest story—and yet the most beautiful and powerful story the world has ever been told.  We read how Joseph and Mary had to travel from their home in Nazareth all the way to Bethlehem—the equivalent of two states away—because of government regulations at the time.  Bethlehem was a long way from home for them—not only without a cell phone or GPS, but traveling by donkey—and with Mary nine months pregnant.
 
   In that crowded city where they do not know anyone and cannot find usual accommodations, they realize that right here and right now Mary is going into labor!  “While they were there,” we read, “the time came for her to deliver her child.”  “Oh,” I can hear Tillie crying out at this point: “will they ever make it back home?”  Then we hear the next sentence, and it changes everything—in this story, in the world and in each of our lives.  “And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.”
 
   Author Wendell Berry has written, “It gets darker and darker—and then Jesus is born.”  It gets darker and darker, and then Jesus is born.
 
   I think often of dear Tillie and how naïve she was.  But now I find myself asking, could it be that I am the one who is naïve?
 
   Yes, I am here—and safe—right now.  You can see that.  But did this “just happen” or have I been blessed in countless times and ways that this is so?  None of us “just happens” to be here.  Every one of us has had times of being the recipient of God’s incredible gifts of grace, blessed by the kindness of strangers, and guided by the light of providence that has shown on our path.
 
   There have been many times when it got darker and darker—and then Jesus was born.  How did that light break forth at just the right time?  What caused that person who would never see me again to be so kind?  Where did I find the strength to do what I needed to do at just the right moment?
 
   Tillie is right.  What is most important cannot be taken for granted.  It got darker and darker—and then Jesus was born.  And that is how and that is why I am here, safely back home, as you are as well.
 
   Karen Carpenter, with her exquisite voice, many years ago recorded a song that first introduced me to the idea of “Christmas” as a verb!  In this song she is away from the one she loves and for that person she sings, “But I can dream, and in my dreams I’m ‘Christmasing’ with you.”  “Christmasing”—is that a word?  My “spell check” doesn’t think so.  “Christmas”—is this a verb?  My “grammar check” doesn’t think so.
 
   And yet as surely as Tillie wants to know how I got back before she can be sure that I am back, just that surely “Christmas” is more a verb than a noun.  Christmas is a verb—a verb of action and a verb of being—the being of God’s powerful presence in our lives, and the verb of our being powerfully present in the lives of others.
 
   One of the most remarkable people of the 19th century was Philips Brooks.  Philips Brooks is best known today as the author of the beautiful hymn we sang earlier in this service.  “O Little Town of Bethlehem,” he wrote, “how still we see thee lie.  The hopes and fears of all the years are met in thee tonight.”  Philips Brooks had the gift of writing beautifully, and from everything I have learned about him that beautiful poetry came forth as an expression of what was most remarkable of all about him—and that was his presence—his powerful presence.
 
   In the 19th century, newspapers were the major communication form.  They were then what the internet is today.  Facebook today has nothing on what newspapers communicated at that time about people’s lives day to day and even hour to hour.  Here is a brief portion of an article in one of the daily papers of that time telling what happened in their town one day.  “The day opened cloudy and with overall gloom.  But then at noon Philips Brooks came downtown and everything brightened.”
 
   I think about such a person that his presence brightened and changed everything—and I realize that this is what God’s light through Christ has done for each of us.  “Emmanuel—God us”—Christmas is a verb because it changes everything for us.  And then, having received this great gift, we are called by God to extend it to others.
 
   How often people say, “Why doesn’t somebody do something?”  Could you or I be that “somebody”?  Mahatma Gandhi said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.”  Or, as a simple poem puts it, “The love in your heart wasn’t put there to stay.  Love isn’t love till you give it away.”

   “It gets darker and darker—and then Jesus is born.”  Mary and Joseph—with baby Jesus—would make it home safely.  And so have you and I.
 
   Because we have made it home, we are now able to help someone else also make it home.  When someone is lost or in despair—you or I can be the powerful presence to help that person make it safely home.
 
   Yes, I am here—and I will no longer be naïve enough to take this for granted.  I am here because when it was darkest for me, Jesus was born.  And because Jesus was born and lives in me I can be powerfully present for someone else.  So can you.  We can change “Christmas” from a noun to a verb each time that we, by our presence, help lift the gloom so that someone can see his or her way safely home.
 
Rev. Harold Steindam
Westerville Community United Church of Christ
December 24, 2011
Christmas Eve



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